Housework and submission.

[curiousjen]

When I do housework it usually means one of two things is going on.

1.) I'm really upset and likely putting things in order before I leave. If I go into a cleaning frenzy, stay the hell out of the way and don't try to talk to me or touch me until I wind down.

2.) We have company coming.

Yep. That's the way it goes...submission and housework? Probably not happening for me in this lifetime.

Fury

I hear ya, totally and utterly. my parents came visiting last weekend and the house has never looked so tidy. Before that it was a shit tip for weeks on end. Sometimes, i just snap, though and it HAS to be tidy.

 

[FurryFury]

I hear ya, totally and utterly. my parents came visiting last weekend and the house has never looked so tidy. Before that it was a shit tip for weeks on end. Sometimes, i just snap, though and it HAS to be tidy.

I'm like that too but not very damn often!

LOL!

The house has to be neat and smell right but dust bunnies? They are cool! I'm gonna start selling em on E'bay some dummy will buy em!

Fury

 

[catalina_francisco]

Bump?

 

[Primalex]

Bump?

Bleh. I was about to reply to someone who didn't post at all the last 2,5 years.

 

[sexycaz22]

Bleh. I was about to reply to someone who didn't post at all the last 2,5 years.

So? You could still reply, your POV might be interesting for other people, even if the OP is not around.

 

[SubKekiLee]

for me If I had a TPE relationship Id love for my housework to be part of it, recently due to my moms passing id had ignored my house and the mail and the general stuff around my house but I came home sunday and realized it snapped and I got into and I have this fantasy that Ill be in the middle of dishes or cleaning or something 'domestic" and Sir will make me do something..... to pleasure him he will take me right where I am .. such as oral servitude....

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I do most of the housework and I prefer it that way. If he decides to 'help' or 'give me a break' he elicits a nameless dread in me that not even waving a flogger at me does these days.

I've already dissuaded him from washing any of my clothes. I'll end up permanently naked, not that he'll mind. He refuses to learn how to iron his own shirts too, despite the fact that at some point he'll need a shirt and I won't be around.

Masters: Can't live with 'em, can't outrun 'em.

 

[intothewoods]

Wow, blasts from the past. Who knew?

Submission and housework. Well, I don't live with my man, so my house is thankfully pretty clean, though it seems there is always clutter that needs organizing. I'm getting there though. I'm still reorganizing from the separation from my ex.

As for my PYL's house, it drives me bonkers and I sometimes try to clean up a bit when I can. If we ever move in together in a big house, we'll probably get a housekeeper to come in every other week. If we're both working, I don't think either of us are good enough at housework to maintain it together.

I do most of the cooking for us, though we sometimes cook together and he has a few tricks up his sleeve.

Overall, he likes the idea of the woman running the household, even if running it means I hire a housekeeper to come in every so often. Thankfully, that will also mean I get to decorate all the rooms, except for one "man room," where all the weird ren faire tapestry shit and computer crap will go. Hurrah.

 

[YourCaptor]

Ok, heres my idea of the ideal partner concerning housework.

I think I would have her do the lighter chores, such as dusting, window cleaning, washing clothes and sheets, etc. She would have to be a perfectionist about it, one word, putzfrau, nothing less.

She would also have the role of maid, placed in charge of any kind of service requested by me or any guests. I would probably also put her in charge of decorating and designing… as well as maintaining her figure.

I would also put her in charge of managing the income. Personally I hate money, but every else seems to love it, so she can have it.

As long as she does all this with satisfactory results I don’t really care how she does it. I would take all else unless she was extremely adamant about it.

One rule regarding that, I wont allow her to do any dirty chores, she is my most prized possession, I don’t want her soiled.

Oh, and of course, no subs allowed in the kitchen, that’s mine.

Yup… that would be nice indeed.

Now to get myself a household...

 

[intothewoods]

Ok, heres my idea of the ideal partner concerning housework.

I think I would have her do the lighter chores, such as dusting, window cleaning, washing clothes and sheets, etc. She would have to be a perfectionist about it, one word, putzfrau, nothing less.

She would also have the role of maid, placed in charge of any kind of service requested by me or any guests. I would probably also put her in charge of decorating and designing… as well as maintaining her figure.

I would also put her in charge of managing the income. Personally I hate money, but every else seems to love it, so she can have it.

As long as she does all this with satisfactory results I don’t really care how she does it. I would take all else unless she was extremely adamant about it.

One rule regarding that, I wont allow her to do any dirty chores, she is my most prized possession, I don’t want her soiled.

Oh, and of course, no subs allowed in the kitchen, that’s mine.
Yup… that would be nice indeed.

Now to get myself a household...

Now, THAT would be torture.

 

[EmpressFi]

Now, THAT would be torture.

yeah.. I like to share a kitchen. It was, for me, the selling point of our house. I walked in, saw our kitchen and had to have this house

 

[YourCaptor]

Now, THAT would be torture.

yeah.. I like to share a kitchen. It was, for me, the selling point of our house. I walked in, saw our kitchen and had to have this house

You want a kitchen get your own... how about an easy bake oven JK.

The kitchen is like my art studio, if people move stuff in their it throws me way off.

Maybe, divi up the week... big maybe

 

[EmpressFi]

You want a kitchen get your own... how about an easy bake oven JK.

The kitchen is like my art studio, if people move stuff in their it throws me way off.

Maybe, divi up the week... big maybe

hehe..that's just it.. the gadgets in the kitchen that make it nifty.. the kitchen aid pro mixer, breadmaker, steamer, etc... we picked out together. Malin and I love to cook because it is an art...

 

[fishercat]

You want a kitchen get your own... how about an easy bake oven JK.

I'm down with that. Can't cook at all, but I love to bake.

Honestly, I just like hearing how different couples in D/s relationships approach this issue, especially those where both people work.