How many of you ladies actually like anal sex?

[hashtag45]

Not demonising it - because, by the same token I do certain things that You would feel uncomfortable with.
Just being upfront about why personally I'm so anxious and scared of the act. To the point that, when a former bf was a bit more insistent about it, I decided to end our relationship.
But anyway, I won't disrupt this thread any longer.

 

[Que]

Anal is like Jägermeister. You need to try it 5-6 times before you really like it.

I suspect that anal, in some cases, does involve five or six shots of Jagermeister.

 

[HisArpy]

Not demonising it - because, by the same token I do certain things that You would feel uncomfortable with.
Just being upfront about why personally I'm so anxious and scared of the act. To the point that, when a former bf was a bit more insistent about it, I decided to end our relationship.
But anyway, I won't disrupt this thread any longer.

Trust me when I say this:

There is NO ONE here who is unique as to the things they'd do which they believe others would be uncomfortable with. This place is full of people who do all sorts of 'uncomfortable' things in all kinds of 'uncomfortable' ways and places. More people than you can believe would be willing to gather (even electronically) in one place and then DISCUSS those things.

So, you aren't any special sort of snowflake when it comes to anything erotic or weird.

Thinking that you are special in any way and then trying to use that as justification for NOT doing something 'uncomfortable' just proves you actually are an idiot.

 

[roc23]

First of all, you are attacking people who love anal. Your post is a work in irony itself, especially the first and last line.

"Ooohh, look at me, I don't want the attention!
"I don't care about you but you should go F yourself!"

These tactics aren't exactly new. Instead of passively-aggressively hating it, just admit it that you don't like it at all.

Anal sex is risky, but so is normal sex. If not done properly, even a harmless oral can tear your sublingual muscles. Ever heard of torn vagina or a blunt trauma to the cervix? That too happens from throwing caution to the wind.

Stop demonising anal just because you can't do it right.

I'm sending you a bouquet of flowers.

I don't have your address,but still...

 

[Miles Long]

I'm not trying to troll this thread or attack those who enjoy anal sex. But since the OP asked for both sorts of honest feedback:

But for homosexual couples for whom this is the only way of achieving intimacy, I'm quite prejudiced against the act. And that's only because of the health risks to both partners (the anus is full of bacteria, the tissue inside can be easily ruptured).
So for me, the only thing that begging would achieve would be a boot up Their ass.

Are you really saying that penetrative sex is the only way to achieve intimacy?

 

[Learin]

I'm sending you a bouquet of flowers.

I don't have your address,but still...

Aww... just a will do.

 

[removed9556]

 

[roc23]

Aww... just a will do.

 

[Miles Long]

I really, really hate distant galaxies, too, and did so from the moment I realized I would never be able to touch one. Hashtag has the same reaction to intimacy, and for identical reasons.

Stellar response, Des.

 

[tightmedicine]

These tactics aren't exactly new. Instead of passively-aggressively hating it, just admit it that you don't like it at all.

Anal sex is risky, but so is normal sex. If not done properly, even a harmless oral can tear your sublingual muscles. Ever heard of torn vagina or a blunt trauma to the cervix? That too happens from throwing caution to the wind.

Stop demonising anal just because you can't do it right.

Aye, all it takes is a simple, "not for me and move on."
We all have our kinks and likes and we all have our dislikes and turn-offs. And they are all going to be far from the same.
Frankly I have never bled or had any tears from anal but I've always taken it slow and made them go slow and ease into it. I however did get scratched internally during a fingering session, so there's risk in everything.

 

[Charismata]

Anal sex isn't for everyone but my thought is how can so many gay men be wrong? Granted it takes a little more prep work than vaginal sex and if you haven't learned to relax it can feel a bit uncomfortable at first. But when you DO relax and really get into that deliciously "full" feeling that anal sex provides, oh sweet Jesus, YES!

Of course, I'm the kind of woman who loves all the variety and pleasure that sex has to offer and anal play is just one more item on the menu that I'm happy I was open-minded enough to explore. Life is short, my lovelies, and I would much rather go to my grave having experienced a few things I didn't like than having missed out on a multitude of things I would have loved if only I'd been willing to take a chance.

 

[SheLikes2Watch]

Pretty sure I've posted in this before (but too lazy to look, lol), but I actually prefer anal sex, as it's much more intense for me and makes me cum faster. Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy vaginal, but I actually crave anal more (dirty girl!!).

My interest in anal started when an ex wanted me to fuck his ass with a foreign object. I was so impressed by the intensity of his orgasm...it was so much more than his normal O, he was practically whimpering. I was so fucking turned on by it that I went out and bought a strap on to use on him.

And having experienced both toys and cocks in the ass, nothing compares to the heat and sensation of being taken in the ass by a cock, and feeling the spurt of semen inside you. So amazing. But I take a toy nearly daily for my pleasure.

I can't imagine how incredible it would feel with a prostate
...I'm sometimes jealous of a man's sexual experience.

I fully respect anyone's choice not to be into anal, but I encourage women (and men) to try it a few times before you count it out. I actually wasn't a fan of receiving the first few times, but then I figured out that he just needed to start slower and add more lube. Then it was heaven.

And I get that some people are just grossed out by the concept. But if you clean well, it's just another orifice...and a very sensitive one at that.

Just wanted to give a shout out to all those who appreciate the pleasure of anal. It can be an acquired taste, but so worth it.

 

[frmtutanota]

I do prefer anal to vaginal sometimes, because it is more intense and I cum faster.

I really, really like anal, but I've had modestly-sized lovers...maybe I wouldn't be such an enthusiast with a porno-sized cock.

I think more women would be into it if their guy used enough lube and started slowly. My first experience with it was bad, and I didn't try again for a while, but when it's done right...hot damn. Very hot.

sexy

 

[Sheana_V]

My two cents.
I enjoy anal. It's pleasant enough for me, and there are certain... circumstances... where I prefer it. However, most of the time I am doing it for the benefit of my partner - I do enjoy it, but certainly less than other activities.

 

[JulieRichUK]

The first few times I tried, no I did not like it. Then again at that stage I had no idea about how to, I was to tense and just letting my body do its own thing which is to naturally clench the sphincter tight. I read in a book (Sex secrets of the other woman) that if you concentrate and push back with your muscles as if you are trying to exple then relax, then that eases the passage past the sphincter. As long as my parnter knew that this was the time to push forward a little with lube then it made for a much more pleasureable time. If it hurts in my experince then you are doing it wrong or the other is doing it wrong.

 

[Miles Long]

The holidays are fast approaching! Best of luck to all those planning on using this special time of year to offer up their booties!

 

[Monica_112]

I am in the middle of writing a series and I hope you guys can help me.

There are stories in Lit where the writers almost suggest there are some ladies out there who prefer anal sex to vaginal sex. While tbh in real life it either has to be my Bday or we are pretty drunk before my wife decides to give me access to her bum hole.

My question is how many of you lovely ladies actually enjoy anal and happily suggest it to your partners as compared to them begging you?

Cheers

I have never been begged for anal..anybody who is begging me isn't in a relationship dynamic where he gets to choose anything

I've been told and taken, with care for stretching until no risk of damage of course, cos RL differs from fantasy and I don't play with sadists

That's what makes it hot IMO ..the control aspect. The there is no place I won't take you.

 

[AmethystQueen]

I love rimming, anilingus, anal play and yes anal sex as well. I think it's a fetish with me. Once hubby has me aroused a bit and rubs my backdoor I go from 3-1,000 in about 2 sec. I definitely can feel all of those nerves around my hole and I LOVE the way they feel. His strokes hurry me to my climax all the time.

Anal sex is more intimate for me because it's not what is usually done. I'm not so much into the taboo, but just the specialness of giving someone that place makes it intimate for me. You take special consideration when going into anal sex that makes it intimate for me. That part of your body is usually thought to be very private so giving that to someone also makes it very intimate for me, etc. I love how it feels to have hubby's body laying on my back with his dick in my butt. It's just wonderful.

I've cum from anal mostly after he's taken it slow to enter (that's another thing I love about anal sex. It demands a certain pace to begin with if you're not wanting to hurt the woman. Slow and steady is so romantic - WITH LOTS OF LUBE) and then my bottom gets used to him in there and he can pump harder and faster and try to go as deep as possible. LOVELY!

 

[TheTruthAboutRedheads]

I am in the middle of writing a series and I hope you guys can help me.

There are stories in Lit where the writers almost suggest there are some ladies out there who prefer anal sex to vaginal sex. While tbh in real life it either has to be my Bday or we are pretty drunk before my wife decides to give me access to her bum hole.

My question is how many of you lovely ladies actually enjoy anal and happily suggest it to your partners as compared to them begging you?

Cheers

I wouldn't say I prefer anal but I definitely enjoy it, sometimes have a minor orgasm. I think that happens due to pressure on my clit but there are lots of nerve endings around the anal entrance so who knows.

For me anal is best after we've been having sex for awhile, I've had an orgasm or I'm really turned on. Sometimes he wants to do it, sometimes I suggest it. I like it because it feels like he owns me.

 

[dansouthwest]

I love rimming, anilingus, anal play and yes anal sex as well. I think it's a fetish with me. Once hubby has me aroused a bit and rubs my backdoor I go from 3-1,000 in about 2 sec. I definitely can feel all of those nerves around my hole and I LOVE the way they feel. His strokes hurry me to my climax all the time.

Anal sex is more intimate for me because it's not what is usually done. I'm not so much into the taboo, but just the specialness of giving someone that place makes it intimate for me. You take special consideration when going into anal sex that makes it intimate for me. That part of your body is usually thought to be very private so giving that to someone also makes it very intimate for me, etc. I love how it feels to have hubby's body laying on my back with his dick in my butt. It's just wonderful.

I've cum from anal mostly after he's taken it slow to enter (that's another thing I love about anal sex. It demands a certain pace to begin with if you're not wanting to hurt the woman. Slow and steady is so romantic - WITH LOTS OF LUBE) and then my bottom gets used to him in there and he can pump harder and faster and try to go as deep as possible. LOVELY!

That sounds super hot!

 

[BiAsianGirl]

I love rimming and other forms of light anal play both giving and receiving it's very sensual and the sensitivity is overwhelming for both.

I have only had penetrative anal sex once and it was uncomfortable as you may expect. Mainly, as it was my first time and that generally meant that I couldn't enjoy it as the sensation was far to new. Also I believe I did not prepared enough for it either in terms of douching and slowly sizing up butt plugs etc.

The great thing for me was that the guy I tried with I had a deal that I'd get to do the same to him... That was fun and he enjoyed it - however my strap-on was smaller; which explains his enjoyment I think.

I'd love to try it again at some point now I'm more informed.

 

[HisGreedySlut]

Unicorn here

I'm one of those rare women who prefer anal. Not after the first time, but after trying it with toys and plenty of lube at my own pace, I acquired quite a taste for it.

Ideally I like to get some of all three - starting in my mouth, then in my pussy for a bit and then finishing in my ass.

It definitley hurts if you're not ready for it, or into it or lubed enough, but damn does it feel good when you are!

 

[shescurious11]

I am in the middle of writing a series and I hope you guys can help me.

There are stories in Lit where the writers almost suggest there are some ladies out there who prefer anal sex to vaginal sex. While tbh in real life it either has to be my Bday or we are pretty drunk before my wife decides to give me access to her bum hole.

My question is how many of you lovely ladies actually enjoy anal and happily suggest it to your partners as compared to them begging you?

Cheers

I love anal sex, and have since the first time I experienced it. I should say that I've never had it with someone larger than average, so it never hurt. I have totally had an orgasm from anal, and it's incredible and feels different from a vaginal or clitoral orgasm. Someone mentioned butt plugs, and I've worn them before and have craved anal afterwards. I don't have to be drunk to have it, and I'm usually the one who suggests it. I don't prefer it to vaginal sex, maybe because the positions we do it in aren't as intimate (and I really love having my pussy full). I would NOT use a numbing lube or anything, I think that would increase the risk of injury. It's such an intense sensation that it's worth taking it slow at first and really savoring the feeling.

Good luck with your series, hope the feedback helped.

 

[Londonguy69]

I love rimming and other forms of light anal play both giving and receiving it's very sensual and the sensitivity is overwhelming for both.

I have only had penetrative anal sex once and it was uncomfortable as you may expect. Mainly, as it was my first time and that generally meant that I couldn't enjoy it as the sensation was far to new. Also I believe I did not prepared enough for it either in terms of douching and slowly sizing up butt plugs etc.

The great thing for me was that the guy I tried with I had a deal that I'd get to do the same to him... That was fun and he enjoyed it - however my strap-on was smaller; which explains his enjoyment I think.

I'd love to try it again at some point now I'm more informed.

*Volunteering*

 

[BiAsianGirl]

*Volunteering*

Too funny!