How many of you ladies actually like anal sex?

I'm not real big on anal, for the enjoyment for me is lacking. That said, I have a guy friend who has an cock that is quite long and skinny, with a slight arc upward. he has become my 'anal fuck buddy'. He enjoys doing it with me, and doesn't mind participating in DP of me with my husband. It adds a dimension to the stimulation of me. But anal alone and with a fatter cock, is no fun.
 
i love it. we do it a couple of times a month. we take the time to make sure we are very clean. lotsa lube. it takes more out of me than regular sex. if you have a partner that knows what they are doing, it is a fantastic time.
 
My wife won't let me do it in her ass. She likes a finger or thumb, but not my cock. The reason is because when she was in college and a bit drunk, her date rammed his cock into her ass and hurt her. She never went out with him again, and she never let anybody else fuck her in the ass.
 
My wife used to enjoy. Not so much any more, in fact, never again apparently. Not with me anyways, :(
 
I enjoy it; it always make me cum.

I was blessed with a good man who has always taken his time with my tight back door. He always uses plenty of lube and listens to me.

As of late, he's taken to eating my pussy while fingering both holes. Then he puts in a small plug and makes me cum again. Then he moves to a medium plug and fucks my cunt. By the time he wants to put the large plug in, I'm begging for his cock. I'm so opened and relaxed all he has to do is slide in. The feeling of him bottoming out in my ass is amazing.

He's also starting to have me ride my dildo while he's giving me anal. Talks so dirty. Tells me it's obvious that I like my holes filled. How tight my ass is with another cock in me. Gets me so hot that I gush when I cum.

Then he's so good after. Runs a bath for me and puts me in the tub and we sit together. He showers me with kisses and tells me how proud he is of me. That I'm his good girl. The aftercare is almost as good as the anal.

Both are lucky :rose:
 
I love anal sex, and have since the first time I experienced it. I should say that I've never had it with someone larger than average, so it never hurt. I have totally had an orgasm from anal, and it's incredible and feels different from a vaginal or clitoral orgasm. Someone mentioned butt plugs, and I've worn them before and have craved anal afterwards. I don't have to be drunk to have it, and I'm usually the one who suggests it. I don't prefer it to vaginal sex, maybe because the positions we do it in aren't as intimate (and I really love having my pussy full). I would NOT use a numbing lube or anything, I think that would increase the risk of injury. It's such an intense sensation that it's worth taking it slow at first and really savoring the feeling.

Good luck with your series, hope the feedback helped.
For intimate anal try missionary anal. It gives eye contact a enable kissing
 
We have done fingers, and I would like to get my cock in there, but my wife just doesn't want to go there, it's not about pain, it's just a bit dirty. So anal is the only taboo, and I figure that's pretty good.
 
We have done fingers, and I would like to get my cock in there, but my wife just doesn't want to go there, it's not about pain, it's just a bit dirty. So anal is the only taboo, and I figure that's pretty good.

I felt that way too. But then it "happened" and I actually do enjoy it.
 
Nope!

Not for me! I even have a difficult time watching it on movies, but I don’t judge those who enjoy it. I’m glad we all have our own unique enjoyments. I sometimes surprise myself getting turned on by unique things in movies!
 
I think most women like it on occasion.

My question I heard the mens G spot is in the mans anal area (which is why all men like some sort of anal play & can cum during a prostate exam) but is there an erogenous zone in the womens anal region? I'm guessing no but would love to hear what others think..

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There is a HAWT-SPOT on the posterior wall of the vagina - higher and opposite the G-SPOT. The A-SPOT is often what is poked during anal sex and many women, initially, feel guilty because the end up cumming HARD during anal sex and that's supposed to be a no-no - only done to make him feel good. Many women who never or rarely cum during regular sex CAN orgasm during anal and that freaks them out.
It is really just the plumbing and where things are located on women. During regular intercourse the clit is usually "out of the way" so some can cum but many can't during regular sex. Stimulating the G-spot is easier done digitally because again during most positioning the G-spot is up and behind the pubic bone during sex so it rarely triggers. With fingers and thumbs and toys the G-spt is easily reached, stimulated and triggered.
The A-SPOT is further in and on the other side so unless the dude is extra long and she has a tipped uterus that rarely works. Hitting the A-spot via anal intercourse by banging it from the other side often works really well and can produce massive, G-spot similar, orgasms!!
 
I only had anal sex with my ex-boyfriend twice, it was pretty painful to be honest. Think I'd only try it again with someone I truly trusted.
 
It have enjoyed it within the context of a long-term relationship. We had enough trust built up to ensure it would be a great thing for both of us, plus we worked on it over time and fine-tuned the foreplay, positioning, how to respond if something was not working, etc. There were times where I would ask him to fuck my ass because I was so incredibly turned on by having my ass teased and "prepped" for possible anal sex - but even then it was not always a done deal and we both knew it. Trust and the lead-up are key for me.

It turned out to be one of the hottest, most submissive things I could do with that parter and I truly enjoyed it and can say I craved it here and there. It did, however, take years to get to that point but it was absolutely worth it.

Wow! I just love your post. And probably your ass....
 
I have enjoyed it within the context of a long-term relationship. We had enough trust built up to ensure it would be a great thing for both of us, plus we worked on it over time and fine-tuned the foreplay, positioning, how to respond if something was not working, etc. There were times where I would ask him to fuck my ass because I was so incredibly turned on by having my ass teased and "prepped" for possible anal sex - but even then it was not always a done deal and we both knew it. Trust and the lead-up are key for me.

It turned out to be one of the hottest, most submissive things I could do with that partner and I truly enjoyed it and can say I craved it here and there. It did, however, take years to get to that point but it was absolutely worth it.

I have met many a woman like you.
Trust and respect go a long way in attempting anal sex.
 
I'm not a lady, but I'll answer anyway. I've never had any type of sex. However, I would like to try pegging (that is, anally penetrating someone with an anal-safe toy) someone one day.
 
Wife never let that happen or would even think about it. Being in a sexless marriage i met a woman quite a few years ago and had an affair for a short time. One night while in a throws of passion something was completely different... That quick i was in her ass. I was amazed, the feeling. It felt better than her pussy. She looked at me and said " you like that ? I needed to feel your cock there badly ". What could i say -YES it feels great... Few times after that she gave it to me but it was slower and she lead the way at her speed. But that night before she must have been ready, lubed or what ever and i was WOW.
 
Wife never let that happen or would even think about it. Being in a sexless marriage i met a woman quite a few years ago and had an affair for a short time. One night while in a throws of passion something was completely different... That quick i was in her ass. I was amazed, the feeling. It felt better than her pussy. She looked at me and said " you like that ? I needed to feel your cock there badly ". What could i say -YES it feels great... Few times after that she gave it to me but it was slower and she lead the way at her speed. But that night before she must have been ready, lubed or what ever and i was WOW.

I can share your frustration of getting no sex with the wife, as I, like many others, am in a similar situation. However, back in the day, my wife did enjoy anal sex ... very much. In fact, it was her that slid my cock in her ass one night as we were spooning in bed. Like you, I knew the extremely tight feeling was her butt and I loved it. I used it as often as I thought I could, but apparently not enough for her. One night as she approached her 50th birthday, she wanted to know why I didn't fuck her ass very often. After all those years of holding back, when I never really had to..... D'oh !!!
 
I can share your frustration of getting no sex with the wife, as I, like many others, am in a similar situation. However, back in the day, my wife did enjoy anal sex ... very much. In fact, it was her that slid my cock in her ass one night as we were spooning in bed. Like you, I knew the extremely tight feeling was her butt and I loved it. I used it as often as I thought I could, but apparently not enough for her. One night as she approached her 50th birthday, she wanted to know why I didn't fuck her ass very often. After all those years of holding back, when I never really had to..... D'oh !!!

Cant you try again? wow what a shame she doesn't want it again. How do they turn it off like a switch??
 
I can't say I enjoyed it, actually. It's not painful, it's just.. a "wrong" feeling, if you know what I mean?
I've had a partner who loved it, and I've used my fingers on him, but it's simply not for me.

UNLESS, and that's the odd thing.. unless it's a plug. I friggin' love a plug..
 
POSTED ON ANOTHER THREAD BUTT RELEVANT:

One of the weirdest things associated with anal sex is that so many women do it ONLY to please their partner and end up orgasming like a dam buster. Many consider it perverted and just dirty but know their guy's teeth are just chattering at the thought of doing that. They take advice like on this post and try it only to find they miraculously CUM when normal intercourse never or rarely results in an orgasm.

Any of the regulars in these threads may have read my TRY THIS thread and we get into anal on a number of occasions. I have, over the years, received many many PMs asking, "WTF happened. I never cum during regular intercourse. I finally agreed to my b/f / husband's requests to poke me "back there" and after lots of prepping and being horny as hell we were doing it. All of a sudden I felt like the top of my head was gonna blow off. On every deep thrust - not too hard or fast - a BLAST of pleasure shot through me and then I was orgasming over and over and over again. WTF happened? I thought I'd HATE it butt now I can't wait for him to start begging again. I'm going to ask him!!"

Many many of those.

My thread is mostly about the G-SPOT which is on the FRONT wall of the vag. There are ways of hitting it with an erection to trigger it but to really control it I believe the thumb or fingers is THE best way.

On the BACK wall of the vag and just under the uterus is the A-SPOT and for obvious reasons it is deeper than most thumbs can poke or rub and often just at a bad angle to be pressured in the way it needs to be pressured in order to trigger orgasmS.

It may take some practise to do it consistently but using thrusts from several different angles the end of an erection CAN and does hit the back side of the A-SPOT through the rectal and vaginal membranes. If it is consistent or she knows the feeling and reacts immediately then she can experience the same as a MASSIVE -SPOT orgasm happening over and over again.

It cums as a great shock to many women that they are having this reaction. Makes them feel like pervs or something I guess. Because the clit AND the G-spot are difficult to hit / rub during regular intercourse these women rarely or never (read the stats) cum during regular sex but explode during ANAL - something they THOUGHT they'd hate.

Anyway ... something for the newbies to consider. If you trust the guy you're with and follow the very good advice from the OP then you should experiment with ANGLES. There is an excellent chance of consistent massive A-GASMS while having your hiney ravished.

ps massive ANAL orgasms often come as a SHOCK to the guy too so be ready to explain what just happened. Most guys are so clueless he may think YOU'RE the perv now and be reluctant to poke you there.

Long live the research!!!
 
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