ll74
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I honestly don't give a shit what they will or won't do if their kid is gay... I find it funny when it happens.In the conservative circles that I run in, there's not one parent who would disown their child if the child said they were gay. They would be concerned. They would treat it as a situation where they love their child even though they do not like what the child is doing. But they still love that child unconditionally, care deeply for them, and parent them. If that child is not of age to be on their own, they will not allow homosexual behavior to happen under their roof or while that child is under their authority, but they do so with love and compassion. I know that's hard for you to comprehend because you've been conditioned to believe that the only kind of love there is is just let the child express themselves however they want to and affirm whatever they believe. But believe me when I say the love of those kinds of parents has had more effect long-term on these children than the kind of parenting that says I just blindly affirm whatever my child says about themselves.
And again they are sheltered, they are exposed on a controlled level so they can learn to actively apply their values as they are developed.
But yah.... Don't want your child exposed, then keep them at home. That's the only answer.
If you don't accept what your child says about themselves as an adult, why should they accept what you tell them?