Is it a bad thing if a girl gets too wet during sex?

I have not read the entire set of posts but the only thing wrong with wet is that there is a "wet Spot" on the sheets to avoid after it's lights out time.

If she got too wet, I would just bend down and slurp it all clean gladly :cattail:

We both get wet very easily. I mean, it pours from us and we LOVE getting our juices all over us. Towels. Double layer of towels. We are the only things that get wet.

All very good points! I was with a very lovely lady years ago. She got fairly wet and I would squirt a lot, so after our lovemaking there was lots of fluids. I was so conditioned to just jump up and clean up everything before I met her, she had to hold me down and tell me not to clean it up. I felt bad my cum was on her chest, the bed, inside her, and her fluids were on my dick, crotch, and my face too. BUT after we laid on the bed for a while everything seemed to dry up and disappear.

It was amazing how our juices just seemed to seep into our skin like moisturizer. She liked the "mess" of our lovemaking and thought it was natural and erotic. We put down towels prior so the sheets did not get too wet and I did lap up a lot of her juices. But seeing a stain on the bed sheets as well as other evidence on us became a good thing to me---something I learned from her.

ES
 
At the risk of necroing this thread again...

A lot of the comments here do seem at least a little dismissive. From a purely pragmatic standpoint some women's bodies (like mine) get "too wet" in the sense that it creates problems.

For starters I have a larger underwear budget than most other women.

When I was in high school, I had to wear pads every day.

Early sexual experiences led to my partners complaining that they "couldn't feel anything", which led to a whole lot of self-consciousness. That did lead me to take up kegel exercises, which I'm thankful for.

In my early 20's I missed an interview because by the time I got there it looked like I had pissed myself (I assure you I hadn't).

When I first decided to go out of the house without underwear in a skirt it was because I had developed a rash from so much moisture kept against my skin. Of course that sort of developed into a fetish.
 
At the risk of necroing this thread again...

A lot of the comments here do seem at least a little dismissive. From a purely pragmatic standpoint some women's bodies (like mine) get "too wet" in the sense that it creates problems.

For starters I have a larger underwear budget than most other women.

When I was in high school, I had to wear pads every day.

Early sexual experiences led to my partners complaining that they "couldn't feel anything", which led to a whole lot of self-consciousness. That did lead me to take up kegel exercises, which I'm thankful for.

In my early 20's I missed an interview because by the time I got there it looked like I had pissed myself (I assure you I hadn't).

When I first decided to go out of the house without underwear in a skirt it was because I had developed a rash from so much moisture kept against my skin. Of course that sort of developed into a fetish.

And there is nothing you can really do about that ?

And it's not some kind of vicious loop getting slightly aroused,
being self conscious about getting wet and then just meltdown ?

Blocking hormones partially could probably help you lose some, so maybe a doctor could do a hormone level check ?
But like most things medical science ignores females because it's harder to get good test data with hormonelevel swings.

Edit: Combing through a google search says Antihistamines work to reduce lubrication
 
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This wet?

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The medics wept, their tears rolled down, the pools flowed down beside him.

The waters rose, they reached his toes, he floated where he lay.

And as he drifted out of sight his comrades heard him say.

I'm going to that better land where the FlaK don't never fly.

Where the bullets are all cotton, and the shells are apple pie.

Where the clouds are champagne cocktails, and you drink them on the fly.

Well its time to leave, don't you grieve, I'll be wearin' wings on my leather sleeves,

in the Army Airforce Heaven."

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Lisa Ann
 
Yes, 'too wet' exists

...when you get overly excited in public & panic about concealing your wet clothes!
I've carried extra knickers in the car & found that a good slip can hide more than VPL!
The first lover who truly opened my floodgates, dropped me like a coyote ugly & it took a long time to convince myself the issue was his mind, not my body.
The beau who helped me most never spoke about my copious wetness; instead, his nightly bedtime routine never failed to put clean towels & full waterbottles by the bedside. As I gasped the last of aftershocks, he would insist on my rehydration.
Nowadays? My Beast & I laugh about daily linen washes and he indulges my constant research into better waterproof bedding.

And I follow the advice of Hitchhiker's: *ALWAYS* know where your towel is!
 
Too wet??

I've never, ever had a single complaint about being " too wet " and truuust me I get very, very wet.

Rarely do I get fucked and not have to change the bedsheets 😉
 
Does it turn guys on to know he gets his girl super wet during sex? Or does he start feeling like he's drowning in wetness with no enjoyment because she's too wet?
TOO WET is by definition too much. Messing the bed or whatever. That does not stop it being very exciting. Ideal for fisting, for instance
 
On one hand, it's a definite turn on knowing I'm doing something right. Personally, I lose feeling which leads to mental distractions on my behalf. Most of that is more because of me and the sexual routine (same positions, no foreplay, etc) developed by my wife. On the few occasions I've been able to make her squirt, had me ready for round two... to no avail.
 
Too wet??

I've never, ever had a single complaint about being " too wet " and truuust me I get very, very wet.

Rarely do I get fucked and not have to change the bedsheets 😉

I find the whole discussion really interesting because there are two sides to this or maybe different ways of looking at it. I would say it is similar to a man that cums a lot. If a guy cums a cup or more of fluid is it too much? Do you have to change the sheets? Maybe for both but at the time it is happening it can be very hot.

That is how I feel about a woman getting very wet. It can be really hot during sex but afterwards, there is certainly towels and extensive clean up involved.

I had a girlfriend that got very wet before and during orgasm. It was nice to watch but for me caused her to become less tight down there and would prevent my own orgasm. (I think I mentioned this before) Anyway, it was not a bad thing, just a thing. I did not complain, I would pull out after she came and she would use her hand resulting in a great finish. She liked to watch me squirt and it made her feel better about her own fluids/squirting.

ES
 
I don't think it's a bad thing. I personally wish I didn't get so wet. It's gets so bad that it starts to drip and run down my leg. I also have quite a mess going on down there even if I touch her so she won't be so wet.

I'm sure you can find someone willing to help catch those drips down your leg...
 
I’d have to say no. It’s a very lovely thing for the one you are with gets you so into them that you get that wonderful, normal, pleasurable reaction.
 
Not even if I have to bring a snorkel.

If there's not a "cum angel" in the sheets when I'm done with her, then I shoulda tried harder.
 
The only downside for both of us is that the excess wetness reduces the stimulation for both.

This^ is true for me and my partners that got very wet. It does not mean it is a bad thing, it is just something you learn to deal with.

Years ago I used to cum a lot! That led to a lot of fluid inside her pussy and lack of stimulation for her especially if she had not cum yet or wanted to cum again. The same was true for me, if I kept fucking her there was less stimulation. So she would have me cum once outside of her and then we would continue fucking until she came. She would cum quicker that way and usually could cum 2 times before I came again. Or before we started she would give me a BJ or HJ.

I didn't feel bad about cumming so much and she really enjoyed that she could get me to cum like that and more than once. But I did have gf's that did make me feel self conscious about it and I almost felt bad about it, or I certainly didn't feel good about it. Things like getting up right away and running to the bathroom to clean up. Making me wear a condom and then getting rid of it holding it at arms length like there is toxic wastes inside....

ES
 
My wife once stimulated at times gets so wet, my average cock won't stay in . I Love that she gets so excited so wet, I take credit for some of that, thank you very much. Being so wet we talk and I tell her I want her to take big cock that wouldn't fall out when she gets wet. We have a friend that fucked her for 8 years a couple times a month, has a big cock and he never fell out. Its been a few years now and I am wanting to bring him back into the picture Love the juices flowing
 
My experience is that women who get very wet dont stay that way for a long period. In other words, it does happen, but if you are in a session for a couple of hours, she will dry up naturally to an extent, and the wetter she is, the longer you'll be fucking for anyway. Theres a natural solution.
 
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