Lord Pmann wants to discuss Brianna38

[Lord Pmann]

I mean, do you have an album of mine saved too? If not, I’m kinda jealous..just saying

Aaaaand the stream of “tribute” pics floods your inbox.

 

[Dribble]

Not sure why it matters? I can tell you...many of those that are being the most vocal, have a history of not always being the most kind to others. So naturally, they need to point fingers. It elevates their behavior. I never saw Brianna walk a lower road. I never saw her be unkind. Maybe here...she wanted to be who she couldn't be in real life?

There are many here that "left"...yet they are still here using a different account thinking they are flying under the radar. What's the difference? I don't see them being attacked? Why?

This is an anonymous site. I can only speak for myself. I try to show who I am the best I can. Sometimes I am succesful. Sometimes I am not. Sometimes people view me as something I am not. Or think something that just isn't true ( I had this happen just today). It makes me scratch my head and wonder why they think that. But see, their perception is not just based on an interaction with me....but on everything in their realm. I can 100% guarantee most of you have never heard my voice. Or seen a picture. Does that make me not real? I also know, many here feel uncomfortable showing their deeper selves. Can't blame them. This site can be vicious.

It doesn't bother me if she was fake. Personally, I think she was as real as she could be and that is good enough for me. In her way, she actively participated trying to bring smiles and joy. That is more than I do here.

 

[ydahecnot]

This sounds worse than the Ronster thing, in that Ronster wasn’t known as being warm and cuddly, whereas Bri was. Though Ronster did directly harm one person with his ruse; can’t say whether Bri did. In any event, so lame to feel the need to use brain cells to think that up

 

[SassySheDevil]

That’s who people believed was a 50 year old woman? Jesus guys, I might have to pull up with my Nigerian prince account if it’s that easy around here

I'm not sure anyone thought she was that old until her "husband" came on to say they'd been together for 35 years.

 

[Mattentive]

I mean, do you have an album of mine saved too? If not, I’m kinda jealous..just saying

Edit to add: please for the love of goodness do not send me screenshots of myself. It’s happened, it creeps me out. The end. I was just making light of a really weird situation.

...nope... can't find them. You'll have to send them to me.

 

[Dribble]

I can assure all you doctors...I have experienced what happens when a person slips on ice...breaks 2 ribs...and the doctors missed that she cracked her head so hard that a seep opened up. It went on for 6 months before the actual aneurysm occurred. I will let her know her lifeflight to Billings was a bad dream and the the aphasia she has is just part of that dream too. She will be relieved.

 

[Mattentive]

There's a 51-year-old Brianna_38 on a forum from 2001. Uses caps for emphasis and was also married in late 1997. That Brianna_38's posts were all about having an affair and "suffering" "withdrawal symptoms" from it ending.

 

[SassySheDevil]

It doesn't bother me if she was fake. Personally, I think she was as real as she could be and that is good enough for me. In her way, she actively participated trying to bring smiles and joy. That is more than I do here.

And this is true. LIke I said. Some will not care if she was real or not because to them. She brought nothing but kindness. But as someone who has been through this before. It sucks to be totally invested in someone and who you think they are to find out later that they were not that person.
I know many do not treat online relationships as "real", but I very much do.
I am real with those I am close to. I like to think I am the same in person as I am on here. I always assume there is a chance I will meet someone someday. So, I'd rather not tell anyone I'm a 5'7 blonde model and then have them meet me and be like "Holy fuck did you eat the model???"

Again. To many it will not matter because to many Lit is lit and nothing goes further.

To those who loved her for who she was. That is awesome. We all need happiness and love.
Though you might think so since you dislike me so much. This isn't about me wanting to point fingers, so I look better. People already either like me or don't.
My curiosity about all this is more about how much it hurts to be on the other end of truly loving your friend only to find out they might not have been who they said.

 

[pandaburr]

Yeah that struck me as really odd too. Plus how many spouses know about each others cyber life and friends by name? I mean come on. I am lucky to pay attention to one or two of my wife’s real life friends. And also I only talked with Bri a couple times here on boards and it was mostly music related. I think she lied to me about seeing a band I am really into in their small home town. I dont know. I think she/he had us all fooled. I guess good job or well played but pretty damn sad.

Not saying it doesn’t happen around here cause I know it does but if my spouse ever supposedly came up in the pg talking “oh Amanda loved you guys so much, she’s told me so much about you”, shit is a damn lie. Do not pass go.

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

The timeline is way off.
An injury Thursday, released from the hospital Friday, passed in the night...on a weekend.

But, by Wednesday, she was already cremated and ashes scattered (the place he mentions is closed on Tuesday, btw. He could have done it Wed?). I've never known a funeral home to work so quickly!

When did the autopsy happen? I've never seen it done so quickly, except on TV. Both my cousin and my brother died in their sleep and it was weeks before we had results back...but he already knew she had an aneurysm.

It infuriates me that people have no regard for others. We open ourselves up and share and are vulnerable, and they take advantage for whatever reason. It's happened. Most of us have seen it. I'm looking at you, lancegibs. And to another who took advantage of my friendship.

These are all excellent points. I do agree with Sassy(?) I think who said it- whether she was real or not, I would not be surprised if her posts and outpouring of love for people possibly saved lives. That’s the silver lining. Real or not, people received comfort from her posts and stuff and maybe got them through some dark hours. The compassion had to come from somewhere, right? I know I got pretty defensive and cried SO HARD at this loss, whatever it’s real form may be. And if it makes you all feel better, I was drawn to her because her love and light philosophy completely resonate/vibrate on my plane. I’m just more prone to sarcasm and dark humor. But hey, life’s a bitch. My heart and my inbox are open though if anyone needs a friend

 

[Lord Pmann]

Not saying it doesn’t happen around here cause I know it does but if my spouse ever supposedly came up in the pg talking “oh Amanda loved you guys so much, she’s told me so much about you”, shit is a damn lie. Do not pass go.

My guess is, “the spouse” is trying to get some sympathy pussy.

Also, the spouse = Brianna = some dude

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

I can assure all you doctors...I have experienced what happens when a person slips on ice...breaks 2 ribs...and the doctors missed that she cracked her head so hard that a seep opened up. It went on for 6 months before the actual aneurysm occurred. I will let her know her lifeflight to Billings was a bad dream and the the aphasia she has is just part of that dream too. She will be relieved.

The “facts”!of her death are very medically possible. Wtf. A hospital released me in April and f I hadn’t gone to another one within 24 hours, y’all wouldn’t be blessed with my presence

 

[pandaburr]

These are all excellent points. I do agree with Sassy(?) I think who said it- whether she was real or not, I would not be surprised if her posts and outpouring of love for people possibly saved lives. That’s the silver lining. Real or not, people received comfort from her posts and stuff and maybe got them through some dark hours. The compassion had to come from somewhere, right? I know I got pretty defensive and cried SO HARD at this loss, whatever it’s real form may be. And if it makes you all feel better, I was drawn to her because her love and light philosophy completely resonate/vibrate on my plane. I’m just more prone to sarcasm and dark humor. But hey, life’s a bitch. My heart and my inbox are open though if anyone needs a friend

I agree with both you and sassy. If it’s not a loss in this way, it’s a loss in that one. And a loss is a loss. I’ll never take away the fact Bri was a light here and doesn’t seem like many dispute that either. It still personally gives me bad vibes if it’s a loss of deceit but what can you do. Like you said, life’s a bitch.

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

My guess is, “the spouse” is trying to get some sympathy pussy.

Also, the spouse = Brianna = some dude

Remember that in your original post, you told people to be respectful of those who benefited from her posts and persona. I don’t think you want to hurt people- this might. Just saying

 

[Mo_Bandy]

I really would not usually care. A lot of us are fake as fuck and make up all kinds of nonsense on here for laughs or to just entertain. It does seem like he/she faked her death to everyone here. So that is why it is peculiar and I am commenting like I just watched a goddamn Netflix documentary.

 

[Mo_Bandy]

And usually on these documentaries I watch when someone fakes their death online they are trying to cover their tracks. They have been lying to people the whole time and are facing being exposed in real life. Usually to family and friends. Could that be what happened here?

 

[Lord Pmann]

These are all excellent points. I do agree with Sassy(?) I think who said it- whether she was real or not, I would not be surprised if her posts and outpouring of love for people possibly saved lives. That’s the silver lining. Real or not, people received comfort from her posts and stuff and maybe got them through some dark hours. The compassion had to come from somewhere, right? I know I got pretty defensive and cried SO HARD at this loss, whatever it’s real form may be. And if it makes you all feel better, I was drawn to her because her love and light philosophy completely resonate/vibrate on my plane. I’m just more prone to sarcasm and dark humor. But hey, life’s a bitch. My heart and my inbox are open though if anyone needs a friend

I think this is the difficult thing. Consider the silver linings. But, consider the fact that he or she wrecked you emotionally over something that wasn’t real.

So Dribble, I think that’s the problem. There’s a lot of people who are genuinely hurting over something fake. It doesn’t mean she didn’t do some good. I mean, someone liked her pics enough to find the originals and save them and then post them for me to research (much love). But there are some people shedding real tears over someone who completely made up a persona.

 

[barefootgirl69]

These are all excellent points. I do agree with Sassy(?) I think who said it- whether she was real or not, I would not be surprised if her posts and outpouring of love for people possibly saved lives. That’s the silver lining. Real or not, people received comfort from her posts and stuff and maybe got them through some dark hours. The compassion had to come from somewhere, right? I know I got pretty defensive and cried SO HARD at this loss, whatever it’s real form may be. And if it makes you all feel better, I was drawn to her because her love and light philosophy completely resonate/vibrate on my plane. I’m just more prone to sarcasm and dark humor. But hey, life’s a bitch. My heart and my inbox are open though if anyone needs a friend

There is a silver lining in many things. I'm glad you saw something that brought you much joy and I'm truly sorry that you've been hurt by all of this. .

My feelings are different because I didn't interact with her and for the fact that, if it's as I think it is, being lied to and manipulated just doesn't sit well with me. The end (making me smile) doesn't justify the means (lying) for me.

 

[default24]

Damn, threads like this make me nervous about what I post online. Were they super mean to someone to get this kind of doxxing done?

 

[SassySheDevil]

These are all excellent points. I do agree with Sassy(?) I think who said it- whether she was real or not, I would not be surprised if her posts and outpouring of love for people possibly saved lives. That’s the silver lining. Real or not, people received comfort from her posts and stuff and maybe got them through some dark hours. The compassion had to come from somewhere, right? I know I got pretty defensive and cried SO HARD at this loss, whatever it’s real form may be. And if it makes you all feel better, I was drawn to her because her love and light philosophy completely resonate/vibrate on my plane. I’m just more prone to sarcasm and dark humor. But hey, life’s a bitch. My heart and my inbox are open though if anyone needs a friend

And it is people like you that I am not trying to cause more pain by questioning this. I know you and many others truly were invested in her and her friendship and for that. I'm sorry for your loss.

I agree with both you and sassy. If it’s not a loss in this way, it’s a loss in that one. And a loss is a loss. I’ll never take away the fact Bri was a light here and doesn’t seem like many dispute that either. It still personally gives me bad vibes if it’s a loss of deceit but what can you do. Like you said, life’s a bitch.

But like this. If she wasn't real. That's one thing. Fine. Let's go with Dribbles idea that she just wanted a place to be something different. Then why not just fade away quietly when you got what you needed out of it. Why go the extra mile and bring in a "husband" to kill her off and leave all those who were close to her with grieving hearts? That's just cruel.
Like PN just said. She cried her eyes out over this loss. As I'm sure others did as well.
To me. That's just fucking cold and cruel.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I really would not usually care. A lot of us are fake as fuck and make up all kinds of nonsense on here for laughs or to just entertain. It does seem like he/she faked her death to everyone here. So that is why it is peculiar and I am commenting like I just watched a goddamn Netflix documentary.

I think the reason why this is so peculiar is that it is so above and beyond the normalcy for the site. This is beyond what we are used to seeing and, as you said, similar to a documentary.

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

I really would not usually care. A lot of us are fake as fuck and make up all kinds of nonsense on here for laughs or to just entertain. It does seem like he/she faked her death to everyone here. So that is why it is peculiar and I am commenting like I just watched a goddamn Netflix documentary.

But a lot of us are real as can be. You pervs have always complimented me on my pics and shit but I always say “I look good from certain angles”. I don’t have the energy to lie or make up a persons. I just want to connect with people and how could I make an honest to god legit connection with someone if I’m not being real. Most of my posts are meant to make people laugh but I’m not making jokes here I wouldn’t make in real life. But I get that we all need an outlet. I still think that there is good in people. Even if it’s buried under manifestations of trauma, stress, lack of pussy, whatever

 

[Mo_Bandy]

I think the reason why this is so peculiar is that it is so above and beyond the normalcy for the site. This is beyond what we are used to seeing and, as you said, similar to a documentary.

I kinda find all this entertaining. I often get bored with this place and hopefully we eventually find out what happened or maybe there is someone among us with another user name who claims to be Bris cousin and we find out she is still alive or was just in a coma.

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

And it is people like you that I am not trying to cause more pain by questioning this. I know you and many others truly were invested in her and her friendship and for that. I'm sorry for your loss.


But like this. If she wasn't real. That's one thing. Fine. Let's go with Dribbles idea that she just wanted a place to be something different. Then why not just fade away quietly when you got what you needed out of it. Why go the extra mile and bring in a "husband" to kill her off and leave all those who were close to her with grieving hearts? That's just cruel.
Like PN just said. She cried her eyes out over this loss. As I'm sure others did as well.
To me. That's just fucking cold and cruel.

If it’s a hoax, it sure is cruel and would seem to negate everything she stood for with her postings. But the human mind is a vortex of weird shit. We don’t know what would cause people to act this way if it is indeed false. The similarities in her and hubbies post could be explained by the fact that they were high school sweethearts and soulmates. Idk. People do take on the traits of others if they spent enough time together

 

[YoWhatsGood]

There how do we know the account didn’t get hacked?