Male sub thread

[snowy ciara]

I shall Google for thee,
Oh divine Miss T,
So You may Dom Your sweet Scooter,
With discretion and (something that rhymes with Scooter).

(I saw the original on one of those jewelry carts in a mall in Toronto)

A few early results..

Not exactly what I was looking for but cute Look about halfway down the page..

Stylized celtic eternity knot Again, Not exactly, but still worth thinking about.

Not quite what I saw, but getting closer

PENIS COLLARS?!?!?

 

[ronnoco70us]

hello all

submissive in hiding...it seems that's my true nature,my favorite porn mag is leg show, nothing does more for me,I've had an online Mistress and it was incredible, but online relationships are hard, I found myself wanting something more personnal. As a man it seems incredible hard to find a dominant woman. That's why I found it sooo strange to see this thread. I've been wanting this for year's and have had one experience. So I find myself being the dominant one in a bunch of unfufilling relationships. I really just want to please someone else......I'm ready to please......would a Mistress like to take me under her willing wing?

 

[bigeasy9]

Hey. hate to plug my own stories, but not enough people vote for them.

I have 2 written in a series of three in which a guy submittes to 3 girls. They are in teh BDSM category titled "What did I get into? - Firday" and "What did I get into? - SAturday"

Please read them and I crave any kind of feedback, either in the public comments or in an email.

Thanks.

 

[ronnoco70us]

bump

still hoping.........here for you....

 

[CJontherocks]

I have absolutely no experience with BDSM. I have no idea where to start, and no idea what to do, so I'm trying to learn. I'm intrigued. Reading the posts is so tedious, though. Is there a book or two I can pick up? Do I start as a sub and work my way up the chain, so to speak? Looking for assistance and encouragement. What's it all about?

 

[ronnoco70us]

where did all the dom's go?

Edited to omit personals.....

Catalina

 

[CJontherocks]

Wow. Was it something I said?

 

[smallmike]

submissive male cuckold here in so calif

I am very comfortable being submissive to women. Something i have excercised all my adult life while in my work life being quite assertive and take charge. I love the chance to be my submissive self and my expereinces and time on this earth has brought me to my present role of a sub cuckold. I am straight but being a man with a small penis i am very turned on watching a woman being pleased by men in ways i cant. I love to lick a woman ready for a lover and then get out of the way. I also love to lick her afterwards and to me the sexiest thing in the world is how a woman 's pussy looks just after she has had sex. I also at times crave discipline and have taken the cane, single tail and cat of nine among many insturments. I am open to lines and marks but not open to blood. I think the most important thing about being a sub is having intelligent, thought out limits that are respected by the women i serve. Hope to hear from others from here. I am relatively new to Erotica but have enjoyed the time spent here.

 

[SweetDommes]

We're all still around ... just busy - it is that time of the year, you know.

However, this is not a personals thread, if you are wanting to post a personals ad, go to the BDSM Personals board, and either create your own thread, or post on the "submissives seeking Dom/mes" thread. You may not have too much luck right away, but I can promise you that you will have no luck at all posting ads here.

 

[odysseus]

wrong story link

(no longer relevant)

 

[CJontherocks]

Re: wrong story link

My Femdom story, The Trap,

http://english.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=100174&page=submissions

somehow has the text for Ch 1 repeated instead of the actual concluding Ch 4. I am attempting to get this corrected asap. Thanks to the readers who wrote me to advice me of the incorrect link!

I can be submissive... but that story... I don't know if I'd enjoy that much.

 

[SweetDommes]

Re: Re: wrong story link

I can be submissive... but that story... I don't know if I'd enjoy that much.

Hey, not every aspect of submission (or Dominance) is for every sub (or Dom/me) ... it happens.

And on that note - just to spark some posts in here ... what aspects of submission do you NOT like? Which of you are strict painsluts and don't want any of that sissy cuddling stuff ... which of you are strictly sensual subs and will safeword at the first hint of nipple clamps ... etc.

 

[Xelebes]

I'm a more sensual sub than anything else(look at that word under my name, Xelebes.)

I am not really a pain slut.

 

[Nordic man]

questioning desire to submit?

Now that is a dangerous opening???




Anyway, just wondering, have any of you, as many fem subs do, gone through periods wherein your question your submission and question why you desire it so much?

Self doubt being the key here....

My questioning why I desire submitting I guess for me was answered over time. I found the more I submitted the more I liked it. I just fully enjoy being like a knight to my queen more then a servant to an owner. I freely serve my mistress/queen. more of the "real women don't do housework" type of domination/submission relationship

 

[CJontherocks]

This is great. Tell me more. I don't think I could stand too much humiliation before I stood up for myself, but I am very interested in the submissive thing. Do I have to take a bunch of crap, or what?

 

[MissTaken]

This is great. Tell me more. I don't think I could stand too much humiliation before I stood up for myself, but I am very interested in the submissive thing. Do I have to take a bunch of crap, or what?

Thank you, nordic man.

A valid point that submitting requires discovering what "makes you tick."

No, cj, you don't have to take " a lot of crap." It is for you to discover what it is that you enjoy and then find a partner who enjoys giving it to you. As for humiliation, it isn't necessarily about demeaning one in a sense that makes them feel like they are being shat upon. Rather a spanking, a well placed, "nicely done, slut" or other seemingly harmless acts give the Domme and sub what they need to keep their motors running.

We dont' engage in any sissifying behavior, but servitude and yes, pain/sensual play are key items on our menu.

As a new Dominant, it is a journey in which we are both learning about one another's tastes, desires and fantasies. So far, we have meshed 99 percent of the time. Those times we haven't, he just does what he is told!

 

[SweetDommes]

*Nods in total agreement with MissT* We are still learning what we enjoy and what our boys enjoy .. they always have safewords for if they are NOT enjoying what we do with/to them. There are some relationships where the sub does "take a lot of crap" ... but the sub enjoys what happens to him or he would leave (and if they can't leave, then it is abuse - not D/s).

If there are things that you already know that you don't like, then you should talk to your potential Domme(s) about that, as well as anything that you aren't sure about trying, things that you would like to try, and things that you know you do like. Any good Dominant will respect that - they may push your limits, but they will not set out to break them all just for the fun of it.

Miss Karen
Miss Holly

 

[garylee]

males posting?

i suppose i could post a bit here,.........if you are all waiting for more posts...
as a male submissive........i classify myself as a Pro submissive.....since ''i'' do domestics.....''i'' have done domestics for-a-living,..........and.........was trained by a Pro domme in a 15 month real time 24/7--365........
i feel i excel at my domestics tasks....and i am proud to be called slave........
i have been a free agent for 6 months now,....and sometime still hope to find Ms Right.
''i'' am not part nor parcel of this new-school of subs....all head-up on play and sex.
i am the strange one........i am platonic and celebate.

but it's just..my...personal choice.......and........also as i was trained to be.
i look forward to seeing the posts here and maybe yet make a friend.
thank you
garylee

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

So when you identify yourself as celebate does that mean that sex was never part of your training, or what?

Just curious here.

 

[garylee]

hello wolf....

celebate means i have not had sex since oct of 2001...

 

[SweetDommes]

Re: hello wolf....

celebate means i have not had sex since oct of 2001...

I would go insane ... but then again, I don't have to worry about that, cuz I'm the Domme

 

[Alt]

How come my safewords always seems to be "Yes, Mistress"?

 

[Shadowsdream]

How come my safewords always seems to be "Yes, Mistress"?

Because your Mistresss makes you feel safe?

~~smile~~ couldn't resist

 

[garylee]

alt?

i dont know Alt.........my pro domme i trained under told me there is no such thing......

either you can take what dished out or you had no business being there..........

garylee
but that's just my experience

 

[Alt]

Because your Mistresss makes you feel safe?

~~smile~~ couldn't resist

You actually make a very good point!