dreamykitten2
Mistress/switch
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Sorry it took me so long
I came for the party. I love your thread! And yes I'm qualified to be here
I came for the party. I love your thread! And yes I'm qualified to be here
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Anyone else a March Madness widow/er?
not here, don't watch until final 4
I'm a married man myself, and like many others that have posted here, things are, well, quiet at the moment between my wife and I. I truly have no idea how we fell into this rut; we used to have a great sex life, adventurous and fun; and then it just kind of slowed down to a snail's pace. We've had the heart to heart talks, the determined resolutions to improve and date nights which seem to fall off the schedule for no apparent reason.
After a while, you just stop asking, and a wall begins to grow between you.
I'd love to get back to that place where we could share intimate thoughts, feelings and fantasies again; when a short saucy message from her would cause an uncomfortable erection all day. When the simple fact that we were alone in the house would be reason enough for clothes to fly off and behave like teenagers in lust.
Hello all,just thought i would say hi and join in on the thread if thats ok
She wants to,
I think that you are correct and what is it about the drudgery of marriage that drives us here?
Gosh, it's great to see all the new folks here. Thank you for stopping by, and please make yourselves at home, posting and chatting.
Mina, I was thinking about what you said. Maybe it's not so much about keeping the marriage fresh in terms of the way it used to be. Maybe it's about being free enough to morph into a new way of looking at one another. In our minds we always want it to be the way we felt when we were in our 20's. The question I face every day is how do I adjust to being a man in my 60's but still thinking I would like to be in my 20's. I respect my wife and she respects me, but we are used to seeing one another naked and there isn't the spirit of the chase any longer. When we got married we wanted stability. That's what we have. Our excitement for each other has changed into exitement for the things we do together. My wife and I don't discuss sex any more, and I think we have both accepted the fact we aren't really turned on by one another the way we used to be. I don't honestly know what she does to satisfy herself sexually... I mean at this time she almost seems asexual to me. As for me, I have a very active fanstasy life. I write and publish on Lit and now and then I find a play partner in chat. I don't think my wife and I find our marriage to be tedious or full of drudgery, we have just morphed as a couple into a different relationship. Some would say that is sad. I just kind of believe it is inevitable and accept it.
I like chatting with women, especially married ones. I guess I just get along with women a little more than guys. I just enjoy the conversation more. Maybe I'm weird. But I've never talked with another married woman about anything sexual. That sort of thing kinda gets me nervious in a sexual sort of way like it's taboo. Just thinking about it kind of makes the tips of my fingers cold with excitement.