Married Woman Who Like To...

Sorry it took me so long

I came for the party. I love your thread! And yes I'm qualified to be here:rose:
 
Hello All:
Great thread. I am a married male who absolutely enjoys chatting with women about anything and everything sexual and erotic.
Feel free to drop me a pm or email
 
I like chatting with women, especially married ones. I guess I just get along with women a little more than guys. I just enjoy the conversation more. Maybe I'm weird. But I've never talked with another married woman about anything sexual. That sort of thing kinda gets me nervious in a sexual sort of way like it's taboo. Just thinking about it kind of makes the tips of my fingers cold with excitement. :)
 
Thank you for starting this thread...I am a married woman who definitely qualifies and would love to find a special, attentive, caring man who also would like the same in return.
 
Married man here. Sex life and attention from wife could use some massive improvement, but did get some this week from a dry spell of 5 weeks.
However, I am a good listener with a big shoulder to cry on. I can get into erotic chatting if that's what you require. I am retired with a disability so I have all day to chat. My team lost in the second round so I won't be bothered by sports. I do try to pay attention to my wife during the evening even if it's one sided, between commercials, or when she takes a break from Facebook. But after 10:30 I can be all yours.
 
I'm a married man myself, and like many others that have posted here, things are, well, quiet at the moment between my wife and I. I truly have no idea how we fell into this rut; we used to have a great sex life, adventurous and fun; and then it just kind of slowed down to a snail's pace. We've had the heart to heart talks, the determined resolutions to improve and date nights which seem to fall off the schedule for no apparent reason.

After a while, you just stop asking, and a wall begins to grow between you.

I'd love to get back to that place where we could share intimate thoughts, feelings and fantasies again; when a short saucy message from her would cause an uncomfortable erection all day. When the simple fact that we were alone in the house would be reason enough for clothes to fly off and behave like teenagers in lust.
 
I would love to join in, married man here that just loves to chat and have a good conversation. feel free to pm if you want.
 
I'm a married man myself, and like many others that have posted here, things are, well, quiet at the moment between my wife and I. I truly have no idea how we fell into this rut; we used to have a great sex life, adventurous and fun; and then it just kind of slowed down to a snail's pace. We've had the heart to heart talks, the determined resolutions to improve and date nights which seem to fall off the schedule for no apparent reason.

After a while, you just stop asking, and a wall begins to grow between you.

I'd love to get back to that place where we could share intimate thoughts, feelings and fantasies again; when a short saucy message from her would cause an uncomfortable erection all day. When the simple fact that we were alone in the house would be reason enough for clothes to fly off and behave like teenagers in lust.

Achingly beautiful, JKayle. Hope you and your wife find that again.
 
She wants to,

I think that you are correct and what is it about the drudgery of marriage that drives us here?
 
She wants to,

I think that you are correct and what is it about the drudgery of marriage that drives us here?

The age-old question, right? How do you keep a marriage fresh so that the people in it don't look on it as drudgery?
 
Gosh, it's great to see all the new folks here. Thank you for stopping by, and please make yourselves at home, posting and chatting.


Mina, I was thinking about what you said. Maybe it's not so much about keeping the marriage fresh in terms of the way it used to be. Maybe it's about being free enough to morph into a new way of looking at one another. In our minds we always want it to be the way we felt when we were in our 20's. The question I face every day is how do I adjust to being a man in my 60's but still thinking I would like to be in my 20's. I respect my wife and she respects me, but we are used to seeing one another naked and there isn't the spirit of the chase any longer. When we got married we wanted stability. That's what we have. Our excitement for each other has changed into exitement for the things we do together. My wife and I don't discuss sex any more, and I think we have both accepted the fact we aren't really turned on by one another the way we used to be. I don't honestly know what she does to satisfy herself sexually... I mean at this time she almost seems asexual to me. As for me, I have a very active fanstasy life. I write and publish on Lit and now and then I find a play partner in chat. I don't think my wife and I find our marriage to be tedious or full of drudgery, we have just morphed as a couple into a different relationship. Some would say that is sad. I just kind of believe it is inevitable and accept it.


Your thread has definitely grown wings. :)

I'm trying to say this in a not-so-whining tone, but I don't want to give in to inevitability (if that's even possible). I don't want to accept that the person who is pretty much my best friend is going to simply be that - a friend. I have enough friends. :eek:

I look around and see so many married people and most of those who have been married for more than a few years don't seem to be all that happy. What are the happy couples doing that, say, I'm not? Anyone have a clue?

All I can say is thank goodness for the Internet. At least those of us here have an outlet.
 
I like chatting with women, especially married ones. I guess I just get along with women a little more than guys. I just enjoy the conversation more. Maybe I'm weird. But I've never talked with another married woman about anything sexual. That sort of thing kinda gets me nervious in a sexual sort of way like it's taboo. Just thinking about it kind of makes the tips of my fingers cold with excitement. :)

Likewise, I also get along better with my female friends. I have male friends, but I just seem to have more in common with the ladies and can have more intelligent conversations with them, for the most part. This isn't a hard-set rule, mind you, as there are a couple of guys I can engage in some deep topics, but I find the women to be able to get into more emotions and things like that.

Must be the female part of me, haha. LOL
 
I think when you been married for along time you know your partner well and its very hard to keep things fresh and different and after a while you tend to get stuck in a rut,same things same days,
 
I don't believe the that the decline of marriage is inevitable; but it's something that has to be worked at. Once it settles into that 'comfortable' stage, both partners need to address the problem before inaction and inertia exacerbate the problem, unless of course both are happy with things as they are.

Unfortunately, as is usually the case, only one spouse has the desire and inclination to turn back the clock and reinvigorate the marriage, and these efforts are usually doomed to failure. After all, the only person you can change is yourself.
 
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