Reflections of a straight guy who recently bottomed

I feel it will cause bad feelings if I back out. So does my wife.

You're never obligated to do anything you don't feel comfortable with. If you back out, it is only because they pushed your boundaries too far. How many guys are trying to get in on the action?
 
You're never obligated to do anything you don't feel comfortable with. If you back out, it is only because they pushed your boundaries too far. How many guys are trying to get in on the action?

About a dozen. They are saying i am concentrating too much on the numbers
 
The only thing I have to base things on as they were respectful last time

That would honestly be my only concern. I'd try to give everyone a turn but if the lube isn't working any more they have to be willing to stop. Or at least turn into a circle jerk around me for whoever hasn't cum yet.
 
About a dozen. They are saying i am concentrating too much on the numbers

First of all, super jealous you have an opportunity like that to play and have fun. Sounds like your first one went well so can see your excitement to try again and have fun too. Especially if your wife is going to be there.

There’s a big difference in 6 and 12. Relate it to the difference between a 6” cock or a 12” one. Your fist time you said you bottomed for three guys for two hours-that’s a lot of fucking—porn pro level in my opinion. Most women couldn’t take 4 cocks fucking them for that long.

Six guys at once, depending on how hung they are and how they fuck is a lot. If they’re good at it, it should be a great experience. I’m guessing your sucking them all too? Six is about the most I’d be able to handle even in my wildest fantasies. And I will admit not sure if I could handle six good sized cocks all in a few hours fucking me. Can’t say I wouldn’t try it, but never had more than two at once so four seems doable and six sounds fun.

But 12? That’s a whole different story. Even if they were fucking both me and my wife, 12 guys at once is quite a lot. I would think they’d at least all want sucked and fucked, so that’s a LOT of cock.

Have to agree with others that yes it’s hot you’re having an opportunity, and yes I’m envious of your good fortune to suck and flick multiple cocks at once, but seems like your friends should dial it back and realize if they want to keep having fun with you, even in out another agreed upon friend or two, they should respect your boundaries and limits. I’d just straight up tell them no more than six period if that’s what you want, and if more than that show up, leave.

Nothing wrong with what you’re doing, and believe me we want all the details, but you’re actually the one in control of the situation.
 
First of all, super jealous you have an opportunity like that to play and have fun. Sounds like your first one went well so can see your excitement to try again and have fun too. Especially if your wife is going to be there.

There’s a big difference in 6 and 12. Relate it to the difference between a 6” cock or a 12” one. Your fist time you said you bottomed for three guys for two hours-that’s a lot of fucking—porn pro level in my opinion. Most women couldn’t take 4 cocks fucking them for that long.

Six guys at once, depending on how hung they are and how they fuck is a lot. If they’re good at it, it should be a great experience. I’m guessing your sucking them all too? Six is about the most I’d be able to handle even in my wildest fantasies. And I will admit not sure if I could handle six good sized cocks all in a few hours fucking me. Can’t say I wouldn’t try it, but never had more than two at once so four seems doable and six sounds fun.

But 12? That’s a whole different story. Even if they were fucking both me and my wife, 12 guys at once is quite a lot. I would think they’d at least all want sucked and fucked, so that’s a LOT of cock.

Have to agree with others that yes it’s hot you’re having an opportunity, and yes I’m envious of your good fortune to suck and flick multiple cocks at once, but seems like your friends should dial it back and realize if they want to keep having fun with you, even in out another agreed upon friend or two, they should respect your boundaries and limits. I’d just straight up tell them no more than six period if that’s what you want, and if more than that show up, leave.

Nothing wrong with what you’re doing, and believe me we want all the details, but you’re actually the one in control of the situation.

The guys just say that I shouldn't get hung up too much on the numbers. They say I just need to be relaxed with it. They been saying we should just work out some agreements up front with this so I have an idea of what to expect.
 
The guys just say that I shouldn't get hung up too much on the numbers. They say I just need to be relaxed with it. They been saying we should just work out some agreements up front with this so I have an idea of what to expect.

Well, like I said, jealous you have the opportunity, but there’s a big difference is fucking six people and 12. If you think you can do it, then go for it. But it’s a marathon and not a race.

I’d like to think I’m highly sexed and so is my wife, but even if we were both sucking and fucking them, six hard cocks would be a night full and we’d both be worn out and fully satisfied by the end.

Good luck and let us all know how it goes. Too bad we’re not closer or we’d love to join you if invited. That’s the type of opportunity that you don’t get very often.
 
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I have to say I am very jealous of you 28straightguy chance to have that many guys wanting you at the same time is rare and special. I would not think about the number and try something some people have dreamed about. You already know the guys are going be respectful from the past experience. If you don’t like it you don’t have to do it ever again. If you like it might open doors for new play time for you.
 
I have to say I am very jealous of you 28straightguy chance to have that many guys wanting you at the same time is rare and special. I would not think about the number and try something some people have dreamed about. You already know the guys are going be respectful from the past experience. If you don’t like it you don’t have to do it ever again. If you like it might open doors for new play time for you.

I agree. Extremely envious of your opportunity and if I put my self in your place, I’d probably go for it too. Opportunities like that don’t come around often, and you’ve already had two at once and now have the opportunity to do more. Agree it may also open up other opportunities with other participants for you and your wife to have fun with.

Al we want is details, details, details....please!
 
My permanent F/B (76) had led a very straight life but after a month or so of meeting and him doing my ass several times started to ask about how it felt and said he had watched some gay porn to get an idea so I suggested that I gently start playing with him which he agreed to. First a little bit of rimming and popping a finger in. When he was comfortable with that I inserted a small butt plug and told him to get on with his day. He called me about 3 hours later saying he was so turned on that he didn't know what to do. We progressed on giving him bigger plugs then onto dildos to the point he said he was gagging to have his ass fucked. So I proudly became his first (albeit with a strap on) as he was very nervous.
As time went on we met Dave (68) bisexual hairy bear of a man but the sweetest most kindest individual you could meet who is also rather well endowed. After a little bit of time and now feeling comfortable with Dave, Dan got his ass fucked. At first he held on to me but after a short while once relaxed he really got into it. Dan and Dave now meet regularly without us ladies and enjoy each other then go out looking for 'tight young ass'. He now believes that a persons sexuality is fluid, he only became very curious when he saw how much pleasure myself and Beth got from anal and started looking into it. He is now a confirmed bi sexual and is now during lock down exploring some cross dressing fantasies, we have unleashed a beast!!
 
Is there someone you trust that could come along as a chaperone. Maybe someone from your swing group to act as a ringmaster or some other role playing master of events. But is really there with your safety in mind. I've been seriously looking into angangbang myself but I would have my friend there as I want to be tied up and blind folded.
 
First a little bit of rimming and popping a finger in. !

thats how I got started. Exgf started with her finger (without telling me first) then seeing how much I loved it another time she opened the refrigerator and took out a carrot. Again seeing how much I loved it the next time took out a cucumber. After we broke up I bought plugs and a dong and now im hoooked.. Damn finger started it all ... ;)
 
28straightguy, I'm getting concerned here. One for your safety and concern about trusting the original 4 guys. You agreed to a total of 6 now it is 20? Please think about this. Numbers are important. I've been there done that and only 2 took me anally and the rest vaginally and orally. I was sore and worn out afterwards! The world's greatest lover could have wanted me the next day and I would NOT have been interested!
Also you are new to this and physically new to it. You can have some problems later that aren' pleasant the next few days after this even if uninjured. Be careful and seriously think about what you could go through both during and afterwards.
 
28straightguy, I'm getting concerned here. One for your safety and concern about trusting the original 4 guys. You agreed to a total of 6 now it is 20? Please think about this. Numbers are important. I've been there done that and only 2 took me anally and the rest vaginally and orally. I was sore and worn out afterwards! The world's greatest lover could have wanted me the next day and I would NOT have been interested!
Also you are new to this and physically new to it. You can have some problems later that aren' pleasant the next few days after this even if uninjured. Be careful and seriously think about what you could go through both during and afterwards.

We are having discussions of cutting the numbers back.
 
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