Reflections of a straight guy who recently bottomed

We are having discussions of cutting the numbers back.

Good! I think that is very wise. Maybe sometime in the future and you enjoy doing this and are physically ready you can add more guys. Please know I am not being judgmental at all. I think it can be great fun for you, your wife and all envolved, but be careful. To much of a good thing can be bad sometimes. Hugs
 
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Hey Guys!


You may want to watch what fl_openminded posts because he doesn’t care. Laurel gets pissed-off when she gets sued over members that don't care what they post, she closes threads and bans members.

He hit my thread twice and was concerned it was going to be closed for [Material prohibited per forum guidelines.]
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Oh sorry didn't know there was a last time. What happened then

You idiot, go back and read the first page which is where this all started as well as how this thread was started.

What did you do, just jump to the last page, without starting from the first?
 
We are having discussions of cutting the numbers back.

I have read this thread and you are being set up. Do NOT do it. I was a beard for two years to a wonderful gay man who I still love and he would never push anyone to do something like this. I lived in that world and saw how selfish and dangerous some of these men can be. And this was back in the days when AIDS was starting. They do not care about you, your wife nor your health. Run the fuck away.
 
I can relate to the feeling that "I don't have any regrets for it or feel any less of a man from the experience. I do feel that I grew some just as a person."
I actually felt more of a complete man, since I could enjoy his masculinity and satisfy him with my ass. I fully enjoyed that part of it. And I enjoyed the sensation of my ass being filled with hard cock. I'd fucked a few guys before that, and I really enjoyed being his top.
Ever since, when I'm in bed with a man I want him up my ass. Sadly, not every guy wants to fuck me. Mutual sucking is great, but the night seems incomplete without me getting fucked.
I'm a convert now. I could be happy with just M/M sex, if it weren't for the boobs. I love them too. Maybe I need a tranny. They have it all; tits, ass and cock.

Yes must say a hot shemale is definitely the way to go.......... Dam my experience was hot!!
 
WOW! I am glad you were able to keep it to no more than six. That is more than enough. Trust me. Please let us know how it goes and how you feel after doing it. Will this be anal and oral? and will your wife go with you sort of as a monitor? Good luck and try and enjoy.
 
WOW! I am glad you were able to keep it to no more than six. That is more than enough. Trust me. Please let us know how it goes and how you feel after doing it. Will this be anal and oral? and will your wife go with you sort of as a monitor? Good luck and try and enjoy.

She will not be there. Its oral and anal
 
She will not be there. Its oral and anal
what steps will you take to prepare yourself for the night. I assume you will clean out your insides well ahead of time. Will you stretch yourself with a toy also to be ready for a big one? will you bring condoms and lube or depend on others? will you have some alcohol or something else to help you relax?
 
what steps will you take to prepare yourself for the night. I assume you will clean out your insides well ahead of time. Will you stretch yourself with a toy also to be ready for a big one? will you bring condoms and lube or depend on others? will you have some alcohol or something else to help you relax?

I will clean. Have some beers during it. Its bare sex, guys tested. Not doing anything to stretch as the guys want a tight experience to begin with.
 
I will clean. Have some beers during it. Its bare sex, guys tested. Not doing anything to stretch as the guys want a tight experience to begin with.

I’m waiting for details and how it goes. No judgements, no suggestions (well, LOTS of lube), and can’t wait to see how it goes. Jealous you’re having the fun and I’m not, but glad you’re doing something epic and hope it’s as pleasurable as it sounds like it may be. When’s it going to happen?
 
I have had to take a couple of days to contemplate what happened. Being tied down just put me at a disadvantage. I don't plan on doing it again, at least not in this manner. The tone just was different than before, the guys were using me pretty heavily for sex. I just feel I was over confident agreeing to do this.
 
I have had to take a couple of days to contemplate what happened. Being tied down just put me at a disadvantage. I don't plan on doing it again, at least not in this manner. The tone just was different than before, the guys were using me pretty heavily for sex. I just feel I was over confident agreeing to do this.
it's just sex. it does not define you as a person. take a while to absorb what your experience was. whatever happened says as much or more about your partners as it does about you. sorry if it was not to your liking. with reflection, I hope you can come to terms with it all and not have it be an ongoing issue with your life.
 
it's just sex. it does not define you as a person. take a while to absorb what your experience was. whatever happened says as much or more about your partners as it does about you. sorry if it was not to your liking. with reflection, I hope you can come to terms with it all and not have it be an ongoing issue with your life.

Its not really an issue for me in life. Live and learn.
 
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