ArtisticControl
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Perhaps that is the difference. I wouldn’t.
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My two cents for whatever it’s worth. This same thing happens to us all, regardless of gender. And it can make any of us jaded.
But honestly, I don’t think this same type of thread would go over well if it was done the other way around.
Haha. I try and do this too!
I believe this to be true. I’m sure there are such men around, but there’s no way in a million years I would publicly bemoan the opposite sexes fickleness however many times I’m ghosted. They have their reasons and in the end they owe me nothing. That said my situation is completely different from OPs and I’m not judging her or anyone for feeling hurt.
Well I tick one of the boxes, It is only the being over 40 one but hey….
It’s easier for me to avoid feeling sad and bitter if I’m too busy feeling sorry for the poor dumb bastard that had a chance with me and lost it *
how do I turn them on???
You strip, slowly while making eye contact. Music is optional
OMG I'm crying over my hardon
Laughing insanely
The last page or two made the time better. It was a bit of a downer, but then it picked up. Thanks for asking.Is everyone here having a good time?
I don’t know what this world is coming to when you can’t trust men on a porn site to be honest, dependable, and emotionally available.
Laughed so much I snorted my coffee.
It’s crazy, right?
My two cents for whatever it’s worth. This same thing happens to us all, regardless of gender. And it can make any of us jaded.
But honestly, I don’t think this same type of thread would go over well if it was done the other way around.
Some of my favorite posts and take aways from this thread:
Sweetie, if you don't know how to "turn them on," you should be reading and posting on another thread. Said with love and affection, and only in fun! xo
Seriously, my favorite post! I laughed when I read this and it made reading the rest of thread worth the time. Thanks, water_mountina.
We all are!! But in a good way.
Do I need to repeat the above?
We all are!! But in a good way.
The last page or two made the time better. It was a bit of a downer, but then it picked up. Thanks for asking.
I know. If we can't expect the basic minimum. lol And I'm guessing the same can be said for some of their female counter parts too.
I was glad I wasn't drinking anything at the time.
On this we totally agree. It's crazy.
Listen AC...you don't need a thread, you just need to hand over that crop to yours truly. The crop and your two cents!
Enjoy the moment! It changes so quickly...there are so many worse things happening in life and in the world right now, we need to put things in perspective. Be well and stay safe.
p.s. I've been fortunate enough to meet few "awesome" people on Lit and I thank each and every one of them for their friendship. For the other situations, we need an improved "edit" option.
I fit in the bill except for point no:2, its a narrow miss !!! bumping your amazing post <3I used to meet some really amazing men here. Lately, there seems to be an endless string of, I’ll be nice and call them “less than stellar” guys. I know you awesome guys are out there, likely lurking in the shadows. Please help restore the faith of the women of Lit that there really are some decent and wonderful men here.
Come say hi and introduce yourself if you are…
-Confident
-OVER 40
-Good looking
-Kind
-Funny/witty
-Not a man whore
-Emotionally available
-A great conversationalist
-Intelligent
-Not boring
-Not “too nice” or “trying too hard”
-Sincere
-Considerate
-At least a little pervy
-NOT AN ASSHOLE (wanting to lick them is ok, being one is not)
* This is a general list, my personal list is way more specific. I reserve the right to amend it as I see fit.
** This has gone off the rails a bit. What i envisioned was a fun thread where people could interact, but instead my inbox has blown up.
***As a side note, my specific list includes no bi guys, no men who are into wearing women’s panties and no submissive men. I’m not kink shaming, just not my thing.
**** Just to clarify, I’m not really looking for anyone and I’m definitely not looking for horny guys who just want to e-bone. I was considering a man hating post yesterday, but thought this would be a better idea. I’ve had enough heartbreak to last me for a good long while. But, if the Lit fairy drops the rare and elusive unicorn right in my lap, I won’t turn him away.
Hi. Yes, I tick most of these if not all. I am shy to begin with, but interesting once you get to know me.I used to meet some really amazing men here. Lately, there seems to be an endless string of, I’ll be nice and call them “less than stellar” guys. I know you awesome guys are out there, likely lurking in the shadows. Please help restore the faith of the women of Lit that there really are some decent and wonderful men here.
Come say hi and introduce yourself if you are…
-Confident
-OVER 40
-Good looking
-Kind
-Funny/witty
-Not a man whore
-Emotionally available
-A great conversationalist
-Intelligent
-Not boring
-Not “too nice” or “trying too hard”
-Sincere
-Considerate
-At least a little pervy
-NOT AN ASSHOLE (wanting to lick them is ok, being one is not)
* This is a general list, my personal list is way more specific. I reserve the right to amend it as I see fit.
** This has gone off the rails a bit. What i envisioned was a fun thread where people could interact, but instead my inbox has blown up.
***As a side note, my specific list includes no bi guys, no men who are into wearing women’s panties and no submissive men. I’m not kink shaming, just not my thing.
**** Just to clarify, I’m not really looking for anyone and I’m definitely not looking for horny guys who just want to e-bone. I was considering a man hating post yesterday, but thought this would be a better idea. I’ve had enough heartbreak to last me for a good long while. But, if the Lit fairy drops the rare and elusive unicorn right in my lap, I won’t turn him away.
Really? Care to share with the class?
I’ve never seen or heard of you until you posted on this thread. So, anything you think you know about me has never come from any actual interaction with me.
I love this outlook, and I think I'm going to adopt it!
This is much better than the whole " I dont know you at all but I'm going jump in anyway and be super judgmental here and say that you are the problem" response I saw a page back
It’s an open forum, correct? Pretty sure anyone can give their opinion on anything even if you do not know the person. But hey, no one knows me or had heard of me so what do I know? **
I agree with the respect thing. Especially if you’re about to comment on another person’s thread and commenting on their personality specifically, without knowing them.
Err on the side of politeness and not snide judgement
Physics? People are having problems finding others with chemistry already
I find this thread interesting. I certainly can understand the OP's plight. It is very difficult to discern a person's true nature from posts. PM's and such. The nature of the communication, with no vocal inflection, facial cues and such make it so much harder.
I recognize that it applies to men and women, but the fact is that the percentage of men is so much higher that women are going to receive more creepy come ons and bad connections. Plus, let's be honest, most men are so happy to get attention they will rarely say no. (There are exceptions guys, I know)
That being said, the OP has every right to lay out her desires, or say whatever the hell she wants to on this site. But she is hampered by the same limitations. I may think I fit her list. Maybe I do, maybe I don't. I certainly know my opinion of myself is not exactly objective. But it will be difficult for her to know the right person because it's a connection that takes time, and some guys are really not good at that first introduction.
I wish her and all the posters on this thread happiness and a great connection. There are a lot of frogs, and sometimes it takes more than one kiss to find your prince here.
Of course all this is true. The issue I have is in the creation of a “repository of good men” based solely on the author’s criteria of what a “good man” is for them.
As I suggested earlier, if it was reversed I don’t think it would be well received.
It was meant to be fun and light hearted. You’re taking it way too seriously.
I think everyone has the right to their own criteria has far as relationships go. If you don’t meet the criteria or just don’t mesh wether it makes sense or is not fair that is the way highly personal choices are. I also think many times people have a highly sensitive “creeper” sense. Between both those factors it is very possible a good guy gets rejected. And that is ok. I enjoy having chats with people. Some of the chats have ended for various reasons and some are on going. It’s just the nature of the beast. Just remember love is like a fart. You don’t want to force it or bad things might happen
This made me giggle.