Dangerous_Curves27
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You strip, slowly while making eye contact. Music is optional
Brown chicken brown cow
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You strip, slowly while making eye contact. Music is optional
Is everyone here having a good time?
Yes, please. Throw in some stripping for good measuresYou should liven it up with some good music.
You were supposed to liven things up. That was a little depressing.
Here's one I can't believe has been kicking around in my head this much
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2dTMIH5gCHg
That's not to disparage your approach Lonelywife, just musing about what works and doesn't work as far as finding what you're looking for; I do hope it works wonderfully for you, and you find someone who's awesome both for the reasons you've listed as well as reasons you haven't - maybe even for reasons you haven't considered
I don’t know what this world is coming to when you can’t trust men on a porn site to be honest, dependable, and emotionally available.
I think this at the crux of LWs problem. We all want to be as many women as possibles’ awesome men, to maximise our chances across as many suitable partners as possible so as few as possible escape the net. But to (perhaps foolishly) extend the metaphor some of us are fishing for Seabass others for sardines.
LW wants someone emotionally available and not out to be e-boned. Whilst I want to at least catch her in my net, (because who knows we might be each other’s unicorns), the reality is we’re looking for different things. And that’s completely OK. That’s each other’s loss (or not). I think LWs contention is that if only people men or women were honest with their correspondents, and indeed themselves about what they’re really looking for, there might be happier people on here
Personally if I was looking for an emotional connection, literotica would be the last place I’d look. Don’t get me wrong I’ve made friends for life on here. Women I’ve initially engaged with to e-bone but whom have turned into confidants, shoulders to cry on, people whom I would dearly love to be living in the same continent as, because they’re a valuable addition to my life (you know who you are!) but that’s a bonus, a real bonus. I was not expecting to find. And I’ve been chatting with women for over a decade to fill the gap in my intimate life. But my feeling (no empirical data, and the number of men replying to this text as I did, that they are not emotionally available) is that many men in here are looking for the same thing as me, to get off, get their chat partner off and share an experience that would otherwise be a lonely wank when the missus isn’t around.
Sad but true.
I don’t know what this world is coming to when you can’t trust men on a porn site to be honest, dependable, and emotionally available.
It’s crazy, right?
I’ve experienced some amazing emotional connections with men from Lit. You might be very surprised at the number of men here who are actually looking for or are open to that. I have casually e-boned people in the past, and each time it left me feeling worse. What’s missing in my life is intimacy. Don’t get me wrong, I love sex, it’s just not the be all end all for me. No judgment towards the “just sex” people, it’s just not what I’m looking for. I’m very honest with people about that.
Part of having feelings is knowing that you’re going to have them hurt sometimes.
If your guy ended things because he was troubled by your being married, tell yourself that it’s because you’re so awesome he couldn’t help falling too hard for you, and had to get out to protect his heart.
I find life more enjoyable if I believe that every man I’ve ever shared any level of intimacy with (and a respectable number of casual acquaintances) are spending the rest of their lives miserably pining away for me. It might not be true, but it also might be, right?
The poor guy is heartbroken. Surely.
That’s a compliment. Take it as one. Mourn the loss of the relationship and take as long as you need to be sad about it. That’s part of the relationship, too.
Part of having feelings is knowing that you’re going to have them hurt sometimes.
If your guy ended things because he was troubled by your being married, tell yourself that it’s because you’re so awesome he couldn’t help falling too hard for you, and had to get out to protect his heart.
I find life more enjoyable if I believe that every man I’ve ever shared any level of intimacy with (and a respectable number of casual acquaintances) are spending the rest of their lives miserably pining away for me. It might not be true, but it also might be, right?
The poor guy is heartbroken. Surely.
That’s a compliment. Take it as one. Mourn the loss of the relationship and take as long as you need to be sad about it. That’s part of the relationship, too.
Part of having feelings is knowing that you’re going to have them hurt sometimes.
If your guy ended things because he was troubled by your being married, tell yourself that it’s because you’re so awesome he couldn’t help falling too hard for you, and had to get out to protect his heart.
I find life more enjoyable if I believe that every man I’ve ever shared any level of intimacy with (and a respectable number of casual acquaintances) are spending the rest of their lives miserably pining away for me. It might not be true, but it also might be, right?
The poor guy is heartbroken. Surely.
That’s a compliment. Take it as one. Mourn the loss of the relationship and take as long as you need to be sad about it. That’s part of the relationship, too.
My two cents for whatever it’s worth. This same thing happens to us all, regardless of gender. And it can make any of us jaded.
But honestly, I don’t think this same type of thread would go over well if it was done the other way around.