Sexless Marriages

[sassysara67]

If you need a little help and fun, then PM me.

 

[uncut1234]

I am totally in a sexless marriage and have been pretty much for a few years! We’re out there but we are a bit like unicorns

I am a woman in her 50’s with the sex drive of an 18 yr old boy, that’s not normal I’ve been told by female friends the same age and male friends. I should be settling down for my old age with my hormones dying a slow death, but hell no!

If you still have it, use it. Nice post !

 

[shizzz]

I am totally in a sexless marriage and have been pretty much for a few years! We’re out there but we are a bit like unicorns

I am a woman in her 50’s with the sex drive of an 18 yr old boy, that’s not normal I’ve been told by female friends the same age and male friends. I should be settling down for my old age with my hormones dying a slow death, but hell no!

lol. Dangerous place for such bold statements.

 

[shizzz]

Actually one of the things GreenMan and I realized once we took it to ‘in person’ instead of just here, we both miss the general intimacy like hugging, kissing, holding hands and just having someone who cares about us there daily, as much as the sex. The time we spend apart in between visits makes this even more apparent - humans need all kinds of intimacy to thrive.

I miss the feel of another body. Cuddling in a couch, a brief embrace. Physical contact creates a channel for me somehow, it’s the only way/time I don’t feel isolated…

 

[Doodledude]

I don’t even remember how long it’s been. We’re roommates and friends now, but there’s no affection. Divorce is out of the question and I have enough respect for her to not go out so I’ve come on here to find someone to talk with.

 

[Fune_Meretrix]

Yep. I’m experiencing this now. My 30’s are just passing by at this point…

 

[shizzz]

for those that don’t divorce? Why. My kid are finishing high school and I am seriously considering splitting up.

Like it’s driving me me crazy

 

[Alancaster78]

Happy Valentine’s Day to all my friends who find meaning, comfort, and connection on this thread. Let us support one another today and everyday.

 

[BobbyandtheCabin]

Today's felt pretty shit. Long day at work and the usual absence of any affection, romance etc. when I got home.
Sat down on the sofa and could hear my neighbours fucking loudly through the walls. Valentines treat. Just made me feel sad.

 

[eric_erosfan]

for those that don’t divorce? Why. My kid are finishing high school and I am seriously considering splitting up.

Like it’s driving me me crazy

I don't know how anyone can afford divorce. We know a couple who decided to stay married but are basically divorced just to avoid the expense. The husband made up a place to live like a bachelor in the garage.

 

[fullservice65]

We had a pre-Valentine's Day dinner out last night, and as I listened to her talk across the table, I also imagined taking her from behind.
When we got home, I told her I wanted to have sex. "I'm tired" was her response.
Happy Valentine's Day!

 

[Ljpoker8d1]

I am totally in a sexless marriage and have been pretty much for a few years! We’re out there but we are a bit like unicorns

I am a woman in her 50’s with the sex drive of an 18 yr old boy, that’s not normal I’ve been told by female friends the same age and male friends. I should be settling down for my old age with my hormones dying a slow death, but hell no!

Can you meet with my wife lol I’m 42 and we have sex 2-4 times a week but I still have a drive like in my 20’s. Stamina included. Multiple times even. And she doesn’t take advantage lol. I’m in a place where sex for her is great but for me it’s mundane. She doesn’t wanna let me spice it up. Very plain. So I find spice through fantasy chat.

 

[BEAR28]

I been in a sexless marriage for 3 years. Last night took her to a nice restaurant and had a amazing time get home and settled in and I am thinking we are gonna get that pre v day sex only to be told she was tired and had a early meeting online in the morning. Bronx man here just frustrated.

 

[Alancaster78]

I just had an amazing workout. It helps with the frustration!

Have a great day peeps!

 

[brdplt]

Another valentines passes with no sex….thats 4 in a row I believe…..par for the course around here

 

[cuck72]

I just deal with the lack of sex through my submissive cuckold thoughts. My wife has cheated in the past, but years ago. So, now I can still get off with those cuckold thoughts, excepting being denied sex because she's cuckolding me again, thinking with a much young guy with a big cock. I am only 4" and thin. So, for me being in a sexless marriage makes me just feel like her caged pathetic sissy bitch cuckold husband. It's so exciting to imagine my mature sexy wife with a younger REAL MAN satisfying her sexual needs. It works with me still enjoying sex with myself. I also have gotten into sissy boi gay porn without the sex from my wife. We had a good run for years, now I live with my sissy gay boi or cleanup cuckold fantasies.

 

[Anchor10]

If you need a little help and fun, then PM me.

A little help sounds like a lot of fun.

 

[scorp121]

Does it count if you’re left unsatisfied a lot after sex?

You should be satisfied everytime.

 

[Britva415]

Does it count if you’re left unsatisfied a lot after sex?

I don't think that counts as "sexless," but it's still bad.

 

[Friedfred]

Anyone else with this problem?
I have a high sex drive and the wife doesn't.
Looking for others with this problem, and possibly helping fill our needs.

Been over twenty years for me. I'm 68

 

[Roxxm_e]

Does it count if you’re left unsatisfied a lot after sex?

It must be more frustrating I think

 

[NormalMarriedWhiteGuy]

A wise older guy told me this years ago before I got married: Good sex will never save a bad marriage or relationship. But bad sex or no sex will undo a good one.

 

[whiskeycowgirl23]

A wise older guy told me this years ago before I got married: Good sex will never save a bad marriage or relationship. But bad sex or no sex will undo a good one.

So absolutely true.

 

[hotjb69]

I guess I can join this club. It's been sexless for years now. I bring it up, like groundhog day - about once or twice a year. Tears ensue. and then nothing. This past Valentine days - made a nice dinner, wine, card... all the usual. She did nothing.

So I'm looking for friends with benefits out there. I absolutely don't consider it cheating because - she's not even in the game, so how can it be cheating???
I'm in Los Angeles and it'd be great to connect with someone...female, male... whatever.

 

[Cob083]

I was in a sexless marriage up until my divorce a few years ago. Now I'm just playing the field.