So, last week my mother committed suicide...

[bustyblondebombshell]

Watch out Velvet, he'll have you strapped up to some kind of mains power Stim machine before you can say 'nanaman's got handcuffs!

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Watch out Velvet, he'll have you strapped up to some kind of mains power Stim machine before you can say 'nanaman's got handcuffs!

I know, gonna keep running.............................

Shhh... if you let on that that's what I'm really after he'll only change his mind.

 

[mickyp123]

Watch out Velvet, he'll have you strapped up to some kind of mains power Stim machine before you can say 'nanaman's got handcuffs!

battery power actually, for you i will strap you down and force you to watch a Vanquish being crushed and that will hurt me as well

 

[bustyblondebombshell]

battery power actually, for you i will strap you down and force you to watch a Vanquish being crushed and that will hurt me as well

lol... batteries, mains.... its all non consent isn't it.... christ!

Every pleasure is counteracted by pain though dear Mickey, I thought you knew that by now

Night all

 

[mickyp123]

I know, gonna keep running.............................

Shhh... if you let on that that's what I'm really after he'll only change his mind.

and when you finally tire out, panting, sweating, trying to catch your breath, pheromones, everywhere, dragon will have his day, and the swish followed by the sting will take your breath away

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Night BBB, Dragon

Been good to have a laugh, thanks for staying up with me.

To my bed and hot water bottle (assuming Micky hasn't booby trapped it or something )

 

[mickyp123]

lol... batteries, mains.... its all non consent isn't it.... christ!

Every pleasure is counteracted by pain though dear Mickey, I thought you knew that by now

Night all

a wonderful balance, nite



"christ" tut tut

 

[mickyp123]

Night BBB, Dragon

Been good to have a laugh, thanks for staying up with me.

To my bed and hot water bottle (assuming Micky hasn't booby trapped it or something )

Awww, no that would be cruel, sleep well , thinks.... go on micky, just a small needle in the bottle, make her wet

 

[onyxvixen]

Don't blame me, it's all Vixen's fault this one, she's been prowling...

Passing the buck eh? I can see you're looking brighter.

Leave you alone for one evening and you go and get all upbeat. When the cat's away...

It's good to see soulsister, left you slumbering this morning but hope your day's a good one and I'll see you tonight

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Leave you alone for one evening and you go and get all upbeat. When the cat's away...

Anybody would think that you didn't want me to get all upbeat.









Just because you were out

 

[bustyblondebombshell]

Anybody would think that you didn't want me to get all upbeat.









Just because you were out

oooh, could almost see a hint of jeaousy there

But I'm sure you're out having fun tonight

 

[VelvetDarkness]

oooh, could almost see a hint of jeaousy there

But I'm sure you're out having fun tonight

Nope, going to bed. That's as exciting as I get these days.

Hope you have a good weekend BBB

 

[bustyblondebombshell]

Nope, going to bed. That's as exciting as I get these days.

Hope you have a good weekend BBB

So do I!? but somehow, the slave drivers still manage to ruin my time off.... mountains of work to do - but least that means I'll be on here if you wanna yarn some

If not........

Have a good one yourself

 

[shy slave]

Velvet I was aware your mum had died but not of the circumstances.

I hope things are starting to calm down for you, I cannot begin to imagine what you have been through.

I am glad you are posting and talking about it and not hiding away.

I really hope you have all the real time support around you that you need to help you.

Just read the last page of this thread, it is good think realise you have people who can make you laugh and keep you upbeat.

Long may that continue

Love shy

 

[bustyblondebombshell]

I'm hoping everyone is ok??

Not heard from either Velvet or Vixen for a while now - getting worried

 

[angelkitty7888]

I'm hoping everyone is ok??

Not heard from either Velvet or Vixen for a while now - getting worried

i agree.... what's going on?

Still send support and snuggles

 

[onyxvixen]

Update about Velvet

My apologies to those who have been worried, I meant to post a few days ago.

Velvet is not doing very well right now. She has had a couple of bad epileptic fits and has spent a few days in hospital while they check her out. It's more than likely just a symptom of her grief because V has had a history of epilepsy. It comes and goes, usually when other stresses have built up. It's the kind of condition that waits until your down before it kicks you.

Velvet did start on a serotonin boosting tablet a short while ago and there could be a medication clash going on but they're not sure.

In addition to this the house that her mother lived in is owned by the people that she used to work for and they wanted it emptied and returned to them. It has been a few weeks so they're not being completely unreasonable but Velvet couldn't face going back there. She asked her sister to talk with them and negotiate some more time. Instead, her sister took some photos and personal things, plus those things that belonged to herself and Velvet. She got a house-clearing company to take everything else.

This has deeply upset Velvet because she wanted very much to go through her mother's belongings with more care and to say goodbye to her as she did so. Many items that Velvet would have wanted to keep or to pass on to other family members have been lost. It has distressed her greatly, which in turn has made her epilepsy worse. She has effectively been setback to when she first found her mother.

I did go to see the house clearers to buy from them some of the things Velvet wanted to keep but she has been staying with me in London and her sister didn't tell her immediately what had been done. Velvet was in hospital and when I spoke to the company, although they kept what they still had until I got there, most of the stuff from the house had been sold on or auctioned. Anything that they think is un-saleable is simply disposed of. None of the things Velvet wanted were there.

I wish I could write something more positive.

As of today, Velvet is home with me and I have told her that I'm posting this. She's going to see her therapist tomorrow and meantime I'm force feeding her because she's lost a little weight.

I know that Velvet would want me to thank you for your support and also for myself, I know how valuable some of the people here have been to her.

 

[gypziedoll]

thank you Vixen....I was worried about you both....give my darlin heart a big hug from me and tell her I am sending her as much love and positive energy that I can muster.

I am sending some your way as well

*hugs*

 

[silverwhisper]

thank you, onyx.

ed

 

[mickyp123]

Thankyou Onyx

 

[bustyblondebombshell]

Thank you for letting us know... my heart goes out to you both, and as I'm close enough to offer a hug and support if either of you need it, please email me, I'm just a short drive away.

{hugs} to you both, and comfort to Velvet, I just wish there was something I could do...

 

[Leah57]

Thanks for the update, Vixen..... continued good thoughts and prayers for both you and Velvet.

 

[mickyp123]

Velvet, hugs to you, why fate is being so cruel to such a caring person is beyond me, you and vixen are in my thoughts huge hugs xx

 

[angelkitty7888]

*snuggle / hugs* Onyx Thanks for the update... just keep reminding Velvet of things that she still has of her mother... that always helped me...

*snuggle / hugs* x3 Velvet all the best to you hun! we're all sending you the most positive karma energy we can! Don't give up ok? concentrate on the good not the bad... and maybe punching your sister.... at least that's what i'd do....

All the best to you!
May the Fates cease they're undeserved torment!

 

[olivefun]

Sigh

I just read this thread, having lost my father to cancer a couple months ago and my mom around the same time.

I am a pack rat and got absolutely nothing from my father's home. His wife had been all sweetness until the day of the funeral. After that we have not had a single call returned. We don't get even a photo or my dad's beloved hat from his estate. It certainly makes things more painful.

There is nothing like losing a parent.

I feel so sad for Vixen, having to deal with the shock of finding her mom in the way that she did. Of course she needs. more than ever, to have her mothers arms for comfort. The finality of her mother's decisions are felt more so for her. Clearing the house the way that it went, is another assault.

I am grateful that Onyx is there for her, you.

It takes time, that is all I can offer. I can tell you that it will get better. It will.

I wish you peace.