Submissive "Thought of the Day" Calendar

[catalina_francisco]

April 21st - words of Kajira Callista

"Not to put a damper on things but here is the other side of the coin. I tried to explain and gently lead my husband in that direction. We are now divorced because of it. Some men just dont have that desire and truely cant understand a person who does so if you value your marriage, be careful."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=242596

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

April 22nd - words of Quint

"If a destructive, dehumanizing act makes one feel fulfilled, isn't it actually an act of creation and affirmation?"

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=8213945#post8213945

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

April 23rd - words of redelicious

"There's nothing wrong with doing the D/s thing to spice up ones sex life, unless one partner wants more (or less)."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=242596

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

April 24th - words of dragonlace

"For me, as a submissive, sometimes after a very intense orgasm or after playing hard, i get very emotional. For me, its the reassurance that no matter what happens, He still cares and loves me and that i am not something to be used and thrown away."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=242398

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

April 25th - words of sunfox

"I'd have to say thus far, I've been on the opposite end of the spectrum. I am emotional during, but afterwards, I'm sated and content, and I not only don't need, but don't want any sort of coddling or cuddling."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=242398

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

April 26th - words of Limbhugger

"I am HUGE on aftercare. The minutes following a scene can make or break everything that has gone before and speaks volumes about the dominant."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=242398

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

April 27th - words of cellis

"Taking His good hand He drew His initials on my skin in blood... rubbed His blood over my belly..."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=100774

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

April 28th - words of A Desert Rose

"We spend a lot of time disecting what we are and why we are. In my opinion, we should spend more time just enjoying what we are with people and partners who share that understanding. Life is simply too short. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=245766

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

April 29th - words of SwtSouthrnSub

"So often, the concept of complete honesty is placed upon a submissive. We are made to believe that we are the only ones that may fail where honesty is concerned. It can be devastating when we find out that our partner has been dishonest. When those that we trust implicitly are dishonest, finding your way back mentally and emotionally can be very hard."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=8310729#post8310729

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

April 30th - words of Temptress_1960

"I was an early reader, and looking back, most of what I read did have at the very least a domination element to it. One of my favorite books was "The Sheik," can't remember who wrote it, but it was written back before the silent movies - the Valentino movie was based on it. I just loved the whole captive theme, the idea of being completely in the power of the sheik, being tied up, confined for his pleasure. That book was HOT."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=72708&pagenumber=3

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

May 1st - words of Limbhugger

"For me it is all about the motivation behind or method of the use of labels. All too often labels are used with a sense of completness. A totality that suggests that by wearing any said label then one obviously meets a certain set of known conditions and restrictions. And that all others who share the same label will meet the same criterea.

That's when labels become pointless, misleading, and often counter productive."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=244249&perpage=25&pagenumber=1

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

May 2nd - words of Etoile

"If a slave is one who is owned, then I am a slave, because I am owned. I am also a submissive, a fucktoy, a little girl, a slut. My kinky partner is my Daddy, my top, my dom, my lover, my master.

It doesn't really matter. I am who I am, and Daddy is who Daddy is. We matter to each other. We call each other all those labels and others."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=243854&pagenumber=2

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

May 3rd - words of SlaveJ

"I have been in a Chastity Belt for a year. I use to play with myself alot. My girlfriend did not like that so she bought the CB2000. I have been wearing it 24/7 since Jan 2003. Every sunday she ties me up and plays with my penis for one hour. If I cum, I cum. If I don't cum. Belts back on and another week till I get to try again. Its been 3 months since I last came and I love her in control of my orgasms.I highly recommend it to anyone. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=212717&pagenumber=3

Catalina

 

[A Desert Rose]

April 28th - words of A Desert Rose

"We spend a lot of time disecting what we are and why we are. In my opinion, we should spend more time just enjoying what we are with people and partners who share that understanding. Life is simply too short. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=245766

Catalina

Thank you Catalina, for taking note of my words ... but I'll be damned if I didn't misspell that word... and now in 2 threads... LOL.

It should be dissecting and I know this, for all you spelling buddies out there. ;-)

 

[catalina_francisco]

May 4th - words of Esclava

"When I have a woman in my hands and she begans to squirt me in orgasm, I have to moan, "OH yessss, drown me, baby!"

It feeds my own orgasm which follows hers in short order."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=242005&pagenumber=2

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

Thank you Catalina, for taking note of my words ... but I'll be damned if I didn't misspell that word... and now in 2 threads... LOL.

It should be dissecting and I know this, for all you spelling buddies out there. ;-)

LOL, life is full of the little imperfections which make us special and human.

Catalina

 

[A Desert Rose]

LOL, life is full of the little imperfections which make us special and human.

Catalina

Indeed! ;-)

 

[catalina_francisco]

May 5th - words of sunfox

"Quite seriously.. I am submissive. I find satisfaction only in his satisfaction, and in submitting to his hand. I've never wanted to Domme, and cannot honestly get my head into it in the least way."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=245372

Catalina

 

[Limbhugger]

for Lady Catalina, the true keeper of our forum of education and enlightenment.

 

[Esclava]

for Lady Catalina, the true keeper of our forum of education and enlightenment.

I agree completely, Limb!

Soooooooooo...how about we help her out?

If each one of the very vocal subs I see on these boards find ONE quote per week to share (or even every other week), not only would this board be full, but we would be rolling over into 2005 really quickly!

Esclava

 

[alonelygal]

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[catalina_francisco]

LOL, thanks Limbhugger, Esclava, and alonelygal...help is always appreciated.

As I am sure has been noticed, I have not been updating as much of late. I have a very good excuse, I promise

, but it's a secret (well to most) for now.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

May 6th - words of Esclava

"IMHO, labels tell you absolutely nothing about a person except what you MIGHT see when the door is opened if you knock trying to get to know them better. To divine your own understanding, you must ask questions and clarify that what was said was really what you heard.

Unless you meet other "label wearers" on the same road of understanding, you run the risk of moving away from each other instead of getting together. And the only way to get together is to make sure you understand what is meant when a label is either used by someone for themselves or applied to you.

Of course, this assumes you have your own personal definition of labels that are tossed at you AND are open-minded enough to accept someone else's personal definition without, necessarily, agreeing with it. Without those "labels" and subsequent definitions, how can you possibly negotiate your way into a relationship as life changing as one based on BDSM? Or any relationship for that matter?"

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=244249&pagenumber=2

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

May 7th - words of Etoile

"Damn, I'm starting to lose my standing as the Resident Fisting Expert! "


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=69934&pagenumber=4


Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

May 8th - words of AvaAdore

"i dont know about melbourne, but when i was in sydney in november, near our hotel, there were 3 fetish shops within 100 meters of one another...would it be too presumptuous to say there must be a large BDSM community?"

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=245295


Catalina