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June 3rd - words of AnelizeDarkEyes

"What kind of protection is your partner planning on using? Has he dicussed it with the potential partner, and are they protected, what kind of birth control are they using? Are there any plans for threesomes? Make sure you discuss every possible permutation that you can think about BEFORE any play happens, not after. After is wayyyy too late (obviously).

If you plan on continuing your open relationship after you become 24/7, then you need to think about how you will feel with your partner online talking to other partners while you are spending time "at home"...will this bother you? Open relationships can be very fulfilling, and can provide a real spark and interest in a relationship, but they require an immense amount of care and feeding, communication and committment."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=250914

Catalina

:rose:
 
June 4th - words of SubmissiveDove5

"I have issues with trust. I'm not worried that he will cheat, although I would understand if he did, I am just scared to death that he will end the relationship before we even get the chance to meet face to face. I know I should discuss this with him, but I realized that every time I send him an email, I conplain more then anything else. I don't want to be a burden to him, so my only choice is to wait and see what happens."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=250914

Catalina

:rose:
 
June 5th - words of s'lara

"i don't have a problem with a Dominant administering discipline without specifying their purpose for doing so. i also don't have a problem with a Dominant inflicting discipline simply for the sake of doing so. What may become problematic is the necessity to inflict "extreme" discipline on a constant basis......i also don't have an issue with random discipline. As long as the Dominant is within their right to do so, discipline should be meted out at their choosing. i would hope that whatever method employed to discipline a submissive would be enacted with at least some forethought. You can't spontaneously decide to administer extreme discipline without taking into account all of the possible outcomes, e.g., forcing a week's worth of sensory deprivation on a submissive could possibly result in the manifestation of a phobia. Having the power to discipline at will does not absolve the Dominant of their responsibility to their property.

To address extreme discipline, well, i have to say that it might be necessary for some on occasion. There are those who require discipline of a harsh nature. It satisfies a need to tangibly feel power from another on an exalted level that resonates for quite some time. While some find this feeling in moderate discipline, others find it in extreme discipline. This is all obviously subjective as some have noted. Whatever the case, extreme discipline has its place."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=250110&pagenumber=2

Catalina
:rose:
 
June 7th - words of dragonlace

"nope not possible for me, without the real time contact and intimacy something would get lost and i wouldn't feel as satisfied. Also there is just something about the sound of a paddle or flogger when it makes contact with your own flesh, that can't be imitated, and that rush when waiting for it."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=249168&perpage=25&pagenumber=1

Catalina
:rose:
 
June 9th - words of Caitlynne

"I have to admit that I went through my period of "I'm a traitor to the cause of feminism" because I am a submissive. It seemed to me to be a contradiction in terms. Until I realized that at the core of feminism is a woman's freedom to choose to *be* who she really is. And I think if feminism meant/means anything, it is all about each woman being able to pursue those things which are *hers*, including submission if that is her desire."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=252186

Catalina
:rose:
 
June 10th - words of shelleb4

"Yes, it would keep you on your toes, it certainly did me for a while, then you tire of getting it wrong eventually and so much relies on your psychic ability that you dont have. for me its a lose lose situation. He doesnt get what he wants coz he wont tell you straight up, you dont get the reward of getting it right most of the time, coz the messages are mixed."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=252238

Catalina
:rose:
 
June 11th - words of Limbhugger

"My advice dear, fuck him. Treasure the times you shared and screw the rest. Then work on your own self to find why it is you feel the need to give so readily to old memories. Take this as a lesson of growth and celebrate it. Don't wallow in hurt, rejoice in the growth.

In the end, you shall be the better person and he shall still be him."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=252803

Catalina
:rose:
 
June 12th - words of D's mariposa

"Reminds me of when D and I moved to this house. It's in an area of town that I was not too familar with, so we were driving around abit. You should have seen D's face light up when he realized that we're withing walking distance of the biggest Home Depot in town... And life has never been quite the same.."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=253111

Catalina
:rose:
 
June 14th - Words of Pyrolisk

"For me personally; i would prefer that each surrender were an apreciated gift among equals, not an assumed right. i realize that might not always be the case if i were in a D/s relationship, but i would not remain long in a relationship if my Domme had no value of my opinions, preferences, feelings ect."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=251385

Esclava :rose:
 
June 15th - Words of kitty4ever

"At least equality, if not he has to be a stronger personality than I am. I'm a very strong personality, and if I've guessed/observed that the man isn't as strong, it won't last. I guess, what I'm trying to say is he has to be worthy of the gift that I give him in my submission."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=251385

Esclava :rose:
 
June 21st - words of D's mariposa

"Imagine, a dark room, you're laying on your stomach, He's standing over your with a flaming brand in his hand. In the dim recesses of the mirror you can see the DM, and behind him the people in the social area watching. Then you feel the cold, cold splash of alcohol on your skin. The brand dips and you close your eyes and whimper as the fire licks at your skin. You moan as it flows over you like really warm , but not quite hot water, over your skin. The real mindfuck starts when the people watching start ooh-ing and aah-ing like at a fireworks display. Soon you start to relax sort of; you get into the zone, where you trust Him, and you're still scared, but you know you're somehow safe. Things start getting really dreamy, then He makes you keep your eyes open and watch. Just the sight of pale skin, blue fire and dark room all combined make you start to soar a little bit. I wasn't really spaced, I tend not to space at the parties, only when we are scening alone, but I was close, so close..

So then you're all woozy and spacey and mooshy and you end up all cuddling on the couch in the after care area, and you go home and make great wonderful sexy delicious love to Him, cause He just took you for a walk on the wild side and brought you home safe."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=255390


Catalina

:rose:
 
June 24th - words of AnelizeDarkEyes

"While I am submissive in my relationship with 24/7 relationship with JM, my work life is very different. In fact, we have a greeting ritual that helps me transition from work to home, because it can be difficult for me to get back into a submissive headspace after working all day as an upper management alpha type person......

......So, most days, I walk in, get on my knees and he snatches me down by my hair, slaps my face, and reminds me of exactly who I am."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=115831&pagenumber=2

Catalina :rose:
 
June 25th - words of ownedsubgal

"but it's not simply about love, or being in love. i think two people can love each other dearly, or even be IN love, and not be soulmates. i think that two people can be soulmates and not even be compatible relationship-wise. it's just an unspoken, intense mind body and soul connection to another person........those who are truly happy are the ones who have been fortunate enough to be able to find their soulmate, and who have been able to put in the immense work and effort required to actually make a fulfilling and healthy relationship. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=256036

Catalina
:rose:
 
June 27th - words of Phoenix Stone

"Actually there have been quite a few of us lately who have posted about wanting D/S, and the mental side of this whole thing, without the bondage or the pain.

But they've all been newbies, and I seem to be the only one who has that preference who posts regularly, as far as I know. The others seem to go away soon. Maybe can't find enough here for them?

I'm probably still here because my fantasies are harder core, though. (Still non-consent -- but Still no bondage and often no pain, just force. Things like blackmail, assault while sleeping, or gangrape with no hitting, stuff like that.) Also because I like a little pain (hickies) and things like having my wrists held by his bare hands, just not into straps and gadgets. [/B]

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=256999

Catalina :rose:
 
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