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May 9th - words of shy slave

"Switching is just not an option or an interest for me, being a Dom/me is such hard work !!!"


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=245372


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Catalina
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May 10th - Words of Kajira Callista

If you look at things differently the pain is not something that is unbearable. This is gonna sound weird but if you allow yourself to actually feel what is happening it wont hurt in the way you say. The sensation itself is pleasureable. Being afraid of it is what makes your mind THINK it's a bad thing. Savor it, let your whole body feel it, learn to be in love with it... crave it...need it, and your feelings will quickly change on the idea of things being painful or unbearable. Remember also, during...that this is all for Masters pleasure, if you think of that right now im sure you get the tingle, if you think of it during that tingle turns to something more intense and wonderful.
I don’t know if this helps but it is how i really do see things and i dont have a problem handling any pain that is given... and when you begin to realize that pain only hurts beecause someone told you it should, a whole new world opens up. :)

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=245959

Esclava :rose:
 
May 11th - words of AnelizeDarkEyes

"If he's wailing away on you without an appropriate warm-up, no wonder you are having a hard time. Some pain sluts aren't built in a day. It took months of hard WORK for me to get there, but here I am.

Personally, I don't think it's some magical thing *shrugs*. A dominant can create a pain slut, it's all in the work, and the patience he and his submissive put into it.

Enough with this bullshit that the submissive is always the fucked-up one."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=245959
 
May 12th - words of SwtSouthrnSub

"Trust is earned. If a relationship progresses to the point where face-slapping with your cock is fine, then it is... as long as it is consentual. While one person may see BDSM or D/s as an "anything goes" area, many of us don't subscribe to that theory. Submissives have the right to exclude certain things that are offensive to them. That exclusion may or may not change in time, it depends on the relationship. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=246009

Catalina
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May 15th - words of kitty4ever

"I have to disagree with the alpha equalling being Dom/me material. I'm fiery, stubborn, headstrong and take-charge type in planning gatherings, work, etc. I am, though, submissive in the bedroom. I love having a man take charge and bend me to his will. My outside the bedroom personality does intimidate some men, although I'm told I'm too cute at times. It's always been like that."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=245722

Catalina
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May 16th - words of A Desert Rose

"Oh yea... I know all about this, but only in my head. I don't like to share, it feels unnatural, self-serving, and just plain wrong for me to tell someone (in the case of this thread, a Dominant) how I feel. Even when asked directly what is going on in my head, I find it almost impossible to tell. I don't think I'm being selfish or coy. I feel like it's self-serving. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=246945

Catalina
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May 17th - words of tn_greeneyez

"Another added "plus" of this arrangement has been that after I email various things, I get the pleasure of anticipating and wondering what He will choose. This heightens the entire experience for me, and has been a real aid in helping me to overcome some inhibitions and experience some very profound scenes under His control and in His hands."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=246945

Catalina

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May 18th - words of bustyblondebombshell

"I find it hard to express my emotions without crossing the boundaries of expression and neediness. The time apart helps, but I am still quite a passionate person and I find it difficult to restrain my emotions when they have been so strong. There must be another way, but then I guess each Dom/me is different........"

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=246945

Catalina
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May 19th - words of Limbhugger

"Pain.

It is truth wrapped in layers of deceit.

It is freedom bound by overwhelming constraint.

It is bliss burried beneath hurt.

I find myself craving the pain. The fiery welts and tender scrapes bringing about a sense of realness. A feeling of security, serenity, solidarity.

When she attacks my flesh it hurts, especially in the begining. But that hurt slowly slips into an unabashed desire for release. The surrender and the sensations capturing my mind, enlivening my body and freeing my soul.

I crave it. I need it.

She so carefully guides us both through the journey of our inner selves. Her finding what I can only imagine is the equality of my freedom. Only it is in the giving that she finds her peace.

Too long without the pain and I become edgy, irritable, anxious.

The pain.

It makes the pain disappear. If only for a little while."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=247926

Catalina
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May 20th - words of dragonlace

"For me if He abruptly stops the scene, even if its because He believes i am in distress, is very hard for me also using my safe word even if its just yellow is hard. I feel as though i am letting Him down in some way or have failed Him and even though mentally i know its for my own good, emotionally its very hard on me. At the time, the emotion involved makes me feel unwanted and as though i just don't please Him and thats why it stops even if i know its just because He cares and doesn't want to hurt me."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=248215

Catalina :rose:
 
May 21st - Words of Limbhugger

"Alpha personalities can add a tremendous dynamic to play and relationships. My personality alone can create some extrememly difficult barriers for me. Ones in which I want to lash out and assert myself, yet I cannot. I must force myself deeper into my submission to allow those feelings and emotions to slip away. In the end, bringing me even closer to true freedom and the two of us even closer together."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=8513960#post8513960post8513960
 
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May 24th - words of AnelizeDarkEyes

"It bugs me that somehow, there's an impression out there that there's some sort of natural progression. Bottom. Submissive. Slave. Ummm. No. There's not a BDSM social ladder folks. M/s isn't the be-all and end-all of what we should be striving for in a relationship. Now, grant you, I see it working wonderfully for some of my favorite people *waves to Catalina & Francisco*, but me? I'm content to be his owned submissive. Forever.

Oh yeah, he owns me. Let that one rattle around your brain case. While I am a submissive, I also consider myself his property. We made our own rules, ones that have very important and real meaning to us. *grin* .

Shy Slave, I think that's what I'd like to remind you to do. Take what you want and leave the rest--from everything you find out there. Ultimately, it's not about what anybody else does, or doesn't do. It's about what you and your Dom decide works for you."


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=249282&perpage=25&pagenumber=1

Catalina
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May 25th - words of Kajira Callista

"Being trained to be silent is probably not the best thing ive ever allowed done to me, because even if i know the person i am with wants to hear my cries, it doesnt happen. I have learned to turn it in a different direction. It's like a tornado in my head and my outward apperance is calm and submissive and quiet and ready for anything you wanna throw at me."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=245959&perpage=25&pagenumber=3

Catalina :rose:
 
May 26th - words of cellis

"I have lead in the past... in a sense pushed His limits beyond what He thought.... Watched as He struggled to move me to the point where He wanted and I took Him further...

In a sense, I think this was hard for Him in the beginning... Having a preconceived notion of where He is suppose to go and finding Himself moved along the spectrum unexpectedly... It was not that I topped from the bottom but allowed Him the opportunity to move to that dark place He had only thought about... and not experienced.

I don't want it to seem like this was about me... because it is not... It is about the dance... it is about the flow..."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=245959&perpage=25&pagenumber=3

Catalina
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May 27th - words of Quint

"It's often his purpose to experience the signs of my pain. I'm not often a pain slut but it happens occasionally and then I respond but with the cooing that Netzach described, rather than "please God make it stop." That can be pretty unappetizing for him when it's not his purpose. But he is not afraid to tap into his truly brutal side and give me pain that is NOT of the cooing variety. This is kind of where personal quirks come into play. I might take the hand, the belt, and the flogger really well, but once he pulls out the lighter, I'm crying and begging. Your strokes may vary. So I don't think the dominant has to be no-limits; they just have to know their partner and what to do to elicit the desired reaction."


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=245959&perpage=25&pagenumber=3

Catalina

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May 28th - words of sunfox

"I like to think that it pleases him much more to have me squirming and begging for more than it does to have me pulling a Victorian ideal, and lying back and "thinking of England" while he gets off. So in the interest of improving both sides of the relationship's sex lives, it's important to let your partner know and try to make them understand what it is you enjoy, and what you hope can be compromised upon."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=249455

Catalina :rose:
 
June 1st - words of bound

"In the past I've had Doms that didn't want to get involved because I had "too much" experience. They felt like I wouldn't take to their training since I was trained elsewhere.

I was relieved in the end because it occured to me that if they had that little faith in their skills, then I probably would have regretted submitting to them anyway. "


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=250723


Catalina
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June 2nd - words of AnelizeDarkEyes

" The people saying these things are generally the people who fell flat on their faces. LDRs are hard work. They suck on several levels. If you had your druthers you wouldn't be doing them, you'd be where your other half was, not spending time 600 miles away or whatever the distance is. But you're not LOL. So. You make the best of it. I have posted several times on my LDR. I believe that we were a success because we both were committed 100% to it."


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=250914

Catalina
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