COVID-19 RESOURCES
LIT CAMS (200 Free Tokens)ADULT TOYSVOD MOVIES

Submissive "Thought of the Day" Calendar

I think almost anything can be said in the right context.

I suppose some Dommes/Doms are too pig headed to except that their sub does actually have a brain as well. We all make mistakes and who knows when we are pleasing/diss'ing or partners for real?
 
March 29th - words of Etoile

" IMHO, if it's non-consensual, it's not okay. I'm not talking about a slave, mind you - a slave or TPE relationship involves voluntarily giving up your consent beforehand. I'm talking about relationships that do have established limits. If somebody's limits or rights are violated, and they have not already stated that this is okay with them, then I think it's not okay. Why? Because while it isn't my place to judge, it is their place to judge. And if they see something as non-consensual, I'll accept their perspective."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=230161&perpage=25&pagenumber=2


Catalina :rose:
 
March 30th - words of Kajira Callista

"Too many ppl seem to think that 24/7 means naked slave at Masters feet 24/7. Being in this lifestyle doesnt mean you do not live life. It also doesnt mean you are slave or sub to everyone on the planet, unable to function without your Dominant guiding you. Your submission is for Him/Her alone...the depth of it is private and personal i think for most. Thats what makes it such a special thing, it is something that belongs to the two of you that the world cant touch."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=8015488#post8015488

Catalina
:rose:
 
April 1st - Words of DVMnLA

<snip>... i hear so many people say 'how can you be so weak?'. proof that the speaker has zero clue about being a sub. being a sub isn't about being weak or spineless. its about being strong enough to subjugate your own wants and needs for someone you love. for some folks more than others constant subjugation of our own needs takes immense mental and emotional effort. 24/7 effort and succeeding is strength folks. not weakness. ... <snip>

https://forum.literotica.com/newreply.php?s=&action=newreply&postid=6698219

I like this -

Esclava :rose:
 
April 2nd - words of corkie2

"I have not given him my phone number or any personal information. That is one thing I am glad of!

It just goes to show that if you throw a person enough line the real person will show themselves. By sticking to my gun's about not agreeing to have sex without ever seeing him the fact that what he really wanted was just an easy lay came out! "


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=238890

Catalina :rose:
 
April 4th - words of snowboundsubbie

"As a new sub, my feelings on this are that there should be a set of rules in each relationship. What would work in one relationship may not work in another. I would hate to see a one size fits all thing because then it could limit a BDSM relationship and it would not be able to grow or expand. BDSM to me is 'outside of the box' on so many levels that putting any limits on it would be harmful."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=230161

Catalina

:rose:
 
April 6th - words of s'lara

"Some subs are meek in their submission, while others are warriors. i don't believe a sub has to be fearful, shy, or nervous in order to express a desire. That said, our flavors are unique to ourselves and ourselves only. Doesn't change the fact that while we can ask, in a simpering, fearful, bold or pathetic way... it doesn't mean we will be granted a particular desire. That factor is ruled only by the Dominant alone and if He/She feels a sub has stepped out of place, i am sure a reminder will be swift in coming."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=239438&perpage=25&pagenumber=2

Catalina
:rose:
 
April 7th - words of Caitlynne

"Submission can be held in the heart of a warrior. In fact warriors are the best examples of submission. A warrior must submit to the orders of superior officers without question. A warrior must put aside his/her personal desires in order to serve the greater good. A warrior must be brave, honest, loyal and capable of great sacrifice and endurance. I'm sorry, I consider all of those things to be the territory of a submissive too.

And I'd like to add there is no submissive personality per se. There is only obedience. We obey our Masters. We obey with the personalities that we were born with. There are no cookie cutter 'submissive personalities'.. There are introverts, extroverts, brats and angels... All of these things come into play, but submission is defined by the act of obedience in my opinion, not by a particular personality trait. And each Dominant defines how, when, what, where and why that obedience will take place.

In other words I don't think *we* get to define it at all, not for ourselves and certainly not for others. Our Dominants define the shape and form of our submission. And that again, is as it should be!"

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=239438&perpage=25&pagenumber=2

Catalina

:rose:
 
April 8th - words of ownedsubgal

"He will listen to me, take it in, and decide whether or not he will grant me my desire. He must feel that i am deserving, must feel that i have not been overly spoiled by him lately, and also of course, most imporantly, it must be something he desires at least a little bit himself. sometimes he will say yes, but that does not mean that i will get whatever it is at that moment. not hardly. it means it will happen at some time. but he will just as easily deny me, which is his full right, and i never feel any resentment when a judgement does not go "my way"....after all, i am a slave."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=239438&perpage=25&pagenumber=1

Catalina
:rose:
 
April 9th - words of Caitlynne

"If a submissive has no will of her own, no will to say no, then what power is she exchanging for the Dominance & Control of a Dominant?

And if she follows her own desires and submits when she feels the inclination, is she not following her own will--that of submitting?

And if such a submissive has no control whatsoever over the 'actions' of others upon her person....... what happens to the service, submission, gift, (whatever you want to call it) to her chosen Dominant?

How does this kind of situation foster a D/s relationship. How does a Top/Master/Dom ever gain control here?

It seems to me it is not submission at all, but a determined pursuit of what the person desires----To be on the bottom. Perhaps all the time, but whether or not it is submission is what I am having a problem with. Is it really? Or does it just look like it?"

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=239438&perpage=25&pagenumber=3
 
April 10th - Words of Catalina

"As much as there is this fantasy woven by some that submission is altruistic in that it is done 100% for the good of another with no thought to the submissives needs, wants, or desires at point of submission or after, I don't see it. Even if one submits because they feel the need to serve, be treated as sub-human, humiliated, trained, suffer, etc., the bottom line is they seek that submission not because they are so submissive they have no choice, but because it answers a need in them. In that sense, as others have said, they may be sassy, loud, sluttish, passive, or plain boring, the common denominator being they are submissives, not necessarily submissive personalities."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=239438&perpage=25&pagenumber=2

I have been told that my personality is ANYTHING but submissive - but when I am serving Master, he says the fact that I act on his commands without question or hesitation, is a testament to the submissive needs he fulfills in me and the love and respect I have for him.

Esclava :rose:
 
April 11th - words of dixicritter

"I personally have several hard limits, as well as some soft ones. Master has the same himself. Some of our limits are the same some not. We have found that communication has been key in not interupting play. So far there hasn't been anything come up during play that we haven't talked about already.

However, I know should something ever come up during play that I just can't deal with....I can and will say no, and I know that Master will honor that."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=101750&highlight=challenges


Catalina
:rose:
 
April 13th - words of stardust

"To us it has nothing to do with being exhibitionistic. It is just a very clear sign that I am property. We enjoy the thought that I am literally like a pet: an owned animal. Pets are registered (Which is for tax reasons but never the less they are registered as property), cattle are branded, dogs receive a tattoo or a chip with the information about who their owner is and such … and for the same reason, I am registered and tattooed. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=196593


Catalina :rose:
 
April 14th - words of Justina123

"It's cool to see so many couples who met here on Lit!

Sir and i met at a munch 2 years ago. One of the reasons I highly recommend at least occasional attendance at them! "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=240923


Catalina

bengeltje-13.gif
 
April 19th - words of Bandit58

"Because of His health my training has been limited. Lack of energy is His main problem, combined with the insomnia. He is sad that He cannot love me the way I deserve, to use His words. We have concentrated on my learning how to please Him, which I absolutely love to do. I serve outside the bedroom, as His carer, and I am also looking for part time work not too far away. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=188019&pagenumber=3


Catalina
:rose:
 
April 20th - words of bunny bondage

meisje.gif

"personally, that situation would never ever ever be able to make me happy. i'm an only child and what's mine is MINE!! perhaps you can do some learning from him, but unless you have some sort of "yeah, sharing my master is fun!" kind of revalation, then i'd say this isn't the place for you to spend a lot of time."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=92104&pagenumber=3


Catalina :rose:
PS. Saw this emoticon bb, and though not perfect, thought you might like it.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Similar threads

C
Who sets the boundaries?
2
Replies
31
Views
1K
jerryb1966
J
K
BDSM & Autism Part 1
Replies
4
Views
910
obladi
O
BiBunny
Service Submission
2
Replies
27
Views
3K
BiBunny
BiBunny
F
The Joy of Cheating
Replies
1
Views
189
Canadianhobbit
C
BlueEyesInLevis
Looking for a meeting of the minds and libidos...
Replies
0
Views
195
BlueEyesInLevis
BlueEyesInLevis
Back
Top