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June 29th - words of Desdemona

"I see a distinct difference between submitting and playing. I am a natural submissive. My submission is an integral part of who I am. However, I reserve my submission for only one. If He directed me to play with others, I would comply. However, to my way of thinking, even while playing with that other Dom/me, I would still be submitting only to my Master."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=174367&pagenumber=1

Catalina :rose:
 
June 30th - words of cymbidia

" In the BDSM world, punishment, real punishment, is not the same as pleasure despite the million times you've read it in those stupid hokey BDSM "whip me beat me of god yes Master yes punish me make me cum" bullshit stories. In the BDSM world, real punishment is used sparingly and with regret in order to teach a lesson.

Discipline, on the other hand, can be a thing of eroticism and/or discomfort. It's not as severe as real punishment and never has to be. Itcan be edged with humor and/or sex and/or disappointment and/or whatever you're feeling.............

.........It's all a mind game.
We mind fuck each other in the very hottest, best, wildest, most wonderful sens of the word. If we're not all creative and attuned to our partners then none of this works for any of us, does it?"

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=69643

Catalina :rose:
 
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July 2nd - words of Merelan

"I felt pride reading that. For she meant me when she said precious gem, and treasure. I am her's. Her sub, but so much more then mere words.
To mention her even, to simply think of her, and all she means to me, make me fill with pride.
She chose me, and I her. It was mutual, though at the time we didn't know it.
When someone asks me about my anklet, I must look like an idiot as I explain what it means to me. For my smile broadens and my eyes shine.
When I read something she has written, or for any reason am reminded of her, I flush and feel special, loved, cherished.

For she is proud of me, and I her. She has the strength of steel love I needed, and I the soft submission to sooth her. I am not less for being submissive, but more. More of all the wonderful, crazy good things that make me merelan."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=109161&pagenumber=1

(beautiful post Merelan:) )

Catalina :rose:
 
July 3rd - words of WillowPuss

"It is my belief that in a true D/s relationship, the Dom/me is in control of all the aspects of the sub's life that has been negotiated and agreed upon. For instance ... many relationships leave the sub's children entirely up to them; or leave matter pertaining to the sub's proffessional life entirely in their hands. That is as it should be.

I assume that in most D/s ralationships, the sub has willingly given up control over certain aspects of her (I know it can be a his too - but I will use her from now on when speaking of a sub) life. If she then tries to manipulate the Dom/me into giving her what she wants reather than accepting what the Dom/me wants, to my mind that is topping and trying to take control of the situation. I suppose an example of this would be the sub saying that the next time they played she wanted the spreader bars used like last time (not a brilliant example, but it will have to suffice). Now, it could be that the Dom/me had every intention of using them anyway ... but if used it would appear the sub had her 'demand' met. The sub had really taken the control of that choice out of the Dom/mes hands."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=110886&pagenumber=1

Catalina

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July 4th - words of iam4Her

"the need to belong, to be loved and to be valued is the general beautiful needs we all have no matter if it is a vanilla relationship, bedroom play or a 24/7 relationship.

The subject of learning to "sink in" is interesting.
Yes, you can learn a lot by reading and build up a database in your head of what people say and write, but for lessons to really "sink in" is a RT thing.
The interaction between a Dominant and a submissive in RT is really the time when things can "sink in" if you have a need to learn the way a Dominant is and what He/She expects from you.....

....The need and want to submit can never be faced for yourself until you go through real time, and real time is the real school for D/s."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=111992&pagenumber=1

(this was a wonderful post, but felt it too long to include it in full here, so unfortunately snipped sections from the whole....I would encourage people to take the time to visit the original and read it)

Catalina
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When all else fails for my Lady and I and reason is no longer an option( what if this and what if that) , our operative phrase is"Fuck it, go for it!"- Sometimes its the best approach......
 
July 5th - words of 'unregistered' shame we don't know who this was, but was a good post from a sub IMO, and so is here

"I've read through this thread a couple of times. I sort of understand the view points of everyone here even though I may not necessarily agree with them. Like others, I refuse to take sides. We all are entitled to our opinion. Remember, there is a hell of alot of diversity in this community.

For me, the bottom line is this; I know who and what I am. So does my Dom. That is all that matters. If you see me as a sub, great. If you think I'm a Domme in sub's clothing, do me a favor. Share that opinion with my Dom if you ever encounter him. He can always use a good laugh.

Life is short and Lit is where I come to play, share, and learn."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=102368&pagenumber=2


Catalina :rose:
 
sloan said:
When all else fails for my Lady and I and reason is no longer an option( what if this and what if that) , our operative phrase is"Fuck it, go for it!"- Sometimes its the best approach......
Click to expand...

:) Thanks sloan.

Catalina :rose:
 
July 6th - words of s'lara

"It's a struggle, but many people handle the dichotomy of living this way (separating out their BDSM from other life areas) as best as they can. As we become adept or inept at handling these aspects of our lives, the ability or inability to balance the two sides either becomes formulaic in nature or increasingly difficult. All you can do is try i guess."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=115831&perpage=25&pagenumber=3

Catalina :rose:
 
July 7th - words of Etoile

" I crave that muttered thanks as much as the next person (and I think all of us want approval at certain times, dom and sub alike), but I think love is important too. If you're solely devoted to one person, and you're not getting that love from them, then you're going to end up needing more and finding it somewhere else."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=222101&pagenumber=2

Catalina :rose:
 
July 9th

Be brave, submissives!

I am taking a giant step into shoes it is impossible to fill and asking those of you who frequent this board to help me catch up the STOTD. We will look back on this in the future and smile when we see what we have as a reference. Plus we will have a place to point newbies when they need encouragement or solace as they find their way in this sometimes scary way of life.

Help me, please?

Esclava :rose:
 
July 10th - Words of justina123

Whenever I am with Sir, I am completely in "submissive" mode, even when we are in a vanilla setting or around my kids, the D/s dynamic just IS who we are. Right now, that occurs about 2-3 days a week.

When his job calls him back to his place an hour away, the D/s is less obvious in my life. Though my personality doesn't suddenly undergo some kind of radical change, I don't submit to anyone but Sir, whether it's sexually or just in day-to-day interactions. However, his guidance and how he wants me to act are still there in the background influencing my thoughts and actions.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=190373

Esclava :rose:
 
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July 11th - Words of xelebes

Not necessarily on topic, but ahhhh... the memories.

In grade 10, in comm tech when the teacher was not around they ganged up on me and taped me to a chair. Humiliating? A bit. But I had fun with it, giving impish grunts as they had used duct tape on my mouth shut. But then they didn't want to get me caught so they untied me. No, I consented to this- as I was being just silly.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=263066&perpage=25&pagenumber=2

Esclava :rose:
 
July 12th - Words of NemoAlia

So, Chicklet, now that I've rambled all over your thread, I suppose I ought at least to attempt a response to your post. I know what you mean about the disappointment involved in being told, "I'm only doing this because you like it." But how can we avoid that disappointment? I don't know. The best suggestion I can give (and I hope it works -- for me as much as for you!) is to say beforehand, "It's not worth doing unless you enjoy it," and then to figure out ways in which s/he would be able to enjoy it, too.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=111623

Esclava :rose:
 
July 14th - Words of Kajira Callista

Whether the submissive likes the scarring or not...the Dominant needs to remember that if there is no intention of keeping what he has marked, she goes on the 50% off rack.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=9214399#post9214399post9214399


Sorry, gf, but you said a mouthful in this thread and it's ALL important! Please go check the thread - it's very interesting.

Esclava :rose:
 
July 15th - Words of catalina_francisco

In a deep relationship, with commitment that is meant to extend beyond the here and now only, IMHO it is realistic to expect if one partner develops an attraction to, in particular an emotional attachment to another, that the SO is going to experience jealousy at the very least.

For me I need to know I am the only one for him and he for me in the ways that count. I unashamedly admit I could not handle being in a postion where I was expected to accept another in our life 24/7 who shared equal status with me in his emotional, physical, intellectual, psychological, and spiritual life. Most llikely I would shut down, find myself subconsciously numbing my emotions in an effort to survive and give him what he wanted. By doing that I would not be giving him as he wanted though as there would be a distance between us that may never be repairable. Basically I would become a shell of who I am, devoid of motivation, drifting, and no will to survive.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=92104

Esclava :rose:
 
July 16th - Words of rick_j21

I just wanted to say thank you to all who have posted or commented or messaged me personally. I love having a place to let loose who I am and grow in who I am. Though there is no collar around my name it doesn't diminish who I am as a submissive. Though at the moment I am not serving any one I like to think I am still growing as a person and it's really nice to have a community here where one can openly express who he/she is without being thought of as some kind of nutcase. Lol though I have seen the personal attacks on lit most people are kind and I love that.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=206443&perpage=25&pagenumber=2

Voices of the male subs ... nice reading...

Esclava :rose:
 
July 17th - Words of redelicious

I love being on my hands and knees in front of him, my anticipation building as he fingers me. It's an anxious feeling because I know in order to have the extreme pleasure, I first have to bear the pain when he enters me. There is a measure of humiliation involved. After all he is exploring my asshole, that part of my body that is most associated with being "dirty." I am helpless in this position, not just because of the physical advantage he has over me, but also because by now my craving is overwhelming. He enters me partially and stops, not moving foward to satisfy my need and not moving away to ease the pain. He spanks me hard. I writhe and squirm until finally he takes me, plowing into me. <snip>

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=144896&perpage=25&pagenumber=2

Please go read...there is SOOOOO much more...

Esclava :rose:
 
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