What do you consider extreme BDSM?

[PerfectFlaws]

I think extreme BDSM is anything that involves cutting and scarring.

 

[MechaBlade]

Anything involving urine or excreted feces and skin contact
realistic rape play
anything involving blood
spanking/hitting that results in bruises
electroplay
breathplay
large weight loss/gain
branding/homemade tattoos
surgery
bestiality and pedophilia
death and dismemberment
Full time, 24/7 bdsm
Anything not Safe or Non-Consensual ("Sane" is very subjective)

Not saying I wouldn't do any extreme bdsm, this is just a list.

 

[Succulent-one]

I spent the weekend at Portland Kink Fest. It really rocked. There were a lot of great workshops and 2 play parties. But let me tell you, I believe everyone is entitled to their own kink, and if it gets them off, then great. But, OMG there was some pretty wild things going on at the play parties. Knife play, needle play, infantilism, wow there was a lot of those kind of activities. Then there was this guy with staples from his ass down to his calfs, so they could do this criss cross lacing with leather down the back of his thighs. OUCH But, I enjoyed the show

 

[phil196662]

I spent the weekend at Portland Kink Fest. It really rocked. There were a lot of great workshops and 2 play parties. But let me tell you, I believe everyone is entitled to their own kink, and if it gets them off, then great. But, OMG there was some pretty wild things going on at the play parties. Knife play, needle play, infantilism, wow there was a lot of those kind of activities. Then there was this guy with staples from his ass down to his calfs, so they could do this criss cross lacing with leather down the back of his thighs. OUCH But, I enjoyed the show

Those parties are definatly not for everyone, anyone have an opinion about perm. body piercings - lip rings, eyebrow studs or nipple studs?

 

[Bandit58]

Anything involving urine or excreted feces and skin contact
realistic rape play
anything involving blood
spanking/hitting that results in bruises
electroplay
breathplay
large weight loss/gain
branding/homemade tattoos
surgery
bestiality and pedophilia
death and dismemberment
Full time, 24/7 bdsm
Anything not Safe or Non-Consensual ("Sane" is very subjective)

Not saying I wouldn't do any extreme bdsm, this is just a list.

Oh damn......guess I'm more extreme than I thought
I am sometimes left with bruises after a cropping and I've had a cane used a couple of times and was bruised for a week - I love looking at the marks and feeling the little "ouchy" sensations when I sit or move.

 

[phil196662]

Oh damn......guess I'm more extreme than I thought
I am sometimes left with bruises after a cropping and I've had a cane used a couple of times and was bruised for a week - I love looking at the marks and feeling the little "ouchy" sensations when I sit or move.

And it takes a cropping to get that "stinging" , what about someone cropping your butt and pinching a nipple ever-harder and then feeling the "sting" for several days after.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Definately a good bump?!!

 

[MasterPhoenix]

As has been said on this thread, extreme is a subjecting thing.

We have done knife play, no cutting yet but that is on the agenda. We have talked of possible scarification and branding...

I see extreme as pushing any fetish or play past the point of SSC or RACK.

 

[catalina_francisco]

As has been said on this thread, extreme is a subjecting thing.

We have done knife play, no cutting yet but that is on the agenda. We have talked of possible scarification and branding...

I see extreme as pushing any fetish or play past the point of SSC or RACK.

Those things are on our love to do list but have to say the branding was the most surprising one of all...amazing how different it was to most of the stories you read on the internet.

Catalina

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Those things are on our love to do list but have to say the branding was the most surprising one of all...amazing how different it was to most of the stories you read on the internet.

Catalina

She LOVED being scratched with My knife... She was bound & blindfolded, clothespins in strategic locations... and I started scratching... drove her wild.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Extreme BDSM = Activities that either:

A) Scare me
B) Squick me
C) Are into the realm of what I consider insane (skydiving, for example).
D) Gross me out
E) I object to for moral, religious, or ethical reasons
F) Any combination of the above to include all and more.

In otherwords, what qualifies for "extreme BDSM" is entirely subjective. The mildly erotic waxing I give someone might be way, Way, WAY over the top for someone else...

 

[LadyAria]

Ever seem the interview? *shudder*

 

[myinnerslut]

Ever seem the interview? *shudder*

interview?

 

[the captians wench]

Oh damn......guess I'm more extreme than I thought
I am sometimes left with bruises after a cropping and I've had a cane used a couple of times and was bruised for a week - I love looking at the marks and feeling the little "ouchy" sensations when I sit or move.

I'm with you. If I have a full lengthy session and I don't come out with at least one bruse some where, I'm disapointed. Not that I don't enjoy the process, I just like having something to...remember him by, so to speak.

 

[FallenAngelsSlut]

Knife play, needle play, any thing with piss or shit, and vomiting i guess...

 

[Ebonyfire]

I have posted about this in the past, but the most extreme BDSM activity I have ever seen involved a masochist and a bullwhip...need I say more?

Eb

 

[catalina_francisco]

Ever seem the interview? *shudder*

Yes, interesting flick.


Catalina

 

[chris9]

I consider becoming slave to another extreme. That's not to say I disapprove or want to judge those that did and do this. I just find it extreme. Very extreme.

 

[littlegirlslut]

Well I have been away for a while, so I looked back at a private blog that I keep for Him that I had a posting about 7 months ago with the things that I thought were limits. Well I can officially say that list is blown.

Public humiliation
Scat (i've had ecoli poisoning before it was not fun and not from this but from fecal matter)
Permanent disfigurement
There was mention things like: nutrition deprivation, personal finances, etc. These are a no for me.

Now I haven't done full cutting or branding but I'm looking forward to both.

 

[LadyAria]

Yes, interesting flick.


Catalina

That would be sadist to the extreme. Love the movie ...but

 

[Bandit58]

There is this profile on collarme which I consider to be extreme, but she seems happy so......

http://www.collarme.com/details.asp?px=aSlavesLife&bhcp=1

Read the journal entries.......

 

[callinectes]

Extreme BDSM = Activities that either:

A) Scare me
B) Squick me
C) Are into the realm of what I consider insane (skydiving, for example).
D) Gross me out
E) I object to for moral, religious, or ethical reasons
F) Any combination of the above to include all and more.

In otherwords, what qualifies for "extreme BDSM" is entirely subjective. The mildly erotic waxing I give someone might be way, Way, WAY over the top for someone else...

I really, really, like this definition..minus the skydiving comment. There's nothing insane about that!

 

[lil_slave_rose]

There is this profile on collarme which I consider to be extreme, but she seems happy so......

http://www.collarme.com/details.asp?px=aSlavesLife&bhcp=1

Read the journal entries.......

wow, i don't understand this...nor am i sure that i completely buy the whole thing. i mean, just because it's posted doesn't mean its real. and if it is, how then do we know for sure that the posts in RED are actually her? i dunno, but the BS meter was going off the whole time i was reading it. *shrugs*

 

[catalina_francisco]

I also glanced at it, but time was not on my side and as with any of these things on the net, I must admit I thought the same as in terms of how do we know it is real...oooh, and that he must be a lousy hair dyer from his description. F has done mine and he didn't pull my hair even though it is waist length, nor did he come out with stained fingertips...and this guy said he used gloves...how the heck then did his fingertips get stained from dying her hair? Sorry, I just always seem to pick up on these type inconsistencies and have to ask the obvious.

Catalina