Kelliezgirl
Debauched Dilettante
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I've considered submitting there, but what stops me is the idea of the Group Sex being the focus of the story, rather than an adjunct (however important) to the main slant. I can't remember who it was but someone was making the point about differences in categories between ones which are lifestyle or identity focussed, and ones which are act focussed, with the act focussed categories being less interesting or 'in depth' in some way. I don't completely agree with that viewpoint, but I am adjacent, and whilst I might include, e.g. a threesome in a story, or anal, I'm focussing (I hope) on more than just an act. An act, in the end, isn't a relationship or an identity.
Which isn't to denigrate authors who make those categories work for them. There's good stuff there. I just feel that these categories are perhaps a bit limiting for me.
I agree with you. I've written a number of threesomes, but never anything I'd consider group sex. It might come up in a story at some point, but I think if I tried to make it the focus of the story it would just be pandering.