Women and porn (question for the ladies)

[Elenia26]

However, sometimes, when some of us might be in a hurry to get the good stuff, I hate delays....

But then the slow striptease can be incredible to watch, all leading up to the action. And I am actually not that big a fan of watching blow jobs in general either, which I know sounds strange coming from a guy!

Not really, actually. If you're a straight guy, you probably don't get a lot of pleasure seeing another guy's dick.

As for slow vs. fast, at least if you have slow you can then have the option of putting it on "slow forward" and watching it that way. If they throw their clothes off in a second you have no choice but to watch that.

 

[Chi-Guy31]

Not really, actually. If you're a straight guy, you probably don't get a lot of pleasure seeing another guy's dick.

As for slow vs. fast, at least if you have slow you can then have the option of putting it on "slow forward" and watching it that way. If they throw their clothes off in a second you have no choice but to watch that.

Just like M's girl, you make a lot of sense! It is too abrupt, and just not very creative, to lose the clothes too fast or jump into the action with no preamble... how uncivilized! And maybe it is the deal with not wanting to see another guy's dick that makes me unmoved by blow jobs in porn, however I don't seem to have a problem seeing dicks in the ladies' pussy and/or ass! Actually, for a time in my early to mid 20's, all I could get aroused by was lesbian porn. Having a guy in the scene killed for me, don't know why, but only girl-girl action did anything for me. It was not until later, after I settled in with my wife-to-be, that that I really got into hetero porn. There may be a connection there, but then I had had sex with other women before my wife, so it was no new to me. Odd.

 

[Elenia26]

Who is M's girl?

And in a similar vein, I don't really like lesbian porn too much...I want a guy there.

 

[bisexplicit]

Who is M's girl?

The person who started the thread.

(I think this is gonna be a "duh" moment for you. )

 

[M's girl]

Do you believe in the "porn especially made for women" thing? There are films out there with that 'label' I know.
I've never seen any, what are they? Where do I get some? Linky, please?

Hi Elenia, M's Girl here

No link to a particular site with only porn for women, although if you scroll down this thread you will find some suggestions here and there. Mine so far were:

• Suze Randall movies
• Jill Kelly Productions movies
• "Constance" with Katja Kean

 

[Elenia26]

The person who started the thread.

(I think this is gonna be a "duh" moment for you. )

Well, they don't seem to have a dug smiley, so I'll go with this one:



Thanks....

 

[Qina]

This is funny. My BF and I were talking about this just the other day. I suppose that I should point out that I love watching porn and so does my BF. The only problem I have with him watching it is when I get home from work to see it on and hear the toilet flush... WAIT FOR ME!!! Now I"m horny and you're not

Neither of us really like the "fast and furious" stuff where you don't even hear their normal voice first. I've (Yes me, he's too shy to go into the rental shop ) been having a hard time finding anything that we'd like lately. We've even considered trying some of the "Dramas" at Blockbuster just to find something a little slower! As many of you have said, we want more foreplay, teasing, seduction and reality! One of the things that turns me off the fastest is when the woman starts (and never stops) making a high pitched monotonous whining noise as soon as he looks at her. You can't even tell when she's acctually cumming because the noise and facial experssions are over the top the entire time.

As to what we like... G/G doesn't do anything for me but I'll watch it because I know he likes it. Light bondage is ok, but no real pain. No watersports; I don't care either way, but it turns him off like a switch. Anal is ok in moderation.

It makes as much sense as porn queens who wear high heels during sex. I just don't get that, but then I don't wear heels, period, so I suppose I couldn't be expected to get it.

I had to laugh when I read this. I'm the biggest tom-boy you know. I don't own any makeup, only just started wearing dresses and hated it when my Mom made me wear high heels. I'm also short. My BF can kiss my forhead without reaching up. When experimenting with lingerie, my bf asked me if I had any heels. I dug my one and only pair out of the closet and dusted them off. You should have seen his eyes pop when I walked(very slowly and kind of wobbily) out of the bedroom! And they were only 2 inches! So, always aiming to please, I went out and bought some 5" "fuck me now" shoes at the local xxx shop. I can hardly walk in them but he loves to watch me practice! And I can kiss him standing up without wobbling on my tip toes or breaking my neck! Now I still refuse to wear heels (or any shoes at all if I can help it) outside the house, but I love my heels when I'm dressing up for him! And we don't bother taking them off durring sex because they're a pain to get off and it kind of breaks the mood. I'm very consious of hurting him with them, but he doesn't seem to mind.

 

[Private_Label]

Female, 40... I have watched porn (mainly out of curosity at first) -I haven't seen many (if you don't count the 10 second teaser clips) -but I like my porn the way I like my erotic stories, well written, with a logical progression. And can they do something about reusing the same footage in a loop to extend the sex scenes? If nothing changes in the shot (cameral angle, facial expressions) it is pretty obvious that they are doing that. BUt I would like to see more seduction before conquest. And can they do something about the impossible gymnastic poses? One had the guy sitting on the bed with the girl ass on the edge of the bed and her head on the floor. I think it was just so they could get a good shot of him sliding it in. can't the get the same thing with him laying on the bed and her leaning back on top of him?

 

[SlyKitten]

I don't really mind the get naked in 30 seconds and the jumping into action right away. What irritates me is the lack of coherency in the editing. I don't want a long story with 45 minutes of build up before seeing a nipple (man's or woman's), it's PORN for crying out loud. But I would love to see them take ALL the clothes off (I've seen scenes start where he's fully dressed, she's naked -obviously!- and then cut to her taking off his jeans... where did his t-shirt go?)

And another thing that bugs me though they don't do it as often now, if at all, is using the same images over and over again; I've seen a scene that consisted of maybe the same 4 images stuck together 20 times in a row; ridiculous.

And the lesbian scenes... In mainstream porn, it's like a mandatory scene, but God forbid you'd see 2 guys together! A homosexual scene is a homosexual scene, it shouldn't matter whether it's with 2 girls or 2 guys...

My turn to babble; rant over (for now)

 

[M's girl]

And another thing that bugs me though they don't do it as often now, if at all, is using the same images over and over again; I've seen a scene that consisted of maybe the same 4 images stuck together 20 times in a row; ridiculous.

Yes! I have noticed that too. It's rediculous. They still do it believe you me! I entirely agree about your remarks on the editing in general too. Thanks for your response...

 

[phoenix1224]

And the lesbian scenes... In mainstream porn, it's like a mandatory scene, but God forbid you'd see 2 guys together! A homosexual scene is a homosexual scene, it shouldn't matter whether it's with 2 girls or 2 guys...

But you have to keep in mind that MOST porn is aimed towards guys... So, it DOES matter if it's two GUYS...

 

[M's girl]

..... And can they do something about reusing the same footage in a loop to extend the sex scenes? If nothing changes in the shot (cameral angle, facial expressions) it is pretty obvious that they are doing that. BUt I would like to see more seduction before conquest. And can they do something about the impossible gymnastic poses? One had the guy sitting on the bed with the girl ass on the edge of the bed and her head on the floor. I think it was just so they could get a good shot of him sliding it in. can't the get the same thing with him laying on the bed and her leaning back on top of him?

I agree. I'm all for different positions but also wonder what the hell they are trying to do there. I've been to Cirque du Soleil and.... haha.... Well, you know what I mean! What do you think about the foot on the head (head on the floor) of women as you see in some films now? Mainstream porn? Have I missed something?

 

[M's girl]

But you have to keep in mind that MOST porn is aimed towards guys... So, it DOES matter if it's two GUYS...

True. But isn't it sad? I mean, not about there not being two guys in one (gay!) scene but that porn is still directed and made so much with guys in mind? Don't you think that the industry knows by now that there's plenty of women watching (and enjoying) it too nowadays? I bet if they (the industry) payed more attention to that, even largers sums of money could be made in this already money-cashing-industry.

 

[M's girl]

..... The only problem I have with him watching it is when I get home from work to see it on and hear the toilet flush... WAIT FOR ME!!! Now I"m horny and you're not

I had to laugh when I read this. I'm the biggest tom-boy you know. I don't own any makeup, only just started wearing dresses and hated it when my Mom made me wear high heels. I'm also short. My BF can kiss my forhead without reaching up. When experimenting with lingerie, my bf asked me if I had any heels. I dug my one and only pair out of the closet and dusted them off. You should have seen his eyes pop when I walked(very slowly and kind of wobbily) out of the bedroom! And they were only 2 inches! So, always aiming to please, I went out and bought some 5" "fuck me now" shoes at the local xxx shop. I can hardly walk in them but he loves to watch me practice! And I can kiss him standing up without wobbling on my tip toes or breaking my neck! Now I still refuse to wear heels (or any shoes at all if I can help it) outside the house, but I love my heels when I'm dressing up for him! And we don't bother taking them off durring sex because they're a pain to get off and it kind of breaks the mood. I'm very consious of hurting him with them, but he doesn't seem to mind.

Now, I had to laugh when I read your reply.... Thanks for your story. I can see you walking across a room on high heels now. You made me laugh... you made my day!

 

[phoenix1224]

True. But isn't it sad? I mean, not about there not being two guys in one (gay!) scene but that porn is still directed and made so much with guys in mind? Don't you think that the industry knows by now that there's plenty of women watching (and enjoying) it too nowadays? I bet if they (the industry) payed more attention to that, even largers sums of money could be made in this already money-cashing-industry.

True, but you have to realize that the porn aimed towards woman makes NOWHERE near as much profit as the wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am flicks... And, to the porn companies, it's all about the profit... So, it's really not worth the cost of production in their eyes to make the more fru-fru films.

 

[M's girl]

Fru fru Films...?

Maybe you're right.... on the other hand.... isn't there a whole new market to explore? And if that market (women) was being served wouldn't that increase the acceptance of women watching porn thus enhancing the sales even more?

 

[phoenix1224]

Fru fru Films...?

The adult film equivelent of the romance novel.

Maybe you're right.... on the other hand.... isn't there a whole new market to explore? And if that market (women) was being served wouldn't that increase the acceptance of women watching porn thus enhancing the sales even more?

True, but most of the women that are already into porn seem to be fairly ok with what's already being produced.

There are few companies that are exlusively producing the more "girly" type of porn but, they aren't making that much of a profit... Maybe in a few years they'll be making more profit... But not right now.

 

[M's girl]

True, but most of the women that are already into porn seem to be fairly ok with what's already being produced.

Fairly OK.... yes, that's true. And some of it is even better than fairly OK, I must admit. I don't say it doesn't make me horny.... most of the time it 'does the job' quite well But it could be even better.....

 

[Chi-Guy31]

Yes! I have noticed that too. It's rediculous. They still do it believe you me! I entirely agree about your remarks on the editing in general too. Thanks for your response...

Wow, where are you guys seeing porn that recycles the same scenes? That's terrible! I wonder what studios allow that to happen. With the porn I have purhcased from various studios (DVSX, Sineplex, Red Light District, Platinum X, Elegant Angel, etc), I have never seen this happen. In fact, these titles are in the "gonzo" genre, where there is no plot and often the scenes play out as you see, with little to no editing. It would certainly chap my hide if I found scenes were being re-used again and again - for shame!

 

[SlyKitten]

A good porn movie I've seen (made in the 80's I think) is Josephine. No idea who did that movie, but costumes were great, story was taboo, lines were believably said, lighting was good... that was entertainment!

And "girly porn" Phoenix? lol What is that? Harlequin's newest paperback put on film?

 

[M's girl]

Wow, where are you guys seeing porn that recycles the same scenes? That's terrible! I wonder what studios allow that to happen. With the porn I have purhcased from various studios (DVSX, Sineplex, Red Light District, Platinum X, Elegant Angel, etc), I have never seen this happen.

Hi Chi-Guy!

Just "consulted" ( ) M about this, just to be sure, but we're convinced we've seen it happen in films coming from those studio's as well. It's not like they are repeating whole scenes, but rather that you see a few minutes of fucking appear a second or even third time in the same episode/session or whatever you call it. If you pay close attention you will notice the same movements and sounds. On the one hand it's funny too... apparently it doesn't make a lot of difference to a lot of people. It's not like it's turning me off and to not spoil "the mood" so to speak M and I are sometimes commenting on this (have you noticed.... bla bla) 'afterwards'. Let's face it... most people are too turned on already to really care a whole lot about it. It is still a bit annoying and cheap... in different ways, haha

 

[sosexy]

I saw a supposed "girl porn" and it ended just while things were getting interesting, it was mostly lustful glances and occasional touching.

 

[MagicFingers]

Suze Randell

Thank you.

I know what you mean about the oral scenes. I find that they are becoming somewhat scarse. We (my BF and I) have quite the porn collection but I find that there is a lot of stuff out there that is not very 'creative' and 'diverse' at the moment. If you don't know what to look for you end up with scenes of girls showing their ass to the camera and next thing you know there's two dicks in her, while she's screaming and moaning from stroke one as if she's cumming already. Not realistic and not very sexy in my opinion.

I want the seduction, passion, the kissing too. As if they are actually making out instead of just filling holes, haha. I'm not saying it doesn't make me horny, but I prefer watching something else, which makes me even hotter.

Any suggestions for nice movies then? I like the Suze Randall films because they look nice and the sex in diverse. I like NINN WORX productions and also the Jill Kelly Productions.

Haven't heard that name in years. I have a movie called "Suzi's Hot Reels". It is many different scenes of different hot women masturbating with different things in different settings. One of the best sex movies I've ever seen!!! She really knows what's hot.

 

[BigM]

Reality TV for porn?

... but sometimes I seriously consider going into the business myself (as a director/producer) to (contribute to) make better porn, haha...

I've come to this thread late, but I have no doubt -- NO DOUBT! -- that M's Girl and many of us could make a right-hot porn flik if only we had the technical know-how (editing, lighting, sound...). Many of us certainly have the sexual creativity.

In fact, there should be a reality TV show: Give a group of contestants the same budget, actors and other constraints, and see which contestant comes up with the best porn flik. (Now there's a reality show that would attract viewers.)

Even better: A Sundance-like film festival promoting newcomers to porn directing. Alas, I digress too far.

 

[SlyKitten]

I've come to this thread late, but I have no doubt -- NO DOUBT! -- that M's Girl and many of us could make a right-hot porn flik if only we had the technical know-how (editing, lighting, sound...). Many of us certainly have the sexual creativity.

In fact, there should be a reality TV show: Give a group of contestants the same budget, actors and other constraints, and see which contestant comes up with the best porn flik. (Now there's a reality show that would attract viewers.)

Even better: A Sundance-like film festival promoting newcomers to porn directing. Alas, I digress too far.

LOL I am so in if there's ever a show like that!