Women of Lit: A Safe Place To Share

As a blanket statement that I should not need to say: for anything I post on this women to women no men posting thread neither need nor desire men to send me PMs about my posts.

Other threads, sure fine. Those are all open forum

From here? Please stop. I don’t need you pointing out how you wouldn’t do X or it’s too bad someone else did X or whatever. I understand I can’t stop you from reading this thread but by God I wish you would stop yourself. It just feels creepy and intrusive and reinforces everything that I can bitch about on here.

Just stop.
 
As a blanket statement that I should not need to say: for anything I post on this women to women no men posting thread neither need nor desire men to send me PMs about my posts.

Other threads, sure fine. Those are all open forum

From here? Please stop. I don’t need you pointing out how you wouldn’t do X or it’s too bad someone else did X or whatever. I understand I can’t stop you from reading this thread but by God I wish you would stop yourself. It just feels creepy and intrusive and reinforces everything that I can bitch about on here.

Just stop.
I'm sorry you even had to post that!
 
I'm sorry you even had to post that!
It’s just so absurd. They just have to say SOMETHING! It’s like water flowing downhill- if they can’t post it on this thread because it will get deleted and them banned they have to come to my PMs.

I just don’t get it.

Anyway how are you today?
 
It’s just so absurd. They just have to say SOMETHING! It’s like water flowing downhill- if they can’t post it on this thread because it will get deleted and them banned they have to come to my PMs.

I just don’t get it.

Anyway how are you today?
I'm doing good! Being reminded by some of your tribulations why I'm glad I'm gay 🤭

So...thanks? 🤗
 
See it’s not fair because I’d love to see yours and you wouldn’t care about mine.

But hot lawyer girlfriend? 😳
You have (had?) more choice though! Finding other women to date requires a dowsing rod and the ability to read body language too subtle to be captured on video.
 
Please, please, please post the things you would like represented. 🙏

Wanted to chime in on this too. First off, Genz, you have not disappointed anyone! This is a good discussion and I’m glad we’re having it.

I also have noticed these threads seem limited to a very conventional, heteronormative aesthetic. It makes sense that that’s mostly what you’re finding because the male gaze is largely prioritized in the world we live in.

I would certainly not complain in the threads because I’m not doing the work of creating or contributing to them. You are absolutely right that more of us should post images of that diversity that appeals to us!

I also get that you’ post what is appealing to you re age range, and femme-presenting. That was the case for me when I was much younger as well. As I’ve gotten older I’ve grown to really appreciate the aesthetic of more androgynous femmes, soft butch, and stone butch. I mean, damn. Why not? We are an incredibly diverse array of gorgeousness!!!

If I find a good resource for such media, I will share with the group 😍🤩
 
As a blanket statement that I should not need to say: for anything I post on this women to women no men posting thread neither need nor desire men to send me PMs about my posts.

Other threads, sure fine. Those are all open forum

From here? Please stop. I don’t need you pointing out how you wouldn’t do X or it’s too bad someone else did X or whatever. I understand I can’t stop you from reading this thread but by God I wish you would stop yourself. It just feels creepy and intrusive and reinforces everything that I can bitch about on here.

Just stop.
The lack of self regulation skills is alarming, isn't it?
 
Wanted to chime in on this too. First off, Genz, you have not disappointed anyone! This is a good discussion and I’m glad we’re having it.

I also have noticed these threads seem limited to a very conventional, heteronormative aesthetic. It makes sense that that’s mostly what you’re finding because the male gaze is largely prioritized in the world we live in.

I would certainly not complain in the threads because I’m not doing the work of creating or contributing to them. You are absolutely right that more of us should post images of that diversity that appeals to us!

I also get that you’ post what is appealing to you re age range, and femme-presenting. That was the case for me when I was much younger as well. As I’ve gotten older I’ve grown to really appreciate the aesthetic of more androgynous femmes, soft butch, and stone butch. I mean, damn. Why not? We are an incredibly diverse array of gorgeousness!!!

If I find a good resource for such media, I will share with the group 😍🤩
Thank you so much! BTW, if any of you ladies don't want to post images for reasons and just want to PM me with links to what you want to see, I would be happy to post them.

I'm not -usually- attracted to masc but I will admit to some exceptions :sneaky:
 
As a blanket statement that I should not need to say: for anything I post on this women to women no men posting thread neither need nor desire men to send me PMs about my posts.

Other threads, sure fine. Those are all open forum

From here? Please stop. I don’t need you pointing out how you wouldn’t do X or it’s too bad someone else did X or whatever. I understand I can’t stop you from reading this thread but by God I wish you would stop yourself. It just feels creepy and intrusive and reinforces everything that I can bitch about on here.

Just stop.

SHE'S MINEEE, you stay away... / Jay D Stryder
 
You should see my gf in her lawyer clothes...or out of them 💦
My Hubby is a lawyer as well. He had court today, and looked oh so yummy in his suit, a black on black pinstripe one. 🥰🥰🥰

Too bad I'm probably going to be out of the mood by the time we are finally alone tonight. It was the same way after my first kid, and stayed that way for about a year. 😞
 
As a blanket statement that I should not need to say: for anything I post on this women to women no men posting thread neither need nor desire men to send me PMs about my posts.

Other threads, sure fine. Those are all open forum

From here? Please stop. I don’t need you pointing out how you wouldn’t do X or it’s too bad someone else did X or whatever. I understand I can’t stop you from reading this thread but by God I wish you would stop yourself. It just feels creepy and intrusive and reinforces everything that I can bitch about on here.

Just stop.
I've had the same experience. And they usually get pissed when I've tried to explain it, so I don't try anymore.
 
You have (had?) more choice though! Finding other women to date requires a dowsing rod and the ability to read body language too subtle to be captured on video.
Fuck yeah it does. I had a couple misfires back when I was still drinking and trying to reignite my bisexuality. The most embarrassing was with my Hubby's cousin during pandemic lockdown. She was staying with us and I totally misread a bunch there. It got kinda awkward, of course. 😳
 
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