Women who crave/want to be called slut, whore...humiliating names????

[chris9]

Now, if you don't mind, Totally_Unsure, I'm also wondering about the other side of the coin, so to speak.
So I'd like to know how the Dominants around feel about name-calling. Do you like to call you pyl 'slut, whore, bitch, whatever' or don't you? And why? Would you take offense when someone else calls them such without your permission (Catalina inspired that question)?

 

[Milambus]

I think one of reasons that people enjoy being called those names is that it is a form of objectification. Where you are removing the person's self from the scene, and allowing them to just react as an object, usually devoted to thier Dom(me)'s wishes. By doing this you can help to free the sub from the normal morale/society standards, and allow them to simply give into whatever sensations they are experiencing.

The sub is no longer a parent, child, business-person, etc.. they are simply "my sexy little slut".

 

[Mae13]

Thanks for all the replys guys and gals.

I noticed that some women replied that they like these names, but only by one they trust, or comfortable with, or by their Master. What about the women who enjoys being called those names by anyone, noone in particular??

Totally

While I don't necessarily enjoy being called any of those by a random stranger, it doesn't really bother me. "Bitch" is a pretty common word to hear if you're an opinionated and strong woman, and "slut/whore" can be the norm as well for those of us comfortable with our sexuality.

The turn-on for me is that it's a trigger; a reminder that YES I AM his slut, his whore, his bitch panting in heat. My cunt belongs entirely to him, as do all other parts of my body. I want and crave him with an almost desperate need sometimes. I ache to have him inside me. A part of me needs these games we play...

While we are not in a 24/7 lifestyle of Master/slave, when we do Play I am utterly and completely owned by him. He can use the most endearing tone while murmuring "You're such a good little slut" in my ear that makes me melt, or he can give me a sharp reminder that I AM his whore while he's riding me and leaving delicious handprint welts on my ass.

Its all very, very good in my book.

 

[BrAvHeArT]

While I don't necessarily enjoy being called any of those by a random stranger, it doesn't really bother me. "Bitch" is a pretty common word to hear if you're an opinionated and strong woman, and "slut/whore" can be the norm as well for those of us comfortable with our sexuality.

The turn-on for me is that it's a trigger; a reminder that YES I AM his slut, his whore, his bitch panting in heat. My cunt belongs entirely to him, as do all other parts of my body. I want and crave him with an almost desperate need sometimes. I ache to have him inside me. A part of me needs these games we play...

While we are not in a 24/7 lifestyle of Master/slave, when we do Play I am utterly and completely owned by him. He can use the most endearing tone while murmuring "You're such a good little slut" in my ear that makes me melt, or he can give me a sharp reminder that I AM his whore while he's riding me and leaving delicious handprint welts on my ass.

Its all very, very good in my book.

Damn baby...your know exactly what you want, i love it...hopefully you are getting nothing 'short'

 

[Jilly J]

I find it extremely hot in my fantasy life, I think mostly because it's dirty and that's a major turn on for me. Unfortunately, I've never found a guy into that sort of thing. Which is probably why my sex life is almost always unsatisfying.

 

[_sweetuntilforever]

It's just hot.

For me to be turned on by those names like I should be, it usually has to be accompanied by sweet endearments. I mean, I can shout "bitch" and "cunt" when someone cuts me off on the highway but that doesn't give those words any meaning. When my Dom whispers sweet endearments in my ear and follows up with "...my sweet little whore" it absolutely drives me wild! I love it when his voice gets low and dangerous and he calls me those delicious names in an almost mocking baby talk. Wooo Weeee...!!

Nothing makes me hotter than that and I have absolutely no idea why.

Always,
_sweetuntilforever

 

[Loose_by_name]

What's in a name

I dont know why some women or men for that matter are offended by some names, whilst others LOVE them, nor would I say that such names turn me on, as such, I dont consider myself a 'slut' only within sexual boundaries- wait a minute what boundaries LOL -

SLUT (for me) means SEX LOVING UNSELFISH TREASURE and when women take pride in the word they empower themselves, in the same way those in the gay community or those in the african american community can freely use words that in the past wouldve been considered derogatory. Although I must say if a guy is going to use the word 'for affect' he may as well not bother - INTENT is everything.


I think this link sums up the point nicely....The piece was a little 'dry' in my opinion so I coloured it up and added pix, but you will still get the point Im sure.

http://www.geocities.com/lucythelusty/SLUT.html


Lucy

 

[dramaqueen47]

I like to be called names because it makes me feel nasty. Also, I think of how naught I am being because if my parents or anyone else knew that He was calling me these names, they would flip out and be so judgemental.

 

[rosebud5446]

i just realized, i HATE the word 'cunt', but i was thinking about him calling me that in bed, and it really turned me on, i'm kind of indifferent to being called 'slut' and 'whore', but 'cunt' is really taboo to me i guess. man, i wish he was here right now...

 

[soapstar]

Hello All,

I have been wondering about this for quite some time and thought I would post it here at Lit. to see what other's opinions are on the subject.

I know that there are a lot of women who are repulsed and even feel it is
vulgar to be called certain names when they are sexually turned on; slut, whore, bitch etc. etc. Yes, I know there are more 'creative' names I could jot down. But I think you understand what I am getting at. On the other side, there are women that actually want to be called these names.

For me it depends on the person. I only submit to people I like? Admire is a better term

 

[masterneeded]

Hello All,

I have been wondering about this for quite some time and thought I would post it here at Lit. to see what other's opinions are on the subject.

I know that there are a lot of women who are repulsed and even feel it is
vulgar to be called certain names when they are sexually turned on; slut, whore, bitch etc. etc. Yes, I know there are more 'creative' names I could jot down. But I think you understand what I am getting at. On the other side, there are women that actually want to be called these names. In fact, having these names, among others, said to them during sexual play, only heightens their sexual fever.

My question is, what makes some women want/crave this and others to find it repulsive??

Thanks,
Totally

i like to be called names during the height of sex. it is as though i am seen for what i really am inside. Nobody else in my life says i am a whore so it's different when somebody is brave enough to say it and it makes it erotic.

 

[butterfly_rosen]

A Lady In The Street and A Freak In The Sheet Factor!!!

It all depends on how you use the words! See me on the street and call me a dirty little whore, you will get one reaction, but in the bedroom call me a dirty little whore and it will get you a whole hell of a lot more favorable reaction.

Cassandra Rose

 

[daisyleigh]

eing called a cunt? Not so much! Most women prob wouldnt like that...but a dirty little slut...UHUH!!!!! So hot..if its the right person of course

 

[Totally_Unsure]

Sure has been interesting reading everyone's responses. I see that there are different opinions on this. But it does seem that the majority of the response is positive for the name calling...........of course, within the right situation. I definitely would not go for, 'dirty whore, slut' etc., outside of the bedroom. Ummmmm, within the bedroom, with the right person is totally different.

Thank you all for taking the time to reply.

 

[Zmey]

I think most guys just afraid to talk dirty. I like to think that for every product there is a consumer

 

[SLUT_BOX]

I love being called dirty names whiel having sex. I'm not sure why but It really gets me going. I know my master does not intend to emotionally scar me but to degrade me which, in turn makes him happy. I do agree with the fact that a person's background influences whether or not they enjoy being called names. I guess my background makes me crave the degradation of being called a cumslave or fuck box ect.

 

[SpankyMcCranky]

This morning, we were playing and he called me 'slut', at first it shocked me that he would call me that, but I LOVED it! We kept going with it, he was calling me a slut, a whore, spanking me and pulling my hair and it was wild! Meanwhile I was telling him all the things I want to do that prompted him to call me these things. It was intense. I think it's the start of something...

 

[d4rk4ngel]

For me, the use of name calling brings out the fight in me, and when I fight back, things get very hot. *shrugs* I, personally, love the fight.

 

[d4rk4ngel]

*claps softly* Very well said.

I think one of reasons that people enjoy being called those names is that it is a form of objectification. Where you are removing the person's self from the scene, and allowing them to just react as an object, usually devoted to thier Dom(me)'s wishes. By doing this you can help to free the sub from the normal morale/society standards, and allow them to simply give into whatever sensations they are experiencing.

The sub is no longer a parent, child, business-person, etc.. they are simply "my sexy little slut".

 

[masterneeded]

i am one of those women who finds being called humiliating names repulsive. i am also one of those women who want/crave to be called humiliating names, TOO (all forms of 'dirty talk' to be included here, such as being told to, "get down on my knees and use my mouth for what it is best for", and, "i know you feel those hot welts on your ass, just as much as i know that even while you pray i'll stop, your pussy is so dripping wet that it always gives you away ... you're a pain slut and we both know it")!

When called any one of the many humiliating names imaginable, my reactions will vary between very aroused & dripping wet, to very angered and suddenly capable of delivering serious levels of bodily harm. Which reaction i may arrive at depends upon WHO is doing the name calling, and more importantly, it is dependent upon that person's intent.

i've been called slut, whore, and bitch (don't know any woman who hasn't been), by those who have meant to cause me emotional harm for whatever their reasons may be. i can't speak for anyone else, and when i've been called those names and others, by anyone intending to hurt me, they have always failed in obtaining that goal. i know who i am, and for anyone else to suggest otherwise will only provoke anger from me, but not due to any insecurities on my part ... it's the understanding that they WISH to cause harm, which will piss me off. It's never even been about any arguement or defense as to whether i am or am not a slut, whore or a bitch. It's all about the intentions behind the name calling, in my case.

i DO love when my Master has called me any of those names, as well as others. i CAN answer why i enjoy it coming from Him .... For once in my life, i am free to trust & free to act out, and live my wildest dreams and fantasies. i can be HIS slut and feel no shame. He uses the words with pride. He never calls me any names with harmful or mean intent. He uses them as terms of endearment, and hearing these words coming from Him gives me good reason to be proud. Am i a slut? For HIM i am.

This is exactly how i feel. You really said it well.

 

[DrDon]

I think most guys just afraid to talk dirty. I like to think that for every product there is a consumer

I enjoy talking dirty during sex. If a woman wants to be called names no problem. But I always ask which names you do NOT want to be called. It's easier that way so you don't offend. The word BITCH and WHORE seems to be the two that are off limits the most. At least with the encounters I have had over the years.

To each his/her own.

But talking dirty makes is so much hotter for me and especially when both parties get into it and can dirty talk or tell dirty fantasies while ravishing each other bodies.

 

[sandyb]

Why is it that the word "cunt" is so offensive to so many women I wonder? Personally I like the term. Very Anglo-Saxon and thrillingly crude, and objectifying. But really not much more so than "pussy" which is also a great word.

 

[traveler99]

Words words words - and their effect

I have found that many women are very turned on by words. Perhaps more than men are. I mean words/talk while making love. Many women I have known get more and more turned on, moving, responding, squeezing my cock inside, as I tell them how hot and hard they are making me, and talk about their pussy/cunt/nipples' etc, effect on me. And calling names in the heat of it all does often turn a lover on. Such voluntary heated sexy words, if welcomed by the woman, is not degrading. And it turns on women who are submissive as well as others.

By the way, for more words, feel free to PM me. Talk by yahoo, cam or whatever

 

[Tara S]

I used to object very strongly to it. However, in the heat of passion; while I'm being taken roughly; it often now results in a huuuuge turn on. It has to be done right though. I can't explain why, its just primal I guess... I never used to enjoy rough sex either, but now once in a while I do.

 

[DR4GONSFIRE]

Do I Look Like A Slut? Uh Huh, Shut up

I have Dark/Light Personality I alway seem to clash within myself guilt verses desire it can be difficult balancing compassion with passion, but isn't that why we do it? Is just me or is feeling dirty part of sex? I mean look at us and how sex is used in almost everything.
At one time I had a Problem Calling my girl A slut. I don't want to hurt her and yet at the same time I do, during sex I feel so close to her and inside my head I'm screaming you fucking slut, you whore, you nasty little bitch.... I love you. LOL When I found out she loved it, it made me crazy. I found her, all the sexual adversity left me and awoke a part of myself that I tried to smother. (I wonder if I made a point, or was I just rambling ....I hope I didn't write this down...oops ...Oh Well Fuck it.)