Women who crave/want to be called slut, whore...humiliating names????

[d4rk4ngel]

Even more strange than your ramblings, Dr4gon, is my ability to understand it. How did you figure out she liked it? *bats eyes*

I have Dark/Light Personality I alway seem to clash within myself guilt verses desire it can be difficult balancing compassion with passion, but isn't that why we do it? Is just me or is feeling dirty part of sex? I mean look at us and how sex is used in almost everything.
At one time I had a Problem Calling my girl A slut. I don't want to hurt her and yet at the same time I do, during sex I feel so close to her and inside my head I'm screaming you fucking slut, you whore, you nasty little bitch.... I love you. LOL When I found out she loved it, it made me crazy. I found her, all the sexual adversity left me and awoke a part of myself that I tried to smother. (I wonder if I made a point, or was I just rambling ....I hope I didn't write this down...oops ...Oh Well Fuck it.)

 

[Holly Golightly]

I love it

Someone speaking to me during sex saying nasty things and calling me a slut and a whore turn me on soooooooo much. For me I have a hard time telling someone I am with to treat me that way.

 

[Unccwhitegurl]

I love it. I get all hot and bothered when D calls me her slut or whatnot. It makes me blush and shiver. But only when D does it. Anyone else trys that and they will have two very pissed off women after them.

I agree with you, my man can call me his little cunt, his bitch and his nasty girl and they just excite me almost as much as when he calls me his little girl, but as soon as someone besides my man calls me a cunt a whore a slut etc... They are considered fighting words and I am ready to beat someone down..

 

[Bob Sharpe]

Dirty talk

I agree, it is a strange thing the women like filthy talk whist being fucked, my wife loves to be called all sorts of filthy names whilst haveing sex, especially the "C" word, she even uses it herself when reaching orgasm.
Yet away from the act of sex she would be horrified if I used anything stronger than "bugger" or "Bloody"

 

[DR4GONSFIRE]

All I can Say

She has her ways with me D4rk4ngel, I'm sure you can understand.

 

[BeachGurl2]

For me, there's a difference between dirty talk and name calling. Personally, the name calling does nothing for me, and in fact, done in the wrong moment can be a total turnoff for me. However, telling me what he wants to do, what he is doing, and how it feels - whether dirty talk or more loving - definitely does it for me.

 

[BlondeAndBlue]

Someone speaking to me during sex saying nasty things and calling me a slut and a whore turn me on soooooooo much. For me I have a hard time telling someone I am with to treat me that way.

Exactly! Me too. I loooooooove being called those names, but how do you ask a person to do it? So hard not to be shy. So when I find someone with the confidence to just say it, and to know the right time....mmm, that's heaven.

 

[chriskchambers]

I absolutely LOVE being called dirty names by my Master.The dirtier the word,the better,and wetter I get! I especially love it when he says "Yeah,you like that,don't you cunt/whore/slut?Oh god that is such a turnon.If He wouldn't say it,it wouldn't be the same.

I have found this also, that when I call my ex-partners names they enjoyed the session more.

 

[jessishot]

I like it becoz

i like it becoz it makes me fell like a slut

 

[jetdriver68]

i like it becoz it makes me fell like a slut

Good little slut!

 

[nycbbwslut]

I personally don't care for the c%nt word at all but when my special daddy calls me his slut, whore mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Now don't let someone I don't know call me some of those...I'd be pissed!!! okay maybe not slut...

 

[d4rk4ngel]

Well, Dr4gon, if you have a woman and you have unlocked the secret to what makes her moan, I would say you are one lucky man. Does she know how hard it is to find a man who cares enough to look inside? She's one lucky chick.

*drools* I need a man who has that kind of courage. *drools* mmm, slut

So, Dr4gon, do I look like a slut?

She has her ways with me D4rk4ngel, I'm sure you can understand.

 

[d4rk4ngel]

Ok, so i hate to be the one to re-open a retired thread, but somethings should never go unsaid...

A man calling you slut in the middle of vanilla sex can throw some issues into it, as i found. Too, a submissive male using it to make you happy (a relationship between two subs) sucks. Hardcore. In the WRONG situations, slut can be demeaning and scary. i should know.

Ok, on that note, when you find yourself in an unclassified relationship, one full of real emotion, genuine feelings, and such, but lacking a "title" (D/s; M/s, BDSM, vanilla, etc) and you seem to move in that direction and it pops out... it can be very welcome.

So, draaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagging this slut thing back to the forefront is essential for very selfish reasons. It turns out, i am a slut. And i like it.

*steps down from the soapbox, dusts off her shoulders and slips back to His side*

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Ooh, like this thread. I'm gonna stick my beak in for a minute

Personally I love filthy language during sex. It makes the whole thing so much more primal and feral *sigh*

The nilla women I know feel threatened by this because they see being called names or having their anatomy referred to explicitly as demeaning and hence unloving. Those I know who enjoy talking and listening dirty are in established relationships where they have no doubt of their partner's regard for them. I think that's the key.

How you call your girl a filthy cocksucking slut in a loving fashion I don't know

Velvet

 

[mr_demon]

Groans

ok, like I always say, Im new to the forum, but I always like to add my lil something.

First and foremost, calling her all and any name for me at least is a MAJOR turnon, like the old saying goes "if sex isn't dirty, then you aint doing it right".

Another thing I'd like to comment, I also like it when she's in a specially feisty mood to answer back calling me a Bastard and what not. Just makes me lets say perform harder *chuckles*

now since I just finished reading the thread and seeeing all these wonderful ladies say how much they like it, I need to go take a cold shower.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

now since I just finished reading the thread and seeeing all these wonderful ladies say how much they like it, I need to go take a cold shower.

Clearly our work here is done

 

[Masters_Falcon]

There is.. (and I speak from experience as well as a large amount of time spent studying psychology) something in the name calling that forfills some woman. Usually it is woman who feel like they are exactly what you are calling them. It is for that moment you can let go and be what you feel you are. In the safety and privacy of the woman's bedroom (or whatever room the act is taking place in) allows her to be free and ok with who she thinks she is. It isn't so much that the woman enjoys it.. but rather that it is relief to be able (again in the privacy of the act of sex) admit that you are those horrible things..(even if it is only in that one moment)

On the turn on side well it is because it is a taboo. In the world outside of the bedroom one would never be able to get away with calling a woman a whore or a bitch or a cunt without some sort of (at the very least verbal) repricusion. But in the bedroom it is a completely different situation. The man can do what is taboo.. and hey what woman doesn't like a bad boy who likes to break the rules and commit taboos...

 

[VelvetDarkness]

It is for that moment you can let go and be what you feel you are. In the safety and privacy of the woman's bedroom (or whatever room the act is taking place in) allows her to be free and ok with who she thinks she is. It isn't so much that the woman enjoys it.. but rather that it is relief to be able (again in the privacy of the act of sex) admit that you are those horrible things..(even if it is only in that one moment)

Yeah, that's me. When I get called names during sex it turns me on because, in that moment, for him I AM a slut, I WILL do what he tells me and like it, I AM being driven by my wet cunt to suck him and fuck him and everything else. It brings home the intimacy and abandon that goes with really good sex; the naked need with no window dressing.

It almost feels like a vindication. "I'm acting in this wanton, slutty way and I'm enjoying every second, Hurrah!"

 

[Masters_Falcon]

Yeah, that's me. When I get called names during sex it turns me on because, in that moment, for him I AM a slut, I WILL do what he tells me and like it, I AM being driven by my wet cunt to suck him and fuck him and everything else. It brings home the intimacy and abandon that goes with really good sex; the naked need with no window dressing.

It almost feels like a vindication. "I'm acting in this wanton, slutty way and I'm enjoying every second, Hurrah!"

Nice to know I am not alone in my feelings... my favorite thing is when Master calls me his wanton little whore...

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Nice to know I am not alone in my feelings... my favorite thing is when Master calls me his wanton little whore...

I've been called "slut" with such genuine affection *sigh*

 

[gatorz]

talking dirty during sex is just fun. it's the slutty tendencies that arouse us, yet most of us want to be "good" so we let go in the bedroom when we feel safe

gatorz

 

[mrs.jeepman6]

I absolutely love being called names by jeepman6. I'm his cunt, whore, slut, cocksucker, anything he wants but he respects me at all times. Any other time and from anybody else those would be ass kick words but from my hubby they are meant as what I am for him and him only and I love each and every one from him and him only.

 

[mr_demon]

Clearly our work here is done

yes its done, you evil evil women you LOL

I've been called "slut" with such genuine affection *sigh*

I've never used the term "slut" without affection, to me it isnt really an insult, I have never used words such as that to insult a woman (I can't recall ever openly insulting a woman actually, must have to do with my british upbringing). I must be kinda weird, but I view those words as a sort of reward for their wantoness *sighs remembering*

anways, you're still evil girls

 

[d4rk4ngel]

*smiles* well, here's to fond memories. Glad we could help bring them up for ya!

 

[mr_demon]

darn tight jeans! sniggers