Women who crave/want to be called slut, whore...humiliating names????
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traveler99
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Hey -- David here. Seeking smart sweet sensual female who enjoys her mind and body. Don't be shy (or too shy) and come say hi
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I love it, and not sure why either, something very hot about being called names, but only during sex, if he were to do it outside the bedroom you can bet a bitch slap is soon to follow! 
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I'm always fairly dominant in the bedroom because alot of guys i've slept with get worried that they might say the wrong thing, or not do something right.
So I always tend to take control, and when I touch a guy a certain, way or say a certain thing. Thats my way of telling him non-verbally, that I want him to do those things back. Some guys pick up on it, and others don't but either way I do get more turned on when someone talks dirty to me in the bedroom.
Some guys get worried that they might say the wrong thing and hurt my feelings. Which is understandable. Some women are picky in the bedroom. But by using words like, "Whore," "Slut" or "Bitch!" it only makes me more turned and and eager to please. Then it does when a guy just lays there not making any sound at all. Not knowing if he's enjoying it or not.
So I always tend to take control, and when I touch a guy a certain, way or say a certain thing. Thats my way of telling him non-verbally, that I want him to do those things back. Some guys pick up on it, and others don't but either way I do get more turned on when someone talks dirty to me in the bedroom.
Some guys get worried that they might say the wrong thing and hurt my feelings. Which is understandable. Some women are picky in the bedroom. But by using words like, "Whore," "Slut" or "Bitch!" it only makes me more turned and and eager to please. Then it does when a guy just lays there not making any sound at all. Not knowing if he's enjoying it or not.
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Certainly, some names such as slut or whore sound degrading outside the bedroom, but if my man is so into taking me, taking what he wants that he calls me a slut.. *growls* hmm turned on further... I know I wouldn't appreciate the same term being used in just casual converstation though, but yeah, in the bedroom, I am not at all offended by exclaimations of passion.
Certainly, some names such as slut or whore sound degrading outside the bedroom, but if my man is so into taking me, taking what he wants that he calls me a slut.. *growls* hmm turned on further... I know I wouldn't appreciate the same term being used in just casual converstation though, but yeah, in the bedroom, I am not at all offended by exclaimations of passion.
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One person I played with wanted me to treat her like a slutty whore. So while I am having sex with her I don't say a word and she said that was very profound and really did make her feel the way she was wanting. That is not why I did it but the results were perfect that night.
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Rebellious_Sub said:
Exclaimations of passion.... exactly!!
or... terms of endearment.
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I LOVE being called a slut or a whore in bed, or any sexual situation. And I know that it's because in all the other areas of my life I'm such a good girl, and being called names like that gives me a release to do whatever i like in bed and assures me that that being a good girl isn't all of who I am.
Also for some reason i just like to be used, and being called a whore lets me know what my partner thinks of me and is there for.
I LOVE being called a slut or a whore in bed, or any sexual situation. And I know that it's because in all the other areas of my life I'm such a good girl, and being called names like that gives me a release to do whatever i like in bed and assures me that that being a good girl isn't all of who I am.
Also for some reason i just like to be used, and being called a whore lets me know what my partner thinks of me and is there for.
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i enjoy being called slut or whore when we're fucking. honestly the more degrading the better
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From my interviews and discussions - I tend to get pegged as the "Safe Guy" by quite a lot of women - they'll tell me all kinds of stuff, having written me off as a potential partner - it's generally a matter of place, time, and intent. Kind of like when you greet your cat with a "C'mere, you little shithead," but do it in a high, friendly voice. The cat will respond positively, to your voice and posture, the words don't mean a thing.
With women, it's different. The words do mean something, and the posture and tone mean something as well. Being called a bitch, slut, whore, or cunt may be delivered as the highest form of complement - face it, guys in general aren't all that articulate to begin with, but when you've reduced them to such expletives - it's got to be a rush.
As an ex-girlfriend once told me, "Call me a slut and I'll twist your nuts off... Call me your slut, and I'll suck them right out of you." Apparently, to a certain type of woman, these epithets can be a romnatic pet name.
With women, it's different. The words do mean something, and the posture and tone mean something as well. Being called a bitch, slut, whore, or cunt may be delivered as the highest form of complement - face it, guys in general aren't all that articulate to begin with, but when you've reduced them to such expletives - it's got to be a rush.
As an ex-girlfriend once told me, "Call me a slut and I'll twist your nuts off... Call me your slut, and I'll suck them right out of you." Apparently, to a certain type of woman, these epithets can be a romnatic pet name.
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I love being called names by my lover. It really turns me on. It's probably because I have to take control in my working life that I love to let someone else take control and use and abuse me!
I love being called names by my lover. It really turns me on. It's probably because I have to take control in my working life that I love to let someone else take control and use and abuse me!
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There's an element of cheesiness...I LOVE it...
I struggled with this question to begin with - along with issues of why I like to be dominated - because as a feminist, it seems pretty oxymoronic.
I finally came to the conclusion that it's all about context. I agree with what you've all said about taboo as well. It's very sexy. It's like you shouldn't let people call you those names, and if they do, you shouldn't enjoy it, but you do, because it's naughty. In the right context, with the right tone, it's kind of like being given permission to love sex and be sexy, and be a completely different kind of person in bed than in your day-to-day, public life.
It's an extreme and cliched vocalisation of a totally different side to yourself. Like a dirty little secret...
I struggled with this question to begin with - along with issues of why I like to be dominated - because as a feminist, it seems pretty oxymoronic.
I finally came to the conclusion that it's all about context. I agree with what you've all said about taboo as well. It's very sexy. It's like you shouldn't let people call you those names, and if they do, you shouldn't enjoy it, but you do, because it's naughty. In the right context, with the right tone, it's kind of like being given permission to love sex and be sexy, and be a completely different kind of person in bed than in your day-to-day, public life.
It's an extreme and cliched vocalisation of a totally different side to yourself. Like a dirty little secret...
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