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[jason28053]

Or even what I used to think was kinky compared to now.

Yes, this is what I was trying to articulate.

 

[Mei5ter]

Or even what I used to think was kinky compared to now.

Isn't it said that a feather is erotic, but the whole chicken is kinky?

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

Isn't it said that a feather is erotic, but the whole chicken is kinky?

If it isn’t a saying then it should be.

 

[jason28053]

Isn't it said that a feather is erotic, but the whole chicken is kinky?

I believe that is “tickle your ass with a feather?”

 

[Mei5ter]

I'm officially the worst casual fuck in history. I can live with that.

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

I'm officially the worst casual fuck in history. I can live with that.

Do you feel like you’ve changed over time?

 

[Mei5ter]

Do you feel like you’ve changed over time?

Well, a man can't wear the same boxers forever?

 

[jason28053]

Well, a man can't wear the same boxers forever?

40 years long enough?

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

Well, a man can't wear the same boxers forever?

I mean .. I suppose he could …but

Ok if I make the question less personal…

How do you think people’s views on their sexuality change over time?

 

[MindYaBitness]

How so? Do you feel it should be adjusted more one way or the other?

Which parts ring true and which don’t? Any surprises?

Not surprises, really. Just thought it would be a little more in depth, perhaps? It's a little oversimplified. But, the alternative would be the kink test that's super-duper in depth, which was a bit overwhelming

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

Not surprises, really. Just thought it would be a little more in depth, perhaps? It's a little oversimplified. But, the alternative would be the kink test that's super-duper in depth, which was a bit overwhelming

I took that a loooong time ago. Maybe I should try again

 

[SimonSex]

FWIW: Fairly accurate

 

[jason28053]

I mean .. I suppose he could …but

Ok if I make the question less personal…

How do you think people’s views on their sexuality change over time?

If anyone can answer, I would say I am now more open to many things.

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

If anyone can answer, I would say I am now more open to many things.

Yes please do. Anyone can answer.

Why do you think so?

 

[MindYaBitness]

I took that a loooong time ago. Maybe I should try again

it's fun to take it with a partner, see how you line up. I was bored one night & did a connect-the-kinks between his & mine, it was very telling, almost like a flow chart of why we get on so well

 

[jason28053]

Yes please do. Anyone can answer.

Why do you think so?

Having open discussions here has broadened my perspective and not being closed down to other people’s likes and dislikes.

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

it's fun to take it with a partner, see how you line up. I was bored one night & did a connect-the-kinks between his & mine, it was very telling, almost like a flow chart of why we get on so well

This does sound fun

 

[MindYaBitness]

I mean .. I suppose he could …but

Ok if I make the question less personal…

How do you think people’s views on their sexuality change over time?

I think you become more at peace with yourself, your body, your desires & needs over time. My 18 year old self would never have believed that I'd be more comfortable & confident in this 45 year old body than I ever was when I was young & cute! Plus, when you encounter a community like Lit, and see that you're not alone in your kink or curiosity, it's very empowering

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

I think you become more at peace with yourself, your body, your desires & needs over time. My 18 year old self would never have believed that I'd be more comfortable & confident in this 45 year old body than I ever was when I was young & cute! Plus, when you encounter a community like Lit, and see that you're not alone in your kink or curiosity, it's very empowering

I agree totally. I definitely don’t look like I did in my twenties, but my attitude is more carefree and like oh what the hell, just have fun and stop worrying so much. I wish I could say I was that laissez-faire about all areas of my life.

 

[Mei5ter]

I mean .. I suppose he could …but

Ok if I make the question less personal…

How do you think people’s views on their sexuality change over time?

I would guess that's going to depend on whether your sexuality has also changed over time. Maybe you identified as straight twenty years ago, but today's version of you doesn't? I have no personal experience of that, but I would imagine anyone who has will see this fundamentally differently from me.

My sexuality really hasn't changed much. I have always been this way, and I've come to understand that this is how my wiring has always been configured, for worse or better. I didn't understand that some of the things I needed or wanted had names, or that other people wanted or needed the same things or the mirror image of them. I didn't understand why I wanted things as I did, when some partners simply didn't seem to understand they were things I might want.

That I understand myself better is due to being older, more self-aware, and having access to an Internet where it's possible to read, learn, listen, talk, explore, find out, and meet people who want to do the same things along the way. But deep down? I think I'm still wanting to do the same stuff, in more or less the same way, for more or less the same reasons. There are probably a few tastes I've grown into as I've matured, but with hindsight I think their seed was always there.

It hasn't really been a question of growing in confidence or no longer giving a fuck. But it's been quite nice knowing that my version of sexuality, even if it's a little different from some people's, isn't bad or wrong.

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

It hasn't really been a question of growing in confidence or no longer giving a fuck. But it's been quite nice knowing that my version of sexuality, even if it's a little different from some people's, isn't bad or wrong.

Exactly this. This was one major reason that I sought out Lit and have stayed. I really did think I was a “bad girl or a weird girl”. Not saying those in a sexy way at all. It was like I was different from everyone around me. I tried talking with my girlfriends at the time about some of my interests and quickly learned that this wasn’t a good topic of conversation with them. So when I came here and met people, especially women friends, who didn’t flinch when we discussed these things, it felt so comforting.

 

[cheekygirl75]

I don’t feel this reflects me very well, I have to say… the test was just not in depth enough, I don’t think. Like, how do you get hyposexual? The only question I can think of that applies was if you find sex disgusting. And I disagree that I have a high sex drive, but I definitely don’t find it disgusting! And I think I lean more towards serious relationships rather than one night stands or situationships but I also don’t find them wrong. For other people. And I also would be open to a thruple or something like that, I think. But I still need affection.

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

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I don’t feel this reflects me very well, I have to say… the test was just not in depth enough, I don’t think. Like, how do you get hyposexual? The only question I can think of that applies was if you find sex disgusting. And I disagree that I have a high sex drive, but I definitely don’t find it disgusting! And I think I lean more towards serious relationships rather than one night stands or situationships but I also don’t find them wrong. For other people. And I also would be open to a thruple or something like that, I think. But I still need affection.

Yes the wording on the test was odd for some questions. And it was only maybe 20 or so questions. Maybe a little more.

Thanks for taking it though. I would be interested in other quizzes or questionnaires if anyone has one that they like.

 

[SimonSex]

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I don’t feel this reflects me very well, I have to say… the test was just not in depth enough, I don’t think. Like, how do you get hyposexual? The only question I can think of that applies was if you find sex disgusting. And I disagree that I have a high sex drive, but I definitely don’t find it disgusting! And I think I lean more towards serious relationships rather than one night stands or situationships but I also don’t find them wrong. For other people. And I also would be open to a thruple or something like that, I think. But I still need affection.

I know what you mean by the lack of depth, but appreciate @Love_Is_Blonde for putting it out there for our interest and conversation.
Descriptors such as “disgusting” hit differently with some folks. Also, I’m surprised by my Attraction score, as I’m a raging heterosexual. I do appreciate a good cock, but it’s always mine that I am admiring.
Good night, pervs!

 

[cheekygirl75]

I know what you mean by the lack of depth, but appreciate @Love_Is_Blonde for putting it out there for our interest and conversation.
Descriptors such as “disgusting” hit differently with some folks. Also, I’m surprised by my Attraction score, as I’m a raging heterosexual. I do appreciate a good cock, but it’s always mine that I am admiring.
Good night, pervs!

Oh, I definitely appreciate @Love_Is_Blonde finding it and sharing it! I love taking tests like this, despite thinking this one wasn’t in depth enough. But they’re always fun to try.