FATE is great for narrativists, looking to jointly tell a story. It’s difficult for gamists because it’s pretty loosey-goosey in the rules, so finding mechanical ‘winning strategies’ can be quite challenging. Simulationists have the hardest time with it in my experience. That said, it’s a great system for narrative-heavy groups, pretty smooth, lightweight enough to keep the creativity flowing. IMO, ymmv, ‘course.
Honestly, i don’t think tabletop rpgs are for everyone. Different ways of thinking - not better or worse, just different - affect how much fun you can get up to in such a setting. If they’re not your cuppa tea, ok, hope you can find some other endeavor you can enjoy!
*Unless your kink is vajankles.We don't kink shame
Well... I won't shame but I will moonwalk away.
I have no problem shaming vajankle kinks
Out of curiosity…does that happen often?
Almost never!
Good to know! LOL I often wonder about whether the type of person who can’t resist making the joke has limits that are too much even for them. Your humor is usually right up my alley, but there are a couple litsters I can easily imagine grossing themselves out on the regular
That may be why you’re one of my favorites
Sex and emotions and horror don’t make me uncomfortable, but I do get grossed out easily by certain things 
I've written erotic roleplays with people based in established RPG worlds, though I've not got any of the "officially" published sourcebooks for D&D etc.
If I only had more time
