❓ PLP Inquires II ❓

[dkak001]

What first impression do you think you give off - online and in person?

None. People would have to notice me to first!

How important are first impressions to you? What do you take away from a first impression?

Eh. People have good days and bad days. Unless I'm interviewing you for work, first impressions are a sign, but not the complete picture.

Have you ever made an irreparable first impression? Did you try and fix it?

Not really. I try to be who I am everywhere, and treat people with decency wherever I go. If you don't like me, it's your loss. If one impression ruined it for you, you can just fuck off.

What about sexual first impressions? What first impression do you think you make sexually? That moment you push past flirtation and innuendo and actually get sexy? Do you make a good sexual first impression?

Oh, Wow. It's been soooo long.
I think I used to make a good first impression sexually.

I like flirting and throwing innuendo around now, but at this point I'm not trying to woo anyone sexually. It's fun to be flirtatious, but I don't take it seriously anymore.

What would give you a good first impression of someone else? Have you ever been surprised at someone's sexual first impression - where they were different in the bedroom/e-bedroom than you anticipated?

Just being yourself, and being honest. No one is perfect, and being comfortable with who you are is big.

Can you (or anyone) recover from a bad first sexual impression?

I don't see why not. Unless you are just completely incompatible. There are some match-ups that are bound to fail out of the gate, in those cases let them go.

 

[cheekygirl75]

11.17.25

Impressions

No... not your best celebrity impressions! (But five bonus points if you have a good one!)

What first impression do you think you give off - online and in person?

In person, I’m generally shy and watchful in new social situations. So probably a little aloof. Online, I really have no idea, it entirely depends on what of my posts you encounter first. Some make me seem friendly & a little teasing, some make me seem a little uptight and strait laced I think.

How important are first impressions to you? What do you take away from a first impression?

First impressions have been too important to me in the past - the result of growing up with a mother who is a bit of a snob. I generally take away if it’s someone I want further contact with or not, but I’m honestly not usually very good at reading people so it’s not always accurate.

Do you think you make a good first impression?

Sometimes? I think I give a kind of blank first impression a lot of time & make people either take time to get to know me a bit or just dismiss me out of hand.

Has anyone ever made a terrible first impression with you but won you back later?

Probably, see above about first impressions, but I can’t think of any specific ones. I’ve learned to not put too much stock in my own first impressions, unless it’s something really egregious.

Have you ever made an irreparable first impression? Did you try and fix it?

Probably? I can’t think of any specific ones though, so no idea if I tried to fix it. Not consciously, I don’t think.

How is making a first impression online different from the physical space? Are you better at one than the other?

Yes, because you don’t have body language and as many silences online as there can be in person. If someone’s not posting, they could just be making dinner or something, not sitting there desperately trying to figure out what to say. And you can craft what you say more online. I think I’m probably better online. You usually can’t see all the time I take to observe before diving in online.

What about sexual first impressions? What first impression do you think you make sexually? That moment you push past flirtation and innuendo and actually get sexy? Do you make a good sexual first impression?

I think I either make the impression that I’m uptight or that I’m more into things than I am. I don’t make the first move, so it may seem I’m not interested or that I’m repressed. But if making out starts, I think I give the impression that I’m ready for more when I’m really just really enjoying making out. It’s kind of a problem.

What would give you a good first impression of someone else?

In general - someone who makes a point to include others in whatever is going on. In terms of sexual situations - someone who isn’t pushy, but still makes their interest known.

Have you ever been surprised at someone's sexual first impression - where they were different in the bedroom/e-bedroom than you anticipated?

I can’t think of any specific ones.

Can you (or anyone) recover from a bad first sexual impression?

I would think so. As others have said, the first time with someone new isn’t always great, but as you get to know each other more, you can figure out how to make things better.

 

[Paul_Chance]

Impressions



What first impression do you think you give off - online and

in person?



Yes, I’ve been told I make a good first impression. I’ve been told I come off as calm, confident and compassionate/passionate.



GENERAL

How important are first impressions to you? What do you take away from a first impression?



Personally, I don’t put too much weight on first impressions. I’m more influenced by the totality of another person. Multiple impression in multiple contexts through multiple environments



Has anyone ever made a terrible first impression with you but won you back later?



Yes, several times - that’s why I don’t put too much weight on first impressions.



Have you ever made an irreparable first impression? Did you try and fix it?



Oh yeah, there have been times. I spent years as a cop and I’m sure from their POV many first impressions of me were not good and those impressions I never tried to change. Fiat justitia ruat caelum.



I can think of one occasion when I was younger when I made a correct but bad first impression on someone I grew to like and I did expend some deliberate energy to change their mind by putting my actions/decisions in context. It took a while but it was successful.*



ONLINE

How is making a first impression online different from the physical space? Are you better at one than the other?



If you think of meeting in person as 10 of 10 points, meeting online is initially 1 of 10 points, so I think online first impressions tend to be very inadequate and have a high potential to be just wrong. I think I’m okay in both spheres.



SEXUALLY

What about sexual first impressions? What first impression do you think you make sexually? That moment you push past flirtation and innuendo and actually get sexy? Do you make a good sexual first impression?



I rock.



What would give you a good first impression of someone else?



Grace, confidence and sensuality.



Have you ever been surprised at someone's sexual first impression - where they were different in the bedroom/e-bedroom than you anticipated?



Oh hell yes. Both ways - people who I thought would be “good” as sex but weren’t and vice-versa, people I didn’t expect to be good who were extremely good at sex.



Can you (or anyone) recover from a bad first sexual impression?



Yes, of course. I often equate sex to playing a duet - it takes time and practice to get good at it.



Sorry - no celebrity impressions here, in person or online.



*So this is the long version of “what happened”. I was in college in my early twenties. I met a small group of students from my reservation who were also at the college. Two of them had been friendly in high school so we started hanging out (partying) with them and their friends.



So, one weekend they gathered at a house party. I arrived late, the party was in full swing. I came in. I got a beer. I was introduced to two cute women who were part of my friend’s peer group. I shook hands.



I took a drink. I asked my friends “Is that Jerry So-And-So?” The answer was “Yes.” I said the infamous line - “Hold My Beer.”



Then I walked over and punched Jerry….



He had it coming.



Needless to say, it wasn’t a great first impression, unless the propensity for seemingly random violence is your idea of a good first impression. It took me weeks to repair the bad first impression, which I did, eventually, by making sure the event was in context.



You can decide if the context would change your mind. Jerry was dating my ex-high school sweetheart’s sister. The week before he had physically abused her (beat her up). He was out on bail and had threatened her about testifying against him. I introduced him to a terrible aspect of street justice - you never know where or when it’s going to find you. The Gospel According To Paul.

 

[MrMakersMark]

11.17.25

Impressions

No... not your best celebrity impressions! (But five bonus points if you have a good one!)

What first impression do you think you give off - online and in person?

I honestly have no idea.
These days I mostly post memes and stupid gifs as responses in place of actual words.
So I probably come across as an idiot? I guess?

How important are first impressions to you?

They aren't, really.
I am pretty much the same all the time so impressions dont really matter for me.

What do you take away from a first impression?

Friendly, or not?

Do you think you make a good first impression?

I doubt it?

Has anyone ever made a terrible first impression with you but won you back later?

A time or 2, but over time I typically grow more fond of folks.

Have you ever made an irreparable first impression? Did you try and fix it?

Probably. Almost certainly.
I did. I remember one instance in particular. I just said I was sorry about it and moved on.

How is making a first impression online different from the physical space? Are you better at one than the other?

Better in real life by a mile I think.
I talk less and listen more.
Online communication is seldom face-to-face. It's just text in black and white, which is cold and difficult to gauge sincerity.

What about sexual first impressions? What first impression do you think you make sexually?

Again. Literally no idea.
I probably come across and Male, Old and Hetero. Which sort of sums me up I guess.

That moment you push past flirtation and innuendo and actually get sexy? Do you make a good sexual first impression?

Probably not. Lol!
But it rarely happens anyway.
I just chat and flirt.

What would give you a good first impression of someone else?

Sense of humor.
Being friendly.
Which happily applies to most people I have interacted with here.

Have you ever been surprised at someone's sexual first impression - where they were different in the bedroom/e-bedroom than you anticipated?

Can't speak to it.

Can you (or anyone) recover from a bad first sexual impression?

A genuine person can recover from a bad first impression.
Most people will give more than one chance if you are genuine and their likes and dislikes line up with yours.

Perfect people do not exist.

 

[morelikeasong]

11.17.25

Impressions

No... not your best celebrity impressions! (But five bonus points if you have a good one!)

What first impression do you think you give off - online and in person?

Playful, friendly, flirtatious (more online but also in person)

How important are first impressions to you?

Not super important

What do you take away from a first impression?

If someone has a sense of humor and if I get a bad feeling about them. If they have a good sense of humor, I will gravitate toward them in the future.
I don’t put a lot of stock in first impressions but I do listen to my gut when I get a bad feeling about someone, which isn’t very often.

Do you think you make a good first impression?

I think I do okay, usually.
Unless you ask me 2hrs after the interaction when my social anxiety sets in. Then, I’ll tell you that I made a horrible impression and everyone hates me.

Has anyone ever made a terrible first impression with you but won you back later?

Probably. I generally give people space and opportunity to be better than I think they are.

Have you ever made an irreparable first impression? Did you try and fix it?

Nothing comes to mind but if I ever felt like I really made that bad of an impression, I’d probably just cut my losses.

How is making a first impression online different from the physical space? Are you better at one than the other?

I don’t usually flash my tits at people when I meet them in person. But they do get to see the cleavage IRL… so it probably evens out

What about sexual first impressions? What first impression do you think you make sexually? That moment you push past flirtation and innuendo and actually get sexy?

I think I am super bold with flirtation and innuendo and then conversely timid when the line is being crossed. Maybe? I don’t know.

Do you make a good sexual first impression?

Duh.

What would give you a good first impression of someone else?

Confidence. Taking the lead. Making me squirmy.

Have you ever been surprised at someone's sexual first impression - where they were different in the bedroom/e-bedroom than you anticipated?

Yes. I’ve been surprised IRL and online.

Can you (or anyone) recover from a bad first sexual impression?

Definitely. First encounters can be clumsy. Not sure if they could recover from a bad second impression though.

 

[AtramentousRex]

What first impression do you think you give off - online and in person?
I used to think that my first impression was usually bad. I think over the years, with enough customer service jobs, I actually quite well. I can be temporarily confident, funny, even charming. For a couple of hours at any rate.

How important are first impressions to you?
Most people lie and pretend, projecting an image that is more like a 'brand' of themselves than anything remotely close to who they are. First impressions are almost always utter bullshit.

What do you take away from a first impression?
I try to look beneath the surface flash and get some hint to the real person underneath. Mostly its about determining whether I catch a glimpse of something worth putting in the time to learn about.

Do you think you make a good first impression?
It very much depends on the type of personality I encounter, but sometimes.

Has anyone ever made a terrible first impression with you but won you back later?
Very rarely and its usually been because they had more social anxiety than I do. Or they were having a bad day

Have you ever made an irreparable first impression?
I'm certain I have. I've even made bad second impressions. With people in this very thread, most likely.

Did you try and fix it?
I always try, but consistently fail and eventually I learned that if it doesn't work out the first time, it likely will not work for the same reasons the next time. (once again, people in the thread lol)

How is making a first impression online different from the physical space?
In real life, I have never had the luxury of being open and vulnerable. I trust people online in a way I just cannot in person. Most of my life has been spent around just, bad, dangerous people. But I also am very big and have a kind of presence that doesn't seem to translate on the internet.

Are you better at one than the other?
I think I'm better with my voice than text. I'm difficult to understand either way, but in person at least my facial expressions and your non-verbal signs tell me when I've become too weird.

What about sexual first impressions?
I havent had much in person sex. Its been so many years I can't really say. Online it has been a long while but I've received good feedback.

What first impression do you think you make sexually?
Once again, there hasn't been much. I've always tried to learn about what my partner wants and likes and if they have a critique, even if it DOES hurt my tender feelings, I try to do better.

That moment you push past flirtation and innuendo and actually get sexy? Do you make a good sexual first impression?
Hell if I know. You'd have to ask my former partners and see what they say. That's all that matters anyway. I think they have usually been surprised at how passionate I can be.

What would give you a good first impression of someone else?
Intelligence (not to be confused with education), humor, open mind, kindness and deep warmth. All the good and wonderful things about a sweet, nurturing person makes my cock throb. It makes me want to make them cum.

Have you ever been surprised at someone's sexual first impression - where they were different in the bedroom/e-bedroom than you anticipated?
Not really? I'll be honest, most of us here have the same kinks and sex drive, if not the same experience/skill level. And I have only ever gotten laid from Lit. So...yeah.

Can you (or anyone) recover from a bad first sexual impression?
If there is reason enough to try, yes. Sometimes the relationship starts off sexual but then the people realize they make better friends. It also depends on how both their lives are going. If you have a middle class, secure, stable lifestyle and your friend is on the edge all the time, the two of you may be too different to fit.

 

[seela]

What first impression do you think you give off - online and in person?
I used to think that my first impression was usually bad. I think over the years, with enough customer service jobs, I actually quite well. I can be temporarily confident, funny, even charming. For a couple of hours at any rate.

I thought about writing about this in my answer but decided to skip it, so thanks for bringing this up!

I found this extremely relatable. My first impression at work is very different than my first impression elsewhere.

At work I have a work persona that is confident, open and gives presentations, leads people, has an opinion, takes a stand, isn’t afraid of everything and, foremost, everyone. In the rest of my life I’m everything but that.

I kind of wish I could make some aspects of my work persona a part of my real persona. It’d make things easier, those work persona things probably wouldn’t feel so difficult to do at work, either, if they weren’t kind of this separate bubble.

Self improvement though? Too much work for my lazy ass. I’ll just keep bumbling along.

 

[Paul_Chance]

I thought about writing about this in my answer but decided to skip it, so thanks for bringing this up!

I found this extremely relatable. My first impression at work is very different than my first impression elsewhere.

At work I have a work persona that is confident, open and gives presentations, leads people, has an opinion, takes a stand, isn’t afraid of everything and, foremost, everyone. In the rest of my life I’m everything but that.

I kind of wish I could make some aspects of my work persona a part of my real persona. It’d make things easier, those work persona things probably wouldn’t feel so difficult to do at work, either, if they weren’t kind of this separate bubble.

Self improvement though? Too much work for my lazy ass. I’ll just keep bumbling along.

That would be my question Seela - can you take your “work persona” into your off work environments? Is there something stopping you?

(Years ago I made the conscious decision to integrate my work self and my off work self, to merge the elements. In hindsight it was one of the better life decisions I made. It wasn’t easy, but it was worth it).

 

[Dribble]

So many questions...but the answer to the important ones boil down to the same answer. I am who I am...no matter where I am...or what i am doing. I don't have a persona. Just me being me. This makes many uncomfortable...they don't like honesty. I am too old and tired to jump through hoops...so I really don't care what others think of me. I actually am happier living with no drama.

Impression of others? Life has taught me I am pretty good at reading people. Sure...I have been wrong...but it is rare.

Sexually? I don't know? No one has ever complained. With time...people share their deeper needs...or fantasies. Guess that makes me trustable? Isn't that what really matters? What you really want? To feel seen...wanted...to want someone know those deeper things? Why have those thoughts if they can't be had?

 

[seela]

That would be my question Seela - can you take your “work persona” into your off work environments? Is there something stopping you?

(Years ago I made the conscious decision to integrate my work self and my off work self, to merge the elements. In hindsight it was one of the better life decisions I made. It wasn’t easy, but it was worth it).

That’s a good question. I don’t really feel myself when I’m at work and it is often a little tiring. It’d be even more tiring to be like that elsewhere than at work, too, so I suppose that’s why I don’t want to be “work seela” outside work.

It would be nice if I could magically incorporate some aspects into my “everyday seela” without feeling like I’m putting on an act. But doing that without magic probably would require years of therapy, soul searching and slow progress, so it feels like too much work for too little pay off in the end.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

11.17.25

Impressions

What first impression do you think you give off - online and in person?

I’m a bit more reserved in person. Like I can be chatty at a bar or something like that and I think imma good time in such situations, I’ve learned to mask the autistic nerdiness for the most part. But those are almost inevitably single serving friends (as the narrator says) and I rarely leave them wanting to follow up with someone and presume that is mutual.

Online it sorta depends on when you meet me . I think I’m mostly fun and a laugh riot but I also think I got a bit of rep as a troublemaker. So

How important are first impressions to you?What do you take away from a first impression? Do you think you make a good first impression? Has anyone ever made a terrible first impression with you but won you back later? Have you ever made an irreparable first impression? Did you try and fix it? How is making a first impression online different from the physical space? Are you better at one than the other?

Vibes matter a lot to me. It’s not important what in particular someone says or does or did they’re suave or awkward or anything like that. But just are they a cool person? Vibes dictate my desire to follow-up a lot. There’s a lot of call on people’s time, it’s impossible to get to know the true and deep wonderful human everyone is . I’m okay with taking what impression I get and living with it.

And I’m okay if I get the impression I like someone more than they like me after a couple interactions. I don’t need to force it.

That being said I’m usually open to being proven wrong about bad vibes if someone else is more interested than I am initially. I have been wrong before .

What about sexual first impressions? What first impression do you think you make sexually? That moment you push past flirtation and innuendo and actually get sexy? Do you make a good sexual first impression? What would give you a good first impression of someone else? Have you ever been surprised at someone's sexual first impression - where they were different in the bedroom/e-bedroom than you anticipated? Can you (or anyone) recover from a bad first sexual impression?

My experience here is very limited. I got no idea. Casual sex is a thing I can fantasize about but the thought of it in reality makes my skin crawl. Sooooo I guess I’d say I’m good because I don’t generally reach that point until the person I’m with is good? And we have a good sense of each other?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

11.17.25

Impressions

No... not your best celebrity impressions! (But five bonus points if you have a good one!)

What first impression do you think you give off - online and in person?
How important are first impressions to you? What do you take away from a first impression? Do you think you make a good first impression? Has anyone ever made a terrible first impression with you but won you back later? Have you ever made an irreparable first impression? Did you try and fix it? How is making a first impression online different from the physical space? Are you better at one than the other?

I think I give off an inconsistent first impression. It fully depends on what's going on and if I'm prepared to make a first impression, especially in person. I'm generally warm and nice enough but I'm a fairly observant person so I'm always kind of taking my cues from the other person. To my knowledge, I'm never just ruined a first impression but people can take away different impressions of me depending on circumstances. I can be a bit shy when I'm solo in social circumstances but if I have one person with me or the conversation touches on something I'm interested in, then I can get a toe hold. Online impressions are easier because they have the benefit of a moment to think or the ability to come back to it when you are feeling more social. Which am I better at? Hmm... I really don't know! Probably in person?

First impressions of others are just that, the first impression. Just like I'll try a food I didn't like more than once, I'll probably give most people a second chance. We all have off days. Now, if someone comes being a total creep, asshole, loud mouth troll, etc.... I probably will be less likely to waste my time unless there is some acknowledgement that they understand they made a mistake the first time. With people I just trust my gut. She has a 99.9% accuracy rate and I always regret not just going with her in the beginning.

What about sexual first impressions? What first impression do you think you make sexually? That moment you push past flirtation and innuendo and actually get sexy? Do you make a good sexual first impression? What would give you a good first impression of someone else? Have you ever been surprised at someone's sexual first impression - where they were different in the bedroom/e-bedroom than you anticipated? Can you (or anyone) recover from a bad first sexual impression?

What is my first sexual impression? I have no clue how I actually come off but I can tell you what I'm aiming for - eager, enthusiastic, curious, open. I try to be not only consistent from online to in person but from flirtation to actual sexy time. I aim for exceeding expectations not shocking or disappointing anyone. I have been surprised sexually by people - usually in a good way but there have been a time or two when someone's done a lot of talking up front, set a lot of expectations, and then they didn't quite deliver in the moment. I can usually chalk that up to nerves or learning a new person but sometimes you can just tell they don't quite know what they are doing. But usually it's a good surprise, especially when you know one side of person for a long time and you get to see a new side of person after a long time.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

11.22.25

Black Friday Question Bonanza (5 now 5 later)

Ok I have a few half-cocked questions on my list that I don't think will be good as a part of a larger discussion but might be fun one by one.

1. If you have describe your current love/sex life as any trope what would it be? (i.e. damsel in distress, enemies to lovers, rags to riches)

2. If you got to have one fantasy item from literature or movies, what would you choose and why? (i.e. memory eraser from Men In Black)

3. Where in your body do you feel your feelings? Does it change depending on the emotion? How good are you at talking about your feelings?

4. How important is public validation and/or PDA to you?

5. How good are you at picking up subtleties? Do you give subtle hints or just say everything bluntly?

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

11.22.25

Black Friday Question Bonanza (5 now 5 later)

Ok I have a few half-cocked questions on my list that I don't think will be good as a part of a larger discussion but might be fun one by one.

1. If you have describe your current love/sex life as any trope what would it be? (i.e. damsel in distress, enemies to lovers, rags to riches)

I don’t know Tropes well so I was on TV Tropes and this ain’t it but it makes me laugh

2. If you got to have one fantasy item from literature or movies, what would you choose and why? (i.e. memory eraser from Men In Black)

But seriously, I’d probably go with a Ring of Regeneration.

3. Where in your body do you feel your feelings? Does it change depending on the emotion? How good are you at talking about your feelings?

Oh man, I never STFU about my feelings. My long suffering wife and children.

But that’s a relatively recent evolution. In my youth I definitely carried my anger/stress/anxiety in my shoulders and neck. As you do. I one had a neck crick that lasted MONTHS!

4. How important is public validation and/or PDA to you?

Kinda important. I’m effusive. I need you to be on my level.

5. How good are you at picking up subtleties? Do you give subtle hints or just say everything bluntly?

Childhood drama checking in. I’m great at picking up on negative vibes. Less good at positive ones.

I’m pretty blunt. If I care that you know. I guess. I don’t need to explain everything to everybody.

This post aside

 

[Dribble]

There is a story....true....

I place 20 people into a room. I walk in....interact with each person differently. Some...quite differently. I then do something totally unexpected in front of everyone. We immediately separate the 20 people without allowing them to talk to each other....and what do we get? 20 different stories...20 different explanations of what occurred. 20 different perceptions. None of them....complete. All of them biased by how we first interacted.

Now...comes the fun part...those perceptions are the building blocks for each person's reality. But...their reality...may not be real....or truthful...or factual. But to that person...is their reality any less real than another person's reality? Reality...may not be a good indicator of what really happened

This is why eye witness accounts mean nothing in a Courtroom. Because our perception...our reality...may not be real. None of those 20 people know me. Or can make a fair judgement on who I am. How can anyone online know me? They know only what I show...purposely...or unconsciously. Same is true in real life.

 

[Dribble]

Lol....half-cocked....as to being half full-cocked? So....is that 2 cocks? Or 3? Just asking for a friend

 

[UsuallyPresent]

PrettyLilPussy19
11.22.25
1. If you have describe your current love/sex life as any trope what would it be? (i.e. damsel in distress, enemies to lovers, rags to riches)

Pink Floyd, Comfortably Numb


2. If you got to have one fantasy item from literature or movies, what would you choose and why? (i.e. memory eraser from Men In Black)


If I could safely use it, a Lensman's Lens would be great choice.


3. Where in your body do you feel your feelings? Does it change depending on the emotion? How good are you at talking about your feelings?


Varies. Chills, muscle tension in various areas, agida, breathing, sharper/duller senses, etc all occur. Different emotions in different contexts at different times might feel different - or not. It's generally obvious to me what emotions drive current feelings. I'm pretty good at recognizing them but tend only to share with friends, very not into performing for the world.


4. How important is public validation and/or PDA to you?


I'm pretty huggy, hand-holding, snuggly. External validation beyond the relationship isn't important to me, but sharing within the relationship is.

5. How good are you at picking up subtleties? Do you give subtle hints or just say everything bluntly?

Both have their places & times, IMO. I tend to prefer overly clear to uncertainty tho and have 'stepped in it' more than once.[/color][/color]

 

[MissSNG]

11.22.25

Black Friday Question Bonanza (5 now 5 later)

Ok I have a few half-cocked questions on my list that I don't think will be good as a part of a larger discussion but might be fun one by one.

Oooh! Good questions! Let’s goooo

1. If you have describe your current love/sex life as any trope what would it be? (i.e. damsel in distress, enemies to lovers, rags to riches)

Is neglected wife a trope?
Love life things are okay, a little complicated but okay
Sex life is just non-existent :/

2. If you got to have one fantasy item from literature or movies, what would you choose and why? (i.e. memory eraser from Men In Black)

Time turner from Harry Potter, please and thank you

3. Where in your body do you feel your feelings? Does it change depending on the emotion? How good are you at talking about your feelings?

Or definitely changes depending on the feels!
Negative emotions I feel in my muscles, in tension. Happy feels are like oxygen to my lungs, fresh breath, lightness and warmth.

I probably talk about my feelings too much

4. How important is public validation and/or PDA to you?

Very, I’m an insecure little thing and I need those little touches to make me feel wanted

5. How good are you at picking up subtleties? Do you give subtle hints or just say everything bluntly?

Not good at all!!!!!! I need you to tell me flat out how you’re feeling/what you want or I’ll be clueless.

My own bluntness vs subtlety would depend on the situation and relationship with the other person.
It can be fun to drop breadcrumbs just to test things out and see if they pick up on it but if I feel really strongly about something or someone then I’m going to be blunt and just say the thing

 

[Paul_Chance]

11.22.25

Black Friday Question Bonanza (5 now 5 later)

Ok I have a few half-cocked questions on my list that I don't think will be good as a part of a larger discussion but might be fun one by one.

1. If you have describe your current love/sex life as any trope what would it be? (i.e. damsel in distress, enemies to lovers, rags to riches)

2. If you got to have one fantasy item from literature or movies, what would you choose and why? (i.e. memory eraser from Men In Black)

3. Where in your body do you feel your feelings? Does it change depending on the emotion? How good are you at talking about your feelings?

4. How important is public validation and/or PDA to you?

5. How good are you at picking up subtleties? Do you give subtle hints or just say everything bluntly?

1. Strangers in the Night
2. One Ring To Rule Them All!
3. Neck and Shoulders. Yes, it changes depending on the emotion. I am very open with my feelings and express them often and well.
4. PDA and public validation are nice, but not necessary..
5. Very good. Yes, I give subtle hints when I think they'll be read, otherwise I am direct and gentle. (Not blunt.)

 

[TomTeacher19]

11.22.25

Black Friday Question Bonanza (5 now 5 later)

Ok I have a few half-cocked questions on my list that I don't think will be good as a part of a larger discussion but might be fun one by one.

1. If you have describe your current love/sex life as any trope what would it be? (i.e. damsel in distress, enemies to lovers, rags to riches)

Misery builds character

2. If you got to have one fantasy item from literature or movies, what would you choose and why? (i.e. memory eraser from Men In Black)

Yaka arrow

3. Where in your body do you feel your feelings? Does it change depending on the emotion? How good are you at talking about your feelings?

My gut. Yes I'm good at talking about feelings. Some might say too good

4. How important is public validation and/or PDA to you?

I don't need PDA. It's our relationship and if it works for us, then it works for us. But I do love hugs in general

5. How good are you at picking up subtleties? Do you give subtle hints or just say everything bluntly?

If I am paying attention at all I pick them up pretty well but I also feel that too often I am already a million miles away and missing everything

 

[Dribble]

Lol....half-cocked....as to being half full-cocked? So....is that 2 cocks? Or 3? Just asking for a friend

I really was wishing...I wish i may...I wish i might...first star i see tonight...that if this was a little too much for PLP to share openly...I would get a nice story in my PM. But alas...guess it is just my imagination and fuck....that's always wrong in reading things...

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I really was wishing...I wish i may...I wish i might...first star i see tonight...that if this was a little too much for PLP to share openly...I would get a nice story in my PM. But alas...guess it is just my imagination and fuck....that's always wrong in reading things...

If I decide to go double cocked anytime soon, Ill put you at the top of the list Drib.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

11.22.25

Black Friday Question Bonanza (5 now 5 later)

Ok I have a few half-cocked questions on my list that I don't think will be good as a part of a larger discussion but might be fun one by one.

1. If you have describe your current love/sex life as any trope what would it be? (i.e. damsel in distress, enemies to lovers, rags to riches)

The peaked-in-high-school (well, maybe college), Al Bundy type, stuck in mediocrity, reliving the glory days of his youth.

2. If you got to have one fantasy item from literature or movies, what would you choose and why? (i.e. memory eraser from Men In Black)

Does the Fountain of Youth count as an item? I'll take one of those.

3. Where in your body do you feel your feelings? Does it change depending on the emotion? How good are you at talking about your feelings?

It changes depending on the emotions. Some feelings (anger, disappointment, anxiety) tend to be more head feelings. Some (love, heartbreak, jealousy) are more heart feelings. Some, like dread, are stomach feelings. And some are dick feelings. I usually like those ones.

4. How important is public validation and/or PDA to you?

Physical touch is VERY important, but it doesn't have to be public. I'm not opposed, but I don't need it either. As long as there's plenty of touch in private, I'm good.

5. How good are you at picking up subtleties? Do you give subtle hints or just say everything bluntly?

I'm okay at giving subtle hints. I'm terrible at picking up on them. When in doubt, just assume I want to see your titties.

 

[Dribble]

If I decide to go double cocked anytime soon, Ill put you at the top of the list Drib.

I am making pecan pie...I bought a frozen pumpkin one...but gotta make the pecan one from scratch. That's a Thursday morning chore.

 

[seela]

11.22.25

Black Friday Question Bonanza (5 now 5 later)

Ok I have a few half-cocked questions on my list that I don't think will be good as a part of a larger discussion but might be fun one by one.

1. If you have describe your current love/sex life as any trope what would it be? (i.e. damsel in distress, enemies to lovers, rags to riches)

The one where a woman takes her glasses off and suddenly the protagonist finds her hot.

2. If you got to have one fantasy item from literature or movies, what would you choose and why? (i.e. memory eraser from Men In Black)

I’ve mentioned the Men In Black memory eraser on many a Lit post, so that’d absolutely be my pick. It’d delete the bad things from my memory, but it’d also allow me to experience cool things for the first time several times.

3. Where in your body do you feel your feelings? Does it change depending on the emotion? How good are you at talking about your feelings?

Stomach and knees/thighs depending on the feeling. Irritation lives in my eyebrows/forehead. I’m pretty good at talking about my positive feelings, but my negative feelings I bottle up with most people. The pic below I took at a museum in Krakow sums it up perfectly for me.

4. How important is public validation and/or PDA to you?

Not important at all.

5. How good are you at picking up subtleties? Do you give subtle hints or just say everything bluntly?

Not very good and I’m not good at hinting either. I think my hints are crystal clear but usually they go unnoticed. Of course there’s a possibility that people do notice, but actively choose to ignore them and not act upon my hints, and that thought…wow.

If I want to be sure I’m understood, I’m quite direct. I don’t think I’m necessarily blunt, though.