❓ PLP Inquires II ❓

[cheekygirl75]

11.22.25

Black Friday Question Bonanza (5 now 5 later)

Ok I have a few half-cocked questions on my list that I don't think will be good as a part of a larger discussion but might be fun one by one.

1. If you have describe your current love/sex life as any trope what would it be? (i.e. damsel in distress, enemies to lovers, rags to riches)

Is the Invisible Man a trope? Or the Invisible Sex Life?

2. If you got to have one fantasy item from literature or movies, what would you choose and why? (i.e. memory eraser from Men In Black)

A transporter

3. Where in your body do you feel your feelings? Does it change depending on the emotion? How good are you at talking about your feelings?

It depends on the emotion - my shoulders/neck, my stomach, my cheeks (embarrassment)

4. How important is public validation and/or PDA to you?

I’m not big on PDA. I couldn’t be with someone who was really into it, I don’t think. A little is ok, but a very little. So not important.

5. How good are you at picking up subtleties? Do you give subtle hints or just say everything bluntly?

I’m bad at picking them up when they’re directed towards me half the time. The other half, I’m way too in tune with them and get flustered. I try to give subtle hints, but I’ve been told they’re so subtle as to be nonexistent. Sometimes I’m blunt - usually after having a drink or two, or sometimes when things just get on my nerves and saying something directly will clear things up.

 

[Cindy027]

1. If you have describe your current love/sex life as any trope what would it be? (i.e. damsel in distress, enemies to lovers, rags to riches)

Friends to lovers although it was a short friendship.

2. If you got to have one fantasy item from literature or movies, what would you choose and why? (i.e. memory eraser from Men In Black)

The ability to manipulate time relative to me.

3. Where in your body do you feel your feelings? Does it change depending on the emotion? How good are you at talking about your feelings?

Anxiety - Stomach, Anger - head and shoulders, Fear - hands and legs, Happiness - mouth and eyes.

I can discuss my feelings openly with people I trust.

4. How important is public validation and/or PDA to you?

Not important, PDA would be nice but for the world we live in, there is always the one person that has a problem.

5. How good are you at picking up subtleties? Do you give subtle hints or just say everything bluntly?

I need a PowerPoint presentation with full animation. I have been told I am blunt but I just see myself as honest and to the point

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

11.22.25

Black Friday Question Bonanza (5 now 5 later)

Ok I have a few half-cocked questions on my list that I don't think will be good as a part of a larger discussion but might be fun one by one.

<insert cock algebra>

1. If you have describe your current love/sex life as any trope what would it be? (i.e. damsel in distress, enemies to lovers, rags to riches)

friends to lovers (+uno reverse)

2. If you got to have one fantasy item from literature or movies, what would you choose and why? (i.e. memory eraser from Men In Black)

Probably the Time Turner from Harry Potter - undo bad decisions, relive good decisions, extra sleep

3. Where in your body do you feel your feelings? Does it change depending on the emotion? How good are you at talking about your feelings?

Mostly straight in my heart. It does fun flippy flops when things are good, it physically aches when things are bad, it races when I'm anxious.
I am pretty good at talking about my feelings once I've sorted them out. I like people who can talk about hard things in a constructive way.

4. How important is public validation and/or PDA to you?

Gosh, everyone's answers has me feeling a little self conscious. While I don't need a lot, and I don't want to be the center of attention, public validation is important to me at work, school, etc. I think it's important as a manager to do that for people at my work, be acknowledged and seen for hard work is important. PDA is also a little important to me. I know why and I don't want forced weird groping and pawing but I do want to feel like the person I'm with isn't embarrassed to be seen with me.

5. How good are you at picking up subtleties? Do you give subtle hints or just say everything bluntly?

I'm an overthinker. I pick up on subtleties you didn't even know where there!
I like to start subtle and move to more blunt. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt that they've hurt my feelings, crossed a line, or found something I really like. Picking up on subtleties may be a green flag for me? Hmm But I also find sexual bluntness deeply erotic. I contain multitudes.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

Gosh, everyone's answers has me feeling a little self conscious. While I don't need a lot, and I don't want to be the center of attention, public validation is important to me at work, school, etc. I think it's important as a manager to do that for people at my work, be acknowledged and seen for hard work is important. PDA is also a little important to me. I know why and I don't want forced weird groping and pawing but I do want to feel like the person I'm with isn't embarrassed to be seen with me.

I think we're working off two different ideas of PDA. I'm thinking more, "Let's play tonsil hockey and give each other over-the-clothes handjobs while we're in line at Starbucks." I don't need that. "Isn't embarrassed to be seen with me" is more holding hands, occasional little kisses, and just generally being together in a nice way. I'm 100% on board with that.

 

[MindYaBitness]

11.22.25

Black Friday Question Bonanza (5 now 5 later)

Ok I have a few half-cocked questions on my list that I don't think will be good as a part of a larger discussion but might be fun one by one.

1. If you have describe your current love/sex life as any trope what would it be? (i.e. damsel in distress, enemies to lovers, rags to riches)

Friends to lover, or the good girl & the bad boy

2. If you got to have one fantasy item from literature or movies, what would you choose and why? (i.e. memory eraser from Men In Black)

Time travel

3. Where in your body do you feel your feelings? Does it change depending on the emotion? How good are you at talking about your feelings?

depends on the feeling. Stress, neck & shoulders. Anger, upper chest. Passion, embarrassment, or fear, in my gut.

I may be too good at talking about my feelings. If I can't put a name to them, I'll diagram them. The biproduct of having a psychologist as a parent is living perpetually frustrated in a world of people that were never tought to effectively communicate their feelings, or who are too scared to even face them.

4. How important is public validation and/or PDA to you?

Very important. I'm not saying that we need to suck face in public or write effusive posts on social media, but being acknowledged is important. Just holding hands, a kiss on the cheek, or putting your hand on my lower back, makes me feel secure in our relationship and signals to others that we're an item. I'm creepy old man candy, so seeing my partner lay claim in a public way keeps the creeps at bay.

5. How good are you at picking up subtleties? Do you give subtle hints or just say everything bluntly?

Not particularly, but that's on purpose. I decided long ago that I was going to take people's words at face value to save myself from the "what did they really mean" over thinking trap. Those who know me well know that I'm most receptive to straightforward people.

I'm not blunt, but I'm direct. You can say exactly what you mean, but also be kind.

 

[Apisto42]

11.22.25

Black Friday Question Bonanza (5 now 5 later)

Ok I have a few half-cocked questions on my list that I don't think will be good as a part of a larger discussion but might be fun one by one.

1. If you have describe your current love/sex life as any trope what would it be? (i.e. damsel in distress, enemies to lovers, rags to riches)

I’d have a better chance of getting laid if I crawled up a chicken’s butt and waited.

2. If you got to have one fantasy item from literature or movies, what would you choose and why? (i.e. memory eraser from Men In Black)

Vaporizer gun. Saw it in some B sci-fi movie.

Why? Because people.

3. Where in your body do you feel your feelings? Does it change depending on the emotion? How good are you at talking about your feelings?

My nuts. Specifically when I know something bad is about to happen.

Talking about feelings? Fuck that shit. I’m genX. We were raised to repress that shit and cook dinner when we were 8.

4. How important is public validation and/or PDA to you?

If I’m with my love I don’t care if we’re in public. There’s going to be hand holding, kissing, maybe a little tongue.

5. How good are you at picking up subtleties? Do you give subtle hints or just say everything bluntly?

I used to give a shit and be subtle. Now I’m just blunt and find subtle hints to be really fucking annoying.

 

[Apisto42]

I'm creepy old man candy …

I know I’m old, but did you really need to call me “creepy”?

 

[Dribble]

I know I’m old, but did you really need to call me “creepy”?

But she is candy...kinda like this...which really shows my age...

 

[UsuallyPresent]

But she is candy...kinda like this...which really shows my age...

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

12.15.25

What are non-sexual things men/women do that turn you on?

 

[UsuallyPresent]

Stop and think

 

[Guffawlin]

Remind me to be playful.

 

[cheekygirl75]

12.15.25

What are non-sexual things men/women do that turn you on?

I know someone somewhere said it better than me, but doing anything really well is a turn on. You can fix a car well? Let me watch! You can make toothpicks well? Let me watch that, too! Doesn't matter what it is, if you're really good at something, and especially if you really enjoy it as well, I want to see it!

 

[Dribble]

Smile like you really know me when I enter the room.

 

[Apisto42]

12.15.25

What are non-sexual things men/women do that turn you on?

A giggle. Playing with her hair without thinking about it. A witty sarcastic comment off the cuff. An eyebrow raise at someone playing the fool.

 

[MindYaBitness]

12.15.25

What are non-sexual things men/women do that turn you on?

When I see a competent, confident guy, speak up on behalf of people he could easily disregard, it's hot AF. Being polite to wait staff? Calling out a bully? Not letting the woman in the meeting be talked over? Sploosh

 

[Apisto42]

Random typos are hot.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Random typos are hot.

Typos are how I flert

 

[MrMakersMark]

12.15.25

What are non-sexual things men/women do that turn you on?

Hmmm...
Slowly take cookies out of the oven?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

When I see a competent, confident guy, speak up on behalf of people he could easily disregard, it's hot AF. Being polite to wait staff? Calling out a bully? Not letting the woman in the meeting be talked over? Sploosh

Treating service people well and being a good tipper.

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

Basic kindness, a woman's grace, a fondness and connection with nature and wildlife, empathy. That shit turns me on.. I don't need fancy or sexy.. I need warmth, wholesomeness and tenderness.
(But lets be honest, I am kind of a weirdo)

 

[CuriousCat89]

12.15.25

What are non-sexual things men/women do that turn you on?

Proactively take care of things around the house. I don’t mean power washing the driveway. I mean clean up some of the ‘piles’. Vacuum. Dust. Anything proactive that ‘men’ (#notallmen) think magically get done.
If more men realized this, there would be a lot more sex happening.

Also, smelling clean. Being clean. Clean.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Treating service people well and being a good tipper.

You know how some countries have compulsory military service? I think the US should have a requirement that everyone should have to be bank tellers on a Friday, wait staff on a Saturday rush, retail workers during the holidays, etc. I think it would help greatly with the huge patience, kindness, and compassion deficit we have in our culture.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

You know how some countries have compulsory military service? I think the US should have a requirement that everyone should have to be bank tellers on a Friday, wait staff on a Saturday rush, retail workers during the holidays, etc. I think it would help greatly with the huge patience, kindness, and compassion deficit we have in our culture.

I so agree! Being a waitress will change your perspective on so much.

 

[cheekygirl75]

You know how some countries have compulsory military service? I think the US should have a requirement that everyone should have to be bank tellers on a Friday, wait staff on a Saturday rush, retail workers during the holidays, etc. I think it would help greatly with the huge patience, kindness, and compassion deficit we have in our culture.

@MindYaBitness for President! Brilliant plan.