❓ PLP Inquires II ❓

06.07.22

What's a career that you know you'd be awful at but you still want to try? What's a career you'd try just to know the professional secrets?
Airline pilot. I'm clumsy and have slow reactions and I wouldn't fit in the cockpit very well, but I love planes. Pastry chef would be cool to know how they make everything so perfect.
 
To each his or her own, but "titty fucking" doesn't seem like it would feel as good as it appears. I get that it might all be mentally arousing though.
I agree, from the male viewpoint. My gf likes it far more than I do. It's awkward and doesn't feel that great to me. 🤷
 
If she is into it...so am I. Just because I didn't think highly of it before means nothing in the present.

Those that close doors based on a different time's experience are really missing out on what makes life great
 
If she is into it...so am I. Just because I didn't think highly of it before means nothing in the present.

Those that close doors based on a different time's experience are really missing out on what makes life great
It's okay not to be into something. And you don't even have to try everything in order to not be into it. It doesn't make your life less fulfilling, or "great". Sometimes, some things are really that simple.
 
I agree with others 69 Too much sensation going on for either to get the best enjoyment has been my experience. Always worked better when I went down on her .... so got her ecstasy (a true lover always makes sure cums first) then she can reciprocate.
 
It's okay not to be into something. And you don't even have to try everything in order to not be into it. It doesn't make your life less fulfilling, or "great". Sometimes, some things are really that simple.
It is just sometimes...people can surprise themselves. It isn't what is out there...or what you do that matters...it is who you do it with.
 
It is just sometimes...people can surprise themselves. It isn't what is out there...or what you do that matters...it is who you do it with.
i agree with this - things that were awful with one person or didn't work, can turn out to be wonderful with a different person. Obviously you would want to have some conversations about stepping into activities that you did not enjoy in the past, but I have been surprised more than once when I decided to revisit an activity that was not super awesome the first time.
 
06.29.22

How easily do you change your opinions about something or someone? Do you stick with your gut? Do you need tons of evidence to sway you? Do ever examine your opinions?
 
06.29.22

How easily do you change your opinions about something or someone? Do you stick with your gut? Do you need tons of evidence to sway you? Do ever examine your opinions?
I'm pretty good at reading people, although that certainly wasn't always the case.
For the 'somethings' rather than the 'someones', I am constantly reexamining my opinions, and constantly having them challenged (hi, @AveryElle!). I'm bright enough to know that I don't know much, and that there's always something else I can learn. Admittedly, this sometimes involves painful hits to my ego, but that's just how it goes. I'm very much a work-in-progress, and I don't see that changing any time soon.
 
06.29.22

How easily do you change your opinions about something or someone? Do you stick with your gut? Do you need tons of evidence to sway you? Do ever examine your opinions?
I can change my opinion if evidence is to the contrary of what I have. But the bar is high.

I wouldn't say my intuition is bad. In fact, it is seldom wrong. My problem is I don't want to listen to it. So yea, I examine my opinions frequently.

From the outside, I can see others thinking I changed my opinion about someone. The reality, is I closed the door and determined they just aren't worth fighting with.

I have seen similar questions here before. So I am going to make some assumptions. Family are fucking hard to deal with. I throw up walls. I tear them down. I question why I tore them down. I throw them up. I finally realized I needed to be more balanced in how dealt with them. For some odd reason...I didn't know I didn't have to be an all or nothing person when it came to them. Boundaries...are a good thing.
 
06.29.22

How easily do you change your opinions about something or someone? Do you stick with your gut? Do you need tons of evidence to sway you? Do ever examine your opinions?

I start out pretty guarded and I pay attention to how they treat others, both publicly and privately. I follow my gut but I try to keep a somewhat open mind. There have been times when I’ve changed my opinion of someone based on my experiences with them. I’m open to that. I’ve had my moments where I have said things that were not the best example of how I want to conduct myself—letting frustrations get to me. So, I know that others probably have that same experience. I really love it when someone I didn’t really get along with at first turns out to be a close friend.
 
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