❓ PLP Inquires II ❓

[Wand3rlust]

08.10.23 (suggested topic!)

E-sex Education

How did you learn your e-sex ways? Did you pick up things from past partners, did you study some other way, or where you just born this sexy? Do you try to learn, evolve or up your game on anyway, consciously? Do you have any signature moves or phrases that you're particularly proud of? Are there words, phrases or actions you love to use? Hate to use?

I'm very curious to hear about the generational gap differences here.

I read a lot of lit stories. I guess I plagiarise well. I can tell pretty quickly what gets my partner off, and perosnalise it towards them, while emphasising my own enjoyment. That is very conducive to a successful e-sex session.

I don't think I have any sig moves... and I'm sure there are words that crop up, and also words I avoid...

 

[RuneBlade]

08.10.23 (suggested topic!)

E-sex Education

How did you learn your e-sex ways? Did you pick up things from past partners, did you study some other way, or where you just born this sexy? Do you try to learn, evolve or up your game on anyway, consciously? Do you have any signature moves or phrases that you're particularly proud of? Are there words, phrases or actions you love to use? Hate to use?

I'm very curious to hear about the generational gap differences here.

I'm 42m, and even before my teen years, I was introduced to online chatrooms. It started out as benign stuff as I was still quite young, but it didn't take long to get into mIRC. As I got a bit older, it was a chance to explore. I guess my "studying" was just engaging in a slew of cybersex. I was a moderator for half a dozen rooms on an adult server, and everyone loves the ops *wink* (I'm sure @ToPleaseHim can relate!). Some of the rooms were purposed for cybering in the main channel, rather than private messaging. And let... me... tell... you... I was a slut of a fella. Whoever, whenever, whereever. Probably several times a day.

Then I started getting into phonesex, which is still a favorite activity of mine. As a young and legal fella with hardly any obligations, I had no reason not to give out my number to whoever and have a good time.

When I found lit, I got into the online roleplaying and sexual roleplaying categories, and back then most of the threads were open, rather than 90+% being closed for specific authors.

All that safe sex! So I like to think that my in-person game was ramped up pretty quick by just exploring all those fantasies and thinking about them, writing about them, talking about them with whoever. Finding out what made other people tick, and also what made me tick. I'd try almost anything once. Almost!

Not to sure on the signature moves or phrases, though when I date IRL, I like to use a kiss as a litmus test of chemistry and compatibility.

Good topic!

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

08.10.23 (suggested topic!)

E-sex Education

How did you learn your e-sex ways? Did you pick up things from past partners, did you study some other way, or where you just born this sexy? Do you try to learn, evolve or up your game on anyway, consciously? Do you have any signature moves or phrases that you're particularly proud of? Are there words, phrases or actions you love to use? Hate to use?

I'm very curious to hear about the generational gap differences here.

I thought this was a really interesting topic because I think I (and @RuneBlade) and others are amongst a certain generation who grew up on sex as a language. Sure downloading sneaky filth pixel by pixel in The Computer Room while your parents were asleep took forever. But I was a part of many many (insert way too young and naïve here) millennials who were cybering all kinds of people just to learn about sex. My e-cherry was popped long before my real one was and I really can't believe there were no parental controls in my typing class. Really!?

Anyway, I think I was born sexy in that I love words and descriptions and I take it as a personal challenge to describe things differently and try new things every time. It's not a 100% success ratio but it's pretty high. I've picked up things from partners along the way, as we all do. But I think my main skill is the ability to have very clear mental images and bring those to life. (Which can be a problem when my partner doesn't and we start on a bed, then we're on a couch, suddenly on the floor? C'mon! Can we get some continuity??) I don't have signature moves but I do have little phrases that do it for me. (Signature moves are very traceable fellas ).

 

[Dribble]

True story time. I caught a lead at a 12-step meeting when I first got clean of a guy that was married 7 times. He talked about how he was a peacock...flashing all those pretty feathers...look at me look at me. But after a year or two...flashing those pretty feathers wasn't enough ..he had to start opening up. But instead, he created a fight...and moved on to the next female peacock...look at me look at me.

What the fuck does this have to do with anything dribble?

Everything? Nothing? I can't imagine not using something that worked previously to get what one wanted with someone new...especially if it is just sex. I think the world is much smaller than people want to admit. I don't know...

 

[RuneBlade]

I thought this was a really interesting topic because I think I (and @RuneBlade) and others are amongst a certain generation who grew up on sex as a language. Sure downloading sneaky filth pixel by pixel in The Computer Room while your parents were asleep took forever. But I was a part of many many (insert way too young and naïve here) millennials who were cybering all kinds of people just to learn about sex. My e-cherry was popped long before my real one was and I really can't believe there were no parental controls in my typing class. Really!?

Anyway, I think I was born sexy in that I love words and descriptions and I take it as a personal challenge to describe things differently and try new things every time. It's not a 100% success ratio but it's pretty high. I've picked up things from partners along the way, as we all do. But I think my main skill is the ability to have very clear mental images and bring those to life. (Which can be a problem when my partner doesn't and we start on a bed, then we're on a couch, suddenly on the floor? C'mon! Can we get some continuity??) I don't have signature moves but I do have little phrases that do it for me. (Signature moves are very traceable fellas ).

A) You have a way with words. Sex as a language.
B) You e-boned people in your typing class?!

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

A) You have a way with words. Sex as a language.
B) You e-boned people in your typing class?!

I mean...

I was typing....

 

[Azuldrgon]

08.10.23 (suggested topic!)

E-sex Education

How did you learn your e-sex ways? Did you pick up things from past partners, did you study some other way, or where you just born this sexy? Do you try to learn, evolve or up your game on anyway, consciously? Do you have any signature moves or phrases that you're particularly proud of? Are there words, phrases or actions you love to use? Hate to use?

I'm very curious to hear about the generational gap differences here.

My experience with E-sex is a bit long.
I started on Lit back in 2005. My first partner did things with me on Yahoo Messenger. Just like having sex for the first time, it was difficult. This was especially because at the time, we only had one computer and it was in the Living Room.
It wasn't until I was gifted my own laptop when I was able to do things in my bedroom and have more privacy. I started to learn different things about myself. One partner tried to make me into a Dom. One tried to make me want to divorce my wife. It was varied and I was definitely a novice. There were times I would cam on YIM, but most of all I was learning.
One of the things I have learned over the years is learning that there is a person behind the screenname. It is intimate the more things you do.

I don't think I have any "signature moves". Thing is I am pretty vanilla at times with some hints of more when the comfort level is there.

 

[Paul_Chance]

08.10.23 (suggested topic!)

E-sex Education

How did you learn your e-sex ways? Did you pick up things from past partners, did you study some other way, or where you just born this sexy? Do you try to learn, evolve or up your game on anyway, consciously? Do you have any signature moves or phrases that you're particularly proud of? Are there words, phrases or actions you love to use? Hate to use?

I'm very curious to hear about the generational gap differences here.

08.10.23 (suggested topic!)

E-sex Education

How did you learn your e-sex ways? Did you pick up things from past partners, did you study some other way, or where you just born this sexy?

I'm of an older generation, a baby boomer. E-Sex didn't even exist when I began the sexual misadventures of my life. I was in my thirties when I got my first computer and first ventured onto the internet in the early days. I honestly wasn't really interested in any form of e-sex, turning most of my sexual energies toward IRL relationships (short and long term).

I knew chat rooms existed, but never really ventured into them. Then, life reached over and slapped me down. (I was laid up for four months with a bad leg injury from a climbing fall.) During that time, because I literally couldn't do anything else, I started to poke around the corners of the internet and ventured into some chat rooms and...just talked to people. (Prior to that, my experience with bulletin boards and chat/messaging services was entirely in the context of work or school.)

My first experience was sort of a hybrid. I was chatting with a co-worker online and it ventured into e-sex. It was a shower thing. LOL - because I was in a cast, I couldn't take a shower or a bath. She described in great detail giving me a shower, and that turned sexual. I recall it being very erotic at the time, and she followed up by swinging by my place, which is why I say it was hybrid. She was into e-sex in various forms and was my tour guide to places and people.

I've always been a writer and a reader, and so the language of e-sex came naturally to me.

Do you try to learn, evolve or up your game on anyway, consciously?

Yes, in the early days I made it a point to pay attention and learned how to tune my descriptive language to my partner and to use the medium effectively. Again, I give all credit to some of my early partners in the e-sex world.

Do you have any signature moves or phrases that you're particularly proud of?

No, I don't think I have anything that counts as a signature move or phrases. (To me, that would be kind of weird, but that is probably because my brain is thinking of people with catchphrases and then using the same catchphrase over and over, regardless of the circumstances.)

Are there words, phrases or actions you love to use? Hate to use?

No, I'm versatile. I'll go where the conversation goes as far as language is concerned.

I'm very curious to hear about the generational gap differences here.

In a lot of ways, I'm actually glad I grew up before the age of internet porn. From what I see if my younger friends, it creates far more problems than it does solutions. I actually have a hard time imagining what it must be like to grow up bombarded by sexual imagery from a very young age. It must be terribly confusing.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

08.10.23 (suggested topic!)

E-sex Education

How did you learn your e-sex ways? Did you pick up things from past partners, did you study some other way, or where you just born this sexy? Do you try to learn, evolve or up your game on anyway, consciously? Do you have any signature moves or phrases that you're particularly proud of? Are there words, phrases or actions you love to use? Hate to use?

I'm very curious to hear about the generational gap differences here.

It started with my Grandma’s Harlequin novels! Then I found stories on Lit, had experiences with online partners, talks with online friends, etc. I’ve learned the most from joining the forums here.

I still don’t have game though.

 

[EndCreditsPart2]

08.10.23 (suggested topic!)

E-sex Education

How did you learn your e-sex ways? Did you pick up things from past partners, did you study some other way, or where you just born this sexy? Do you try to learn, evolve or up your game on anyway, consciously? Do you have any signature moves or phrases that you're particularly proud of? Are there words, phrases or actions you love to use? Hate to use?

I'm very curious to hear about the generational gap differences here.

I just learned through experience, here and on Reddit. I've actually barely sexted with anyone I ever dated. Just people from Online.

The generation gap is funny. My fellow old millennials would have first used say "cybering" which eventually got replaced with "sexting." The lingo on Lit I feel is exclusive to here.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

08.14.23

Private Parts
I see lots of people sharing lots of super personal things publicly. I think it's to each their own but how much are you comfortable sharing publicly? Are you more comfortable sharing sexual details versus real life details? Where do you draw the line for yourself?
If you're a sharer - Do you worry at all about what people may think about the private things you share? Do you care that your pictures, words, or audios may be consumed be people who you never know? Is there a worry that people won't get to know you privately because of what you share publicly? Do you ever regret being so open?
If your a non-sharer - Do you worry that people won't notice you if you don't put a bit of yourself on display in some way? What are your concerns with being more open or public? Do you overthink what you do and don't share? Who and when do you choose to open up to?

Tell me about your choices around your personal privacy.

 

[drobert44]

08.14.23

Private Parts
I see lots of people sharing lots of super personal things publicly. I think it's to each their own but how much are you comfortable sharing publicly? Are you more comfortable sharing sexual details versus real life details? Where do you draw the line for yourself?
If you're a sharer - Do you worry at all about what people may think about the private things you share? Do you care that your pictures, words, or audios may be consumed be people who you never know? Is there a worry that people won't get to know you privately because of what you share publicly? Do you ever regret being so open?
If your a non-sharer - Do you worry that people won't notice you if you don't put a bit of yourself on display in some way? What are your concerns with being more open or public? Do you overthink what you do and don't share? Who and when do you choose to open up to?

Tell me about your choices around your personal privacy.

I love to share, but usually in a PM.

 

[SixShooter14]

08.14.23

Private Parts
I see lots of people sharing lots of super personal things publicly. I think it's to each their own but how much are you comfortable sharing publicly? Are you more comfortable sharing sexual details versus real life details? Where do you draw the line for yourself?

idk how personal the things I share are. I don't have to hide my "lit life" from anyone. So I'm fairly open and honest with folks. I do share more personal history with folks in private. Just things like past experiences with my job and places I've travelled. It's been good to have topics to talk about.

As I don't have a current sexual partner nor am I hiding any kink, again I'm ok with sharing.

If you're a sharer - Do you worry at all about what people may think about the private things you share? Do you care that your pictures, words, or audios may be consumed be people who you never know? Is there a worry that people won't get to know you privately because of what you share publicly? Do you ever regret being so open?
....

Tell me about your choices around your personal privacy.

As for sharing media... It's a little weird, not sure why. I don't mind showing off and sharing my body. It's helped a lot with my self confidence and allowed me to participate in some of the most fun conversations here. Same with audio, I was pretty shy at first, but now will readily post a vocaroo.

I have begun putting a timer on pics. Face pics are short (an hour or less) body pics are longer (12 hrs or a day)... I don't really regret it.

 

[Apisto42]

08.14.23

Private Parts
I see lots of people sharing lots of super personal things publicly. I think it's to each their own but how much are you comfortable sharing publicly? Are you more comfortable sharing sexual details versus real life details? Where do you draw the line for yourself?
If you're a sharer - Do you worry at all about what people may think about the private things you share? Do you care that your pictures, words, or audios may be consumed be people who you never know? Is there a worry that people won't get to know you privately because of what you share publicly? Do you ever regret being so open?
If your a non-sharer - Do you worry that people won't notice you if you don't put a bit of yourself on display in some way? What are your concerns with being more open or public? Do you overthink what you do and don't share? Who and when do you choose to open up to?

Tell me about your choices around your personal privacy.

I used to be a voice whore on the audio thread. Now I’ll do voice as a matter of convenience in pm. Never really shared pics on the board. Too many asshats and twatwaffles.

 

[Bry1313]

I think it's to each their own but how much are you comfortable sharing publicly?

So im halfway between both because there are times i share too much and other times i stay close to my best

Are you more comfortable sharing sexual details versus real life details?

Superficial sexual details are the easiest but real likes and more intimate details became up there with more real life details.

Where do you draw the line for yourself?

Depends on general comfort level

Do you worry at all about what people may think about the private things you share?

I try to only share details with people I’ve built up some kind of trust with but I guess you can never know 100%

Do you care that your pictures, words, or audios may be consumed be people who you never know?

I mean that’s always the risk. We just deal with it and accept it

Is there a worry that people won't get to know you privately because of what you share publicly?

Yeah most of my public persona is my private persona with just a dash more seriousness privately but not too much.

Do you ever regret being so open?

I’ve found my comfort lines.

What are your concerns with being more open or public?

Where I draw the line is I guess my own comfort level in engagement in general. The relationships here are real and the people are important but I worry about neglecting people i live with, etc if I go too deep here.

Do you worry that people won't notice you if you don't put a bit of yourself on display in some way?

A little bit, I’ve dialed way back on pics I share publicly lately so less validation from the masses on if I look good or not, but private sharing is good enough.

Do you overthink what you do and don't share?

Always

Who and when do you choose to open up to?

It’s just a matter of building trust with each person. Does that person seem like someone who would both appreciate learning/seeing more of me or are they seemingly indifferent and do they seem like someone who would treat what they learn about me with care or do they seem to be a gossip. Like I said, every situation is unique.

Very interesting questions.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

08.14.23

Private Parts
I see lots of people sharing lots of super personal things publicly. I think it's to each their own but how much are you comfortable sharing publicly? Are you more comfortable sharing sexual details versus real life details? Where do you draw the line for yourself?
If you're a sharer - Do you worry at all about what people may think about the private things you share? Do you care that your pictures, words, or audios may be consumed be people who you never know? Is there a worry that people won't get to know you privately because of what you share publicly? Do you ever regret being so open?
If your a non-sharer - Do you worry that people won't notice you if you don't put a bit of yourself on display in some way? What are your concerns with being more open or public? Do you overthink what you do and don't share? Who and when do you choose to open up to?

Tell me about your choices around your personal privacy.

I struggle with this. I'm open when asked here but there are many things about me that stay private.

I'm happy to talk about sex, dreams, kinks, the meaning of life and have no problem at all going into detail about those things and what my thoughts are. I don't think anything I share here could come back to me in real life. I don't have a partner but I am a parent so there are things that need to be kept separate.

A few people know my real name and more about my life but those are people I've talked to regularly for a while and I know I can trust them with that.

I've been very open about my kink and sexual exploration since joining here. I ask questions and answer them as a way to fully explore who I am after a long time of not realising these parts of me were there.

Photos are different. I'm gradually sharing more regularly. I'm painfully shy so posting myself to generally good comments is doing wonders for my self image. I do worry about people screenshotting and now sharing them on other sites but I don't know where the line is. Do I start "poofing" pics again? I don't know.

In private messages or on Skype if things move that way, I'm usually a lot more relaxed. If I'm regularly messaging back that means I'm comfortable and happy to let my guard down a bit but never all of the way.

 

[Dribble]

I trust my instincts. If I feel I should share a story...I do. I live my life for me. Not for what others may think of me.

 

[EndCreditsPart2]

08.14.23

Tell me about your choices around your personal privacy.

Certain things I'm fine being detailed with. Fantasies and other kinky stuff? Nobody knows about that in real life so it's fine to share here. Where I'm from? There's three million other people in Chicago, I think I'll be able to keep my privacy. Other details I'm more cagey about or only share in PMs. And I'll leave my photos up only for as long as I need to.

 

[MrsPassion]

how much are you comfortable sharing publicly?

I think this varies for me day to day, person to person and topic to topic. Some days I overshare and then dial it back either through my own internalized shame monologue or just rolling with the punches. But I’m southern so it’s usually the shame monologue, quickly followed by a “ehh whatever” breakthrough moment. Other days I’m pretty tight lipped, lurking and not really interested in sharing.

Are you more comfortable sharing sexual details versus real life details?

I’m comfortable with both but context is the biggest indicator of how much of either category I will contribute. When it comes to sexual details I’m pretty open. I don’t believe I’m the only person who likes what I like and I try to be pretty open minded when hearing or learning about something new. When it comes to real life details—my daily life is a sacred thing that I don’t share with a lot of people. Not because there’s something to hide but because I’m protective of my privacy and others. Some of my friends here know a lot. Some know less. Some know nothing.

Where do you draw the line for yourself?

Nothing that will ever jeopardize my right to anonymity/safety. I’ve stupidly trusted folks in the past and went through a pretty scary incident and quickly learned my lesson.

If you're a sharer - Do you worry at all about what people may think about the private things you share?

No. If someone doesn’t like something I say or post they are welcome to keep scrolling or ignore me. Lord knows I do the same without a second thought to it.

Do you care that your pictures, words, or audios may be consumed be people who you never know?

My audios are purely comical so no. My words are just that; mine. My photos…I struggle with this one. On a surface level I don’t care, I don’t know most of the people who like an occasional photo I post. And I don’t post a lot of them. If I want someone to see me, I make damn sure they can and do so I accept they could be shared, downloaded, etc. while I hope that doesn’t happen, I know lose control of that outcome as soon as I press send

Is there a worry that people won't get to know you privately because of what you share publicly?

I think because I’m so open re: sex on threads it’s the opposite. I get people who think I am super interested in having naughty conversations all the time. Or they approach me sideways expecting a sex doll. Some seem shocked when I’d rather talk about more cerebral things. The ones that know me really well can recognize the differences between my shenanigans on threads and who I am as a full person.

Do you ever regret being so open?

Sometimes. But I really value connection. I like knowing how people are doing, and what they like or are interested in. I think I am the type that always seeks genuine connection even platonically. The hardest thing for me is when I end up talking with someone who is the opposite. Conversation usually dies but my curiosity remains unsatisfied.

Do you overthink what you do and don't share?

Constantly. More so in private than publicly though. I’m the queen of writing a long message only to delete it and respond with “lol” publicly it’s always around pictures. I know myself to be a self confident woman—in person. I can appreciate all the things about me and my body in person, but I never am satisfied with photos. So I oscillate between sharing or not. Usually decide not too lol once I figure out how to capture the switch in my hips in photo though look out

Who and when do you choose to open up to?

it really depends. I can count on one hand (and have fingers left over) folks who I can say know me really well on here. I appreciate their friendship, guidance and community a lot. When I decide to open up is entirely dependent on the other person. I think sharing and being open requires a mutual exchange of trust and vulnerability. If there’s not likely to be a return of my investment in that regard I decide against.

*proceeds to overthink if she shared too much in this post *

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

08.14.23

Private Parts
I see lots of people sharing lots of super personal things publicly. I think it's to each their own but how much are you comfortable sharing publicly? Are you more comfortable sharing sexual details versus real life details? Where do you draw the line for yourself?
If you're a sharer - Do you worry at all about what people may think about the private things you share? Do you care that your pictures, words, or audios may be consumed be people who you never know? Is there a worry that people won't get to know you privately because of what you share publicly? Do you ever regret being so open?
If your a non-sharer - Do you worry that people won't notice you if you don't put a bit of yourself on display in some way? What are your concerns with being more open or public? Do you overthink what you do and don't share? Who and when do you choose to open up to?

Tell me about your choices around your personal privacy.

Oh man, this one hits home today. I tend to share a lot - both publicly and privately. I try to stay away from showing anything publicly that is identifiable, but I have been known to share my face. I rarely do this anymore though because it makes me feel so uncomfortable. Part of me wishes I wasn’t so open, because it makes me feel vulnerable and susceptible to being hurt so much easier.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

08.10.23 (suggested topic!)

E-sex Education

How did you learn your e-sex ways? Did you pick up things from past partners, did you study some other way, or where you just born this sexy?

First e-sex eperience happened completely by accident. I was talking sexy to a friend in a chat room once and we started just acting out this sex scenario. We were both like "Did we...just do that?" I was kinda young and not super experienced at that point, but I do think online play opened my eyes and mind about the possibilites of what sex and intimacy could be.

Do you try to learn, evolve or up your game on anyway, consciously?

Absolutely. I want my partners to feel amazing.

Do you have any signature moves or phrases that you're particularly proud of? Are there words, phrases or actions you love to use? Hate to use?

Those are all trade secrets, honey.

I'm very curious to hear about the generational gap differences here.

I'm old enough that I met and had sex with someone via Yahoo chat.

08.14.23

Private Parts
I see lots of people sharing lots of super personal things publicly. I think it's to each their own but how much are you comfortable sharing publicly?

I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve so I'll say whatever. Its usually general stuff.

Are you more comfortable sharing sexual details versus real life details? Where do you draw the line for yourself?

I often talk about sex and my experiences. Not often my real life.

If you're a sharer - Do you worry at all about what people may think about the private things you share?

Could not give any less of a fuck.

Do you care that your pictures, words, or audios may be consumed be people who you never know?

It crosses my mind but i dont really worry. Its not like an audio is traceable to my SSN or whatever.

Is there a worry that people won't get to know you privately because of what you share publicly? Do you ever regret being so open?

Never. Sometimes I need to vent and talk shop. If they dont like it they can eat me.

Tell me about your choices around your personal privacy.

There are some things I keep to myself. Like my SSN.

 

[RideFl71]

08.14.23

Private Parts
I see lots of people sharing lots of super personal things publicly. I think it's to each their own but how much are you comfortable sharing publicly? Are you more comfortable sharing sexual details versus real life details? Where do you draw the line for yourself?
If you're a sharer - Do you worry at all about what people may think about the private things you share? Do you care that your pictures, words, or audios may be consumed be people who you never know? Is there a worry that people won't get to know you privately because of what you share publicly? Do you ever regret being so open?
If your a non-sharer - Do you worry that people won't notice you if you don't put a bit of yourself on display in some way? What are your concerns with being more open or public? Do you overthink what you do and don't share? Who and when do you choose to open up to?

Tell me about your choices around your personal privacy.

Great question..

I'm pretty much an open book.
I'm not really afraid of people on this site knowing who I am or what I'm into... This is my outlet from my real life. I'm not openly bi or that I wear sexy things to my everyday people.

But if anyone on here wants to chat I'm open..

Have I been hurt on here because maybe someone I'm into isn't into me yes... But that's life...

Idk.. If that answer your question or helps but.. ❤

 

[hotwords229_A]

Private Parts
I see lots of people sharing lots of super personal things publicly. I think it's to each their own but how much are you comfortable sharing publicly? Are you more comfortable sharing sexual details versus real life details? Where do you draw the line for yourself?

This place is my id (or my I’d as autocorrect insists on making it). I “think” here and, unfortunately for all of you, I share what I think here. It’s almost like my penis types what it thinks and feels on Lit—and in one case it was exactly like that!

I share my fears (sharks), my horniness (everything), and my questions (cock talk) here that I might not be as willing to share in real life. On the other hand, I also enjoy being very vague about who I actually am (Harrison Ford, circa 1981).

If you're a sharer - Do you worry at all about what people may think about the private things you share? Do you care that your pictures, words, or audios may be consumed be people who you never know?

No. I’m sure there are people who are completely unknown to me that have seen me front and back () and I salute them.

Is there a worry that people won't get to know you privately because of what you share publicly? Do you ever regret being so open?

No. But I’m only open in a very closed way.

If your a non-sharer - Do you worry that people won't notice you if you don't put a bit of yourself on display in some way? What are your concerns with being more open or public? Do you overthink what you do and don't share?

I don’t think of myself as a sharer, even though I have shared. I try to employ the idea of “always leave them wanting more” especially if what they really wanted was significantly less.


Who and when do you choose to open up to?

In a weird way Me. I share my random thoughts, perversions, desires, sexual fantasies, etc. openly with myself and you guys get to watch, engage, comment, guide and share back.

Tell me about your choices around your personal privacy.

I was once asked to do an audio interview on Lit and declined. Although I wanted to, I wasn’t willing to share too much and, knowing me, I would over share in the moment and regret giving out info I wanted kept privately. I would make a horrible spy.

 

[Azuldrgon]

08.14.23

Private Parts
I see lots of people sharing lots of super personal things publicly. I think it's to each their own but how much are you comfortable sharing publicly? Are you more comfortable sharing sexual details versus real life details? Where do you draw the line for yourself?

It depends. I rarely share dick pics. Or things abut my body I don't like. I don't share many things about my family too much. I don't mind sharing experiences, but I am careful.

If you're a sharer - Do you worry at all about what people may think about the private things you share? Do you care that your pictures, words, or audios may be consumed be people who you never know? Is there a worry that people won't get to know you privately because of what you share publicly? Do you ever regret being so open?

I'm not too much of a sharer. So I'm okay with what I share on here. I do regret some things I have shared in private though.

Tell me about your choices around your personal privacy.

The way I see it, what I share controls the narrative about me. I know I have total control about what I share and the consequences if I share too much.

 

[Wand3rlust]

08.14.23

Private Parts
I see lots of people sharing lots of super personal things publicly. I think it's to each their own but how much are you comfortable sharing publicly? Are you more comfortable sharing sexual details versus real life details? Where do you draw the line for yourself?
If you're a sharer - Do you worry at all about what people may think about the private things you share? Do you care that your pictures, words, or audios may be consumed be people who you never know? Is there a worry that people won't get to know you privately because of what you share publicly? Do you ever regret being so open?
If your a non-sharer - Do you worry that people won't notice you if you don't put a bit of yourself on display in some way? What are your concerns with being more open or public? Do you overthink what you do and don't share? Who and when do you choose to open up to?

Tell me about your choices around your personal privacy.

I don't post much more than can be seen if I'm sunbathing on the beach. In fact more can be seen when I'm sun bathing on the beach. And pics can be taken then with out my knowledge. I don't post any nude shots. I don't post my face often or for long. And I do it full in the knowledge that it can be saved, downloaded, perved over, ridiculed, whatever. I'm not naive.
It's easy to forget on an audio thread - on any thread, that there are loads of lurkers. And you dont have to be a member to view posts here, I don't think...
I don't overshare personal identifying details, I don't think. I share my voice, but I'm fine with that. I'm not a broadcaster that people would recognise.
We all want attention to varying degrees. Otherwise why would we be here? If you post your body parts you will always get more attention. Some of it wanted. Some of it inappropriate. Doesn't make it a bad thing.
I do worry sometimes that I post for the wrong reasons. When I'm feeling down, and needy. But whatever. This is the place for fucked up therapy, right?