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Okay. I am officially all signed up for hospice so anything can go now they will be back by Friday to give me a more detailed idea of how I will go about doing things. And yes it will be one place that I go to for medicines which will be such a relief!!
Sending love. I'm glad that the burdens of going from one place to another are being lifted off your shoulders. 🩷
 
Sassy, you’re so loved here it’s so easy to see.

So glad you are spending time with those you love and those who love you.

So glad you have a wonderful family to wrap around you and one another as you move into hospice care.

So glad you have pain relief on the horizon.

Selfishly, I am so glad to have 12 years of some funny and fond memories, that somehow in this big old world that we managed to cross paths in this whacky and sometimes confused place. It’s been a fucking joy to watch you bloom if only from a distance.

So glad this world gave us you.

Fuck cancer. Fuck pain, but my god you still shine.

Badass. All the way. 😘
 
Sassy, you’re so loved here it’s so easy to see.

So glad you are spending time with those you love and those who love you.

So glad you have a wonderful family to wrap around you and one another as you move into hospice care.

So glad you have pain relief on the horizon.

Selfishly, I am so glad to have 12 years of some funny and fond memories, that somehow in this big old world that we managed to cross paths in this whacky and sometimes confused place. It’s been a fucking joy to watch you bloom if only from a distance.

So glad this world gave us you.

Fuck cancer. Fuck pain, but my god you still shine.

Badass. All the way. 😘
Aww. I just teared up. That was so sweet. I'm really grateful that we've had time to get to know each other better. 🌹🌹
 
You are giving her so much love and support ❀️
Giving her every bit of myself.........
Being there and holding her hand is something. You are very clearly a rock for her and it’s enough.
Thank you--I am certainly trying to be that solid rock..
Being the relative, seeing all the pain and anguish without being able to do more than holding her hand, kissing her, letting her know with words and actions just how loved she is.

Being able to do more... I hate that expression with a passion. You are showing her how loved and appreciated she is!
How important she is. That she is your world.

You are doing everything you can, and probably more.

Do you have someone to lean on?
This is your love, and you are watching her fight and suffer.
You need support as well.
I have the kids and a few close friends. But right now all of my energy is being spent on being her rock and here for her..
You are where you need to be. You’re helping everyone around you. Your strength is amazing β€οΈπŸ«‚πŸ«‚
Thank you
I would definitely not say "nothing". You and the family are her "everything" and you're there for her always. Her courage comes from having you there with her. We're praying for you too, since caregiving takes a tremendous toll.
If it wasn't for the kids and me I am pretty sure she would have given up some time ago.
You're in a position I cannot envision. I applaud you for being present and doing what you can for and with Sassy. Lean into it and have those you can lean on when needed. I suspect Sassy and the rest are leaning hard on you now. I do know that hospice is for the whole family. I hope they're a good fit for all of you.
Luckily I am a pretty tough soul with lots of strength to lean on. Pretty sure at some point I will fall over but not any time soon,,Gotta take care of my girl..
I wish I could come back and see @SassySheDevil but unfortunately the journey is too much now for my body to handle.

The pilots on my last trip wanted to divert to Canada because I was in too much pain.
Love ya buddy,,,
 
After going thru all of this with my own dad and sassy's dad (who i absolutely adored) it doesn't compare to having to sit and watch her go thru this slowly......

I only know a tiny fraction of what you're going through. It is soul destorying to see someone you love go through this.

You're an absolute rock for her though. Not only her - the kids too. You know where I am mate. Anytime. You're not alone.
 
After going thru all of this with my own dad and sassy's dad (who i absolutely adored) it doesn't compare to having to sit and watch her go thru this slowly......
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I've recently experienced it, but can't imagine how you feel. You have a lot of people here supporting you both.
 
After going thru all of this with my own dad and sassy's dad (who i absolutely adored) it doesn't compare to having to sit and watch her go thru this slowly......
I know nothing of what you’re going through. However, it is amazing what you can do when you need too. You are showing us all that in a tremendous learning experience. Thank you for being you and for where you need to be. WELL DONE !!!πŸ«‚πŸ«‚β€οΈ
 
Every day my heart dies a little...

But I need to tell a story, a happy story on how we met.
So my dad and her dad worked for the same company and they played golf together, work functions and so forth.
So we were wanting to move out of the city and sassy's dad had told mine about some property next door for sale.
So my parents bought it, we did a bunch of clearing and they had gotten a contractor to build a new house. Somewhere in that time frame we had come over to sassy's parents house and I actually met her and thought she was cute, and had big boobies lol.
So as the house was started I lived in a little 20ft travel trailer on the property and I was going to college and little did I know she used to know when I was coming by the "thump thump" of my stereo(could hear me 1/2 mile away) and actually would sit of her roof and wait for me to drive by.
Me and her dad hit it off--he really liked me and invited me to come over for dinner. One thing led to another and we officially started dating october 31st, 1988.... I still remember kissing her on the back porch, which is now our back porch all these years later.
So I would walk from my trailer over to her every night for dinner.

So--I married the neighbors daughter,lol..

I needed to remember something good and wanted to share....
 
Every day my heart dies a little...

But I need to tell a story, a happy story on how we met.
So my dad and her dad worked for the same company and they played golf together, work functions and so forth.
So we were wanting to move out of the city and sassy's dad had told mine about some property next door for sale.
So my parents bought it, we did a bunch of clearing and they had gotten a contractor to build a new house. Somewhere in that time frame we had come over to sassy's parents house and I actually met her and thought she was cute, and had big boobies lol.
So as the house was started I lived in a little 20ft travel trailer on the property and I was going to college and little did I know she used to know when I was coming by the "thump thump" of my stereo(could hear me 1/2 mile away) and actually would sit of her roof and wait for me to drive by.
Me and her dad hit it off--he really liked me and invited me to come over for dinner. One thing led to another and we officially started dating october 31st, 1988.... I still remember kissing her on the back porch, which is now our back porch all these years later.
So I would walk from my trailer over to her every night for dinner.

So--I married the neighbors daughter,lol..

I needed to remember something good and wanted to share....
Such a sweet story. Thank you for sharing it with us all. 🌹
 
Every day my heart dies a little...

But I need to tell a story, a happy story on how we met.
So my dad and her dad worked for the same company and they played golf together, work functions and so forth.
So we were wanting to move out of the city and sassy's dad had told mine about some property next door for sale.
So my parents bought it, we did a bunch of clearing and they had gotten a contractor to build a new house. Somewhere in that time frame we had come over to sassy's parents house and I actually met her and thought she was cute, and had big boobies lol.
So as the house was started I lived in a little 20ft travel trailer on the property and I was going to college and little did I know she used to know when I was coming by the "thump thump" of my stereo(could hear me 1/2 mile away) and actually would sit of her roof and wait for me to drive by.
Me and her dad hit it off--he really liked me and invited me to come over for dinner. One thing led to another and we officially started dating october 31st, 1988.... I still remember kissing her on the back porch, which is now our back porch all these years later.
So I would walk from my trailer over to her every night for dinner.

So--I married the neighbors daughter,lol..

I needed to remember something good and wanted to share....

I remember her telling me that once and I'll say what I did then.

You guys are made for each other.

We're always here. Let me know if I can do anything.
 
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