Oh that’s so long. I’m sorry.
it was, met in a yahoo chatroom at 17, friends for 5 years, then it turned sexual. very satisfying in every way for 17 years. never met in person, the last 2 years made plans to move closer to each other and be together. just before time to put the plans in motion i received a call from a "friend" telling me that she past away in a car accident. grieved for several months, changed my plans. not being someone to let things go i did some research. turned out she had been lying to me about a number of things that really made no sense. she was also still alive, though she did try to commit suicide sometime after breaking it off. we talked briefly but she was under medical care and it was just too late. any attempts to reconnect went unanswered. its been almost 10 years now. while im ultimately looking for something similar, i need honesty. there is no reason for her to have told some of the lies she did when we shared so much of our lives for so long and were so intimate. i tend to be hesitant about the long term and about trying to make long distance relationships more than situationships. definitely a lot of lessons learned and a foundation piece for who i am as a man and a partner now.
To lie like that is wild.
Thanks for the reaction, ladies.I was really fond of this Jett_73 guy. Then he disappeared. 37_ttej has been around for a while now and I have a sneaking suspicion that it’s the same dude.
I feel so disillusioned.
I thought we had a thing.
Why would he change his profile? Was he just using me?
Honestly, my past self must have been a complete douche.
And not sure what that says about my present self’s narcistic tendencies …
Disturbing.
o
xo
Lit-lationship Dating Pool
Well... I think it's time to dip your toes into the
So, you've had some time to heal and your beginning to feel
flirty and sexy...
There are a couple of Litsters who've caught your eye. Maybe you're feeling a little shy... hesitant to try again... because despite the healing, there are scars, and you don't want to be hurt again.
You're cautious, I get it. Maybe you don't want to dive in to the deep end of the pool. You're perfectly content to stay in the shallow end.
There is nothing wrong with that. I've got some cute floaties for you to choose from:
View attachment 2402589
1. Laughter
Laughing helps to ease your mind.
2. Lighthearted Banter
Keeping things light and avoiding serious topics will keep you from falling into old habits.
3. Closed PMs
Closing those PMs will completely take away the temptation to respond to possible suitors.
But say you want to flirt back...
Let's say you want to discuss serious topics...
And what if you want to speak with someone off the boards?
Then you will need to write down exactly
WHAT IT IS YOU WANT IN YOUR LIT-LATIONSHIP
This will be different for everybody. But there are a few fundamentals.
Respect
Kindness
Attention
Honesty
Anything else is icing on the cake.
Please discuss what you truly want out of your Lit-lationship. Be honest with yourself. And most importantly,
Don't.
Settle.
For.
Less.
*googles what Angelfire is*
yeah im dense, i dont get it...
My all over the place fonts, font size and embedded videos reminds you of the early days of website creation? Yeah, I was going for GeoCities, but less ads.
ok. now i get it. thank you.My all over the place fonts, font size and embedded videos reminds you of the early days of website creation? Yeah, I was going for GeoCities, but less ads.
I clicked on that hoping for a link to your Angelfire account.
I worked for the abuse department of a registrar and hosting company that owned a legacy anonymous, free hosting platform. A good portion of my job was chasing down CP (and accidental CP from teenage indiscretions) buried there. My favorite day was the one where I got to shut it down and nuke all of the servers. (After three years of investigating that shit I was ready to start drinking at work).
Informative for sureWell... I think it's time to dip your toes into the
So, you've had some time to heal and you're beginning to feel
flirty and sexy...
There are a couple of Litsters who've caught your eye. Maybe you're feeling a little shy... hesitant to try again... because despite the healing, there are scars, and you don't want to be hurt again.
You're cautious, I get it. Maybe you don't want to dive in to the deep end of the pool. You're perfectly content to stay in the shallow end.
There is nothing wrong with that. I've got some cute floaties for you to choose from:
View attachment 2402589
1. Laughter
Laughing helps to ease your mind.
2. Lighthearted Banter
Keeping things light and avoiding serious topics will keep you from falling into old habits.
3. Closed PMs
Closing those PMs will completely take away the temptation to respond to possible suitors.
But say you want to flirt back...
Let's say you want to discuss serious topics...
And what if you want to speak with someone off the boards?
Then you will need to write down exactly
WHAT IT IS YOU WANT IN YOUR LIT-LATIONSHIP
This will be different for everybody. But there are a few fundamentals.
Respect
Kindness
Attention
Honesty
Anything else is icing on the cake.
Please discuss what you truly want out of your Lit-lationship. Be honest with yourself. And most importantly,
Don't.
Settle.
For.
Less.
Nah my nerdiness has always leaned towards theoretical not practical.
Oftentimes laziness becomes a virtue later on.
It was not laziness! The beauty and elegance of physics and math are there to reveal eternal and universal truths not for crass self promotion and monetary gain of software nerds.
So, horniness trumps laziness.
