Ask Doctor Liz ... Again

[LizVegas79]

Dear Dr Liz,

I've just had a thought while working a night shift, what is the most common time of the day to masturbate? Everytime I do a nightshift or a sleepover I seem to get caught up in an almost fear of missing out feeling. Do you think this is down to using it as a regular sleep aid or am I just logging onto lit at inappropriate times?

Dear Trapped By Time,

Great question!

It's different for everyone. For example, since I work nights mostly, I mostly masturbate in my free time which is during the day when my husband's at work and my kids are at school. However, you seem to have a job that allows you a little more freedom.

FOMO is a very serious issue in our modern age. It's practically chronic. So don't beat yourself up over your choices and try to remember that whatever you're finding on Lit at "inappropriate" times is probably also still there at more appropriate times too because it's the internet.

It is a wonderful sleep aid though isn't it? Sometimes when I come home from work at 1 or 2AM and hub's is dead asleep next to me I simply can't resist a quick jill to help me calm down and relax. Of course, when that doesn't work, option #2 is waking him up and saying come on let's go.

So, make your masturbation when and where choices and don't feel bad about them. It's perfectly natural AND necessary for a healthy, happy YOU!


- Doctor "About Now?" Liz

 

[marriedpervs]

Dear Dr Liz,

We've been LIT friends for a long time so I trust your opinion. My issue is that the older I get, the more my mind needs to be involved in orgasming. In other words, unless I am mentally stimulated, my pussy won't come to the party. Now, it is easy for me to do this using fantasy, but in reality I also find myself needing to have wilder and wilder sex just to ensure a physical climax when fucking. Lately that has meant more than one set of hands, more than one tongue, more than one cock.....if you get my drift. LIT regulars know Steve is cool with this, but I'm starting to think I might need to be bound in chains, whipped, or in a group sex situation or a full-on orgy just to cum.

Your thoughts please?

 

[MilfDirector]

Dear Dr Liz,

We've been LIT friends for a long time so I trust your opinion. My issue is that the older I get, the more my mind needs to be involved in orgasming. In other words, unless I am mentally stimulated, my pussy won't come to the party. Now, it is easy for me to do this using fantasy, but in reality I also find myself needing to have wilder and wilder sex just to ensure a physical climax when fucking. Lately that has meant more than one set of hands, more than one tongue, more than one cock.....if you get my drift. LIT regulars know Steve is cool with this, but I'm starting to think I might need to be bound in chains, whipped, or in a group sex situation or a full-on orgy just to cum.

Your thoughts please?

I'd join in that a big cick fest.
A few DP doubles cums then just shooting up you covered in Cum...

 

[LizVegas79]

Dear Dr Liz,

We've been LIT friends for a long time so I trust your opinion. My issue is that the older I get, the more my mind needs to be involved in orgasming. In other words, unless I am mentally stimulated, my pussy won't come to the party. Now, it is easy for me to do this using fantasy, but in reality I also find myself needing to have wilder and wilder sex just to ensure a physical climax when fucking. Lately that has meant more than one set of hands, more than one tongue, more than one cock.....if you get my drift. LIT regulars know Steve is cool with this, but I'm starting to think I might need to be bound in chains, whipped, or in a group sex situation or a full-on orgy just to cum.

Your thoughts please?

Dear Dying To Cum Without Having To Think About It,

This is a very common problem for many women Dee, especially those of us reaching a certain age. What age that is varies for everyone, but, based on my research, it's a sad day that will eventually come for all of us. Men too. That's why (fortunately), the older they get the kinkier they tend to get.

The pleasure of many is a hard to beat pleasure though.

We have been LIT friends for a long time. I know of your many adventures and am envious of how often you go to fun parties and of your oh so understand hubby. But I totally understand where you are at. By the time I was in my mid-20's if it wasn't kinky AF or involving multiple bodies I couldn't be interested. I was so alone but never alone, do you know what I mean?

But you're not alone. I say go for it.

I've never been bound in chains. It sounds fun. (if you trust who has the key!) I don't know what your definition of whipped is but a little gentle slapping from a whip that has several wide lashes on it does wonders for the nerve endings all over your body - especially your kitty . Full on orgies aren't my thing anymore because I need a trusted friend to give me their background check on any strange but hey, if you're open to it and feel safe, then why draw a line? Personally, I love the feel of one hard edging cock pulling out of me and five seconds later a fresh hard cock taking its place. For me, there's not much better than finishing off 4 or 5 guys and laying there smiling and exhausted and proud AF before turning to one or two of their wives for some much needed pampering.

However, I know there are a few years between us. I am just starting to get my toes wet in the swinging, swapping lifestyle and you have been active in "the scene" for several years. It's hard for me to imagine it now (especially after the party hub's and I went to a couple of weeks ago) but it's certainly understandable that after awhile, even fun things get repetitive.

If you aren't comfortable with the boundaries you keep pushing anymore, maybe do considering pulling back. Maybe just a little, or maybe entirely. Because just as the orgasmic bliss that comes from having sex with many different partners, either individually or at the same time, is wonderful, remember, so too is the orgasmic bliss you can equally enjoy with a person you really and truly love and care about.

The challenge of course is that the he, if it's a he, is "up" to the task of satisfying an older woman.

Plus, don't forget. There's always toys. You can be with Steve and then be with one of your favorite toys. That's always an option too. But I say, if you're still able to have an orgasm - KEEP HAVING ORGASMS!!! I know far, far too many women who aren't that much older than me, some several years younger even, who say they haven't had an orgasm "in years" - I simply can't imagine myself ever getting to that point, but like I pointed out in the beginning we all eventually grow old (hopefully) and you don't want to wish you had kept on having fun while you still could.

Be safe in whatever you decide!


- Doctor "Find Another Way To Enjoy It While You Still Can" Liz

 

[LizVegas79]

"You don't have to tell me your deepest, darkest secrets right away.
But trust me, you WILL eventually tell me. I promise."

 

[KR22]

"You don't have to tell me your deepest, darkest secrets right away.
But trust me, you WILL eventually tell me. I promise."

My wife’s appointments did seem to strangely tire her out for a therapist.

 

[LizVegas79]

"So tell me a little about yourself. What kind of weird, kinky, fucked up shit are you into?"

 

[LizVegas79]

"Hmmm ... you wouldn't happen to be into feet would you? I've been on mine all day and
they really need some pampering. I'll give you a 25% discount on your session today if
you're "up" for it sweetie. Or you can just keep staring at my boobs. But that will be an
extra 25%. Your choice."

 

[13Fantasies]

"So tell me a little about yourself. What kind of weird, kinky, fucked up shit are you into?"

No therapist looks like this or asks that. -Sad-

 

[LizVegas79]

No therapist looks like this or asks that. -Sad-

The good ones do. At least here in Vegas anyways.

(for realsies!)

 

[13Fantasies]

The good ones do

Find me a real one.

 

[Trubbycat]

Dear Dr Liz:

Your reputation as a top-notch therapist is well-known, so I come to you. When speaking with my regular therapist (who is Playboy model gorgeous of course) I find myself drifting off in our conversations, imagining her in a tight latex catsuit slowly edging me into a frenzy. I am usually able to catch myself and return to the moment but she has looked at me several times as if she knows what's really going on in my head. This is embarrassing and confusing. Should I admit it, apologize and quit sessioning, or should I just go for it and ask her to help me with my secret fantasies?

Latex Loving Larry

 

[petes478]

"Hmmm ... you wouldn't happen to be into feet would you? I've been on mine all day and
they really need some pampering. I'll give you a 25% discount on your session today if
you're "up" for it sweetie. Or you can just keep staring at my boobs. But that will be an
extra 25%. Your choice."

I want you Lizvegas tapping on your door

https://www.xvideos.com/video32706081/cheating_latina_fucking_her_husbands_friends_big_dick

 

[LizVegas79]

"Are you my three o'clock, sweetie?"

 

[petes478]

"Are you my three o'clock, sweetie?"

Yeah, yes. I am, Lizzie.

 

[investor2020]

Dr. Liz, don't you wish all your patients problems were resolved this easily ?

 

[13Fantasies]

Dr. Liz, don't you wish all your patients problems were resolved this easily ?

I need a doctor like this!

 

[LizVegas79]

Yeah, yes. I am, Lizzie.

That's "Doctor Lizzie" if you don't mind

Dr. Liz, don't you wish all your patients problems were resolved this easily ?

I do!

I wish more women brought me their problems!

I need a doctor like this!

I don't know what the sex therapists and marriage counselors in other cities look and act like, but I promise you in Las Vegas you'll rarely be disappointed by how they look OR how they act

 

[Pad_Foot]

Doc?
What sorts of treatments can one get from a certified therapist or doctor in Las Vegas?

Possible patient

 

[LizVegas79]

Dear Dr Liz:

Your reputation as a top-notch therapist is well-known, so I come to you. When speaking with my regular therapist (who is Playboy model gorgeous of course) I find myself drifting off in our conversations, imagining her in a tight latex catsuit slowly edging me into a frenzy. I am usually able to catch myself and return to the moment but she has looked at me several times as if she knows what's really going on in my head. This is embarrassing and confusing. Should I admit it, apologize and quit sessioning, or should I just go for it and ask her to help me with my secret fantasies?

Latex Loving Larry

Dear Triple L,

As a well-known, top-notch therapist I bump up against this problem probably as much as your current therapist does. Trust me, what you're experiencing is not uncommon at all. I have the dry cleaning bills to prove it! (Just ask any of my patients - I bill for dry cleaning lol)

The truth is, we DO know what's going on in your head.

The therapeutic part is getting YOU to admit what's going on in your own head.

So, if you feel ready to take the next step in your mental-physical-sexual wellness, I 100% encourage you to admit it to her, apologize to her and ask her to help you with your dark, secret, kindky fantasies.

The LAST thing you should do is quit sessioning. Don't you want to get better sweetie?


- Doctor "Here To Help Anyway That I Can" Liz

 

[Trubbycat]

Dear Triple L,

As a well-known, top-notch therapist I bump up against this problem probably as much as your current therapist does. Trust me, what you're experiencing is not uncommon at all. I have the dry cleaning bills to prove it! (Just ask any of my patients - I bill for dry cleaning lol)

The truth is, we DO know what's going on in your head.

The therapeutic part is getting YOU to admit what's going on in your own head.

So, if you feel ready to take the next step in your mental-physical-sexual wellness, I 100% encourage you to admit it to her, apologize to her and ask her to help you with your dark, secret, kindky fantasies.

The LAST thing you should do is quit sessioning. Don't you want to get better sweetie?


- Doctor "Here To Help Anyway That I Can" Liz

Thanks, Dr. Liz, I'll remember to bring the baby wipes to my session tomorrow!

 

[LizVegas79]

Doc?
What sorts of treatments can one get from a certified therapist or doctor in Las Vegas?

Possible patient

Dear Double P,

It depends. What sort of psycho-physical-sexual problems are you having?

I tailor my treatments (and my outfits ) to meet each of my patient's individual needs.


- Doctor "I Dress For Work" Liz

 

[LizVegas79]

Thanks, Dr. Liz, I'll remember to bring the baby wipes to my session tomorrow!

If you don't mind a little free professional advice, I suggest leaving the baby wipes at home and bringing baby oil instead

 

[Trubbycat]

If you don't mind a little free professional advice, I suggest leaving the baby wipes at home and bringing baby oil instead

This leads us back to the dry cleaning bills again, unless my therapist has a plastic sheet for the couch... even leather can stain...

 

[LizVegas79]

This leads us back to the dry cleaning bills again, unless my therapist has a plastic sheet for the couch... even leather can stain...

Splurge a little ... or a lot ... if you don't mind the pun LOL