Ask Doctor Liz ... Again

[LizVegas79]

Thank you, Liz! I think I can make this work and try out some of your tips but alas I do not have a dick, well, none that are permanently attached! I’m AFAB and have all associated parts (pussy, boobs, etc).

That's hot. AND it opens up a whole world of possibilities for you and your wife! Talk to her - see what's on her sexual bucket list - I'm betting you're going to be very pleasantly surprised!

 

[LizVegas79]

OMFG. Can't unsee.

Why would you want to unsee? Do you have something against pleather pants and Loubie's?

 

[JustDave478]

Why would you want to unsee? Do you have something against pleather pants and Loubie's?

You know I wouldnt want to unsee anything in that picture...

 

[Apisto42]

Mmmm, I'm pooped from answering all those questions ....

... but not so pooped I can't take on a few more!

This made my new year a happy one.

 

[EnbyKnight]

The next thing you might try is role playing. Be her boss or be her desperate, about to be fired employee

Meant to say that I think this might be the best one to start with! We used to work together but that was before we admitted we had feelings for each other, so we missed out on the hot office sex.

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

Dear Out But Not Allowed To Play,

For the first time ever, I recommend you look for sympathetic married guys in a similar situation here on Lit. It sounds to me like the main thing you might be missing is a sense of community. A secret community can be just as effective at giving you the outlet you may need before you go looking for comfort in shady parks and parking lots.

Your wife seems partially supportive of your desires so imho you should try to stay in that safe space as much as possible. If she is not comfortable with you going out to meet other men you should try to respect that boundary and other ways to discuss and explore your desires and fantasies in a non-physical situation first. Maybe try asking her to be mean to you or humiliate you or threaten to be with a "real man".

Who knows? That idea may start to appeal to her after she hears herself saying it a few times and you could find yourself in a MMF hookup that satisfies both of your fantasies.

If, after trying to meet your needs in a virtual community first, you find yourself straying to the point of cheating on your wife, you have to ask yourself first if it is worth it. Having even just a partially understanding partner is far more valuable than you may be thinking right now. I would hate if you didn't discover that value until after you did something impulsive to jeopardize it.


- Doctor "Explore Without Touching First" Liz

Thanks Doc. Sometimes just having a sympathetic ear can help, almost as much as a … well I’ll leave that unsaid.

 

[investor2020]

That pic says you can take a few more "Investors" to help invest in your "practice."

I'm never too tired for Investors!

Dr. Liz -

I am concerned with the use of my "nom de plume" identity in responses to your thread. While I agree in general with the nature of the comments, please don't take them as originating with yours truly.

On the other hand, I greatly appreciate your responding post. You can drop the "capital I" in the future, as I am simply honored to be in your thoughts.

Your long-term patient and friend.

investor

p.s. I am still dealing with complexities in the relationship with the Amish lady, but I will update you at a later time.

 

[LizVegas79]

Just be careful when you're churning butter. We don't want a repeat of what happened last time.

Don't worry, I always compartmentalize my investors and my ever playful Investor totally separately!

 

[Sinstories]

Dear Dr Liz,

Well, here we are again, the end of another holiday season, and with it a new year, with new opportunities and new possibilities. As I delve into the events of the past year I'm reminded of scene from a movie, yes, it was a wonderful movie and the scene was so apt to our current social dilemmas.

It also reminded me of something my Great Grandmother told me as we sat on the porch watching the covered wagons roll by along the trail west. She said, "damn, that big one will be mighty tasty when the snow comes early in mountains." Now I don't know if that ever came to pass, but I did hear something about Mr and Mrs Donnor and their trek west that year, don't remember all the details, but it sounded like they had quite the feast over the holidays.

And the same holds true around here, the holidays provided a bountiful goodness of treats for the family and the neighbor's holiday light display only attracted one aircraft that thought it was the approach lights at the airport. Good news this year though, the pilot pulled out in time, at least that's what the stewardess said and a catastrophic event was averted.

You see, that's what really matters, chicken wings. Not the little flat pieces, no they're not worth the time or effort, but the little baby drumsticks. But what I can't understand is how a little boy uses those things to play the drums in the desert, I mean, when I leave them out on the counter, they turn to mush and it's just a pile of paper wrappers, white sticky goo and nuts. And what the heck is Mir, anyway. The holidays can be such a confusing time.

Which brings me to back to the original reason for writing in the first place. Have you seen my butter churn?

Sincerely

Homer, no, not that Homer, the other one.

 

[Pad_Foot]

Dear Doc,
I recently lost a great desk job because my employer went out of business. It was a great job though I never got to see the sun while I was working.

In recreation at a website called Literotica, I recently shared a chest pic. It killed the thread. With no work, now I am faced with an addiction to this website. Should I walk away??

In search of meaning

 

[LizVegas79]

Dear Doc,
I recently lost a great desk job because my employer went out of business. It was a great job though I never got to see the sun while I was working.

In recreation at a website called Literotica, I recently shared a chest pic. It killed the thread. With no work, now I am faced with an addiction to this website. Should I walk away??

In search of meaning

Dear Searching For Answers In All The Wrong Faces,

Sadly, yes, I may have to recommend you distance yourself a little from Lit. It's a rabbit hole. A really, really sexy, addictive AF rabbit hole and that's coming from me. Even I struggle with it sometimes.

Finding boundaries that you're comfortable with is so important and I know from firsthand experience when you are between jobs you need to loosen up your boundaries a little bit (or a lot!) so that makes you extra vulnerable.

I recommend finding a distraction away from Lit.

This has worked wonders for me in the past. It alleviates stress. It helps me sleep when I'm tired. And it gives my husband a break:

I'm not saying it can do the same for you. But finding a hobby, or something that you enjoy, in between looking for a new job might be very rewarding.


- Doctor "I'm All About Self-Care" Liz

 

[LizVegas79]

Meant to say that I think this might be the best one to start with! We used to work together but that was before we admitted we had feelings for each other, so we missed out on the hot office sex.

I missed out on hot office sex because I've only had two desk jobs in my life and both lasted less than 2 weeks.

 

[ShaneoD]

I missed out on hot office sex because I've only had two desk jobs in my life and both lasted less than 2 weeks.

Note to self: replace IKEA desk

 

[LizVegas79]

Dear Dr Liz,

Well, here we are again, the end of another holiday season, and with it a new year, with new opportunities and new possibilities. As I delve into the events of the past year I'm reminded of scene from a movie, yes, it was a wonderful movie and the scene was so apt to our current social dilemmas.

It also reminded me of something my Great Grandmother told me as we sat on the porch watching the covered wagons roll by along the trail west. She said, "damn, that big one will be mighty tasty when the snow comes early in mountains." Now I don't know if that ever came to pass, but I did hear something about Mr and Mrs Donnor and their trek west that year, don't remember all the details, but it sounded like they had quite the feast over the holidays.

And the same holds true around here, the holidays provided a bountiful goodness of treats for the family and the neighbor's holiday light display only attracted one aircraft that thought it was the approach lights at the airport. Good news this year though, the pilot pulled out in time, at least that's what the stewardess said and a catastrophic event was averted.

You see, that's what really matters, chicken wings. Not the little flat pieces, no they're not worth the time or effort, but the little baby drumsticks. But what I can't understand is how a little boy uses those things to play the drums in the desert, I mean, when I leave them out on the counter, they turn to mush and it's just a pile of paper wrappers, white sticky goo and nuts. And what the heck is Mir, anyway. The holidays can be such a confusing time.

Which brings me to back to the original reason for writing in the first place. Have you seen my butter churn?

Sincerely

Homer, no, not that Homer, the other one.

Dear Homer,

Tales of the wild, wild West always intrigue me. I've often felt like I was a pioneer in a previous life.

Cannibalism is not a healthy way to make new friends though so I would encourage you to take your great grandmother's advice with a grain of salt. These are confusing times but we're not at the gates of the zombie apocalypse just yet so try to relax and try watching other movies. Since you seem to have a fondness for looking back at the past while keeping an eye on the future I strongly recommend you try watching "Asteroid City" on Prime. It's less bleak than many of the other movies in our entertainment streams and is less likely to keep you up at night or torment your dreams.

Wow, a pilot who pulled out. You were lucky. I've always heard they usually don't until ... you know ... after. I'm pretty sure that's why most flight attendants wear pants suits these days instead of short little skirts. Too much cream was leaking into the passengers coffee.

Hmm, you've lost your butter churn again? These seems to be a recurring problem and as you know, I believe pattern of behavior are indicators of other, sometimes desired patterns of behavior. I strongly suggest you move away from your family farm and get a desk job in the city. Accounting is an exciting career choice for someone like you. It's very right-brain with all those numbers and columns and things and it will help you keep your mind off butter churns and your great grandmother's struggle with comfort food.


- Doctor "The Real Liz" Liz

 

[LizVegas79]

Note to self: replace IKEA desk

Note to self: find some cute guy to assemble my new IKEA desk for me and pay him the best way I know how.

 

[sister jenny]

Mmmm, I'm pooped from answering all those questions ....

... but not so pooped I can't take on a few more!

Gorgeous!!

 

[luv2custrip]

I missed out on hot office sex because I've only had two desk jobs in my life and both lasted less than 2 weeks.

There is no hot office sex. So I’m inventing it in my stories.

 

[EnbyKnight]

Note to self: find some cute guy to assemble my new IKEA desk for me and pay him the best way I know how.

But does it have to be a guy? Because I'm very good at assembling furniture.

 

[LizVegas79]

But does it have to be a guy? Because I'm very good at assembling furniture.

No, you're right. I just need the job done. I don't care who does it. I'll pay anyone!

 

[EnbyKnight]

No, you're right. I just need the job done. I don't care who does it. I'll pay anyone!

Well I have been told I'm very talented with my hands.

 

[EnbyKnight]

That's hot. AND it opens up a whole world of possibilities for you and your wife! Talk to her - see what's on her sexual bucket list - I'm betting you're going to be very pleasantly surprised!

Dr Liz. I just had the most hot, intense, amazing sex with my partner. I took your advice, tons more compliments, telling her what I wanted to do to her. Tonight we came home from dinner (with half price bottles of wine) and… whew. Even tried the strap on for the first time. Not going into all the details here but…

We also had a great talk after about how I can help her be in the mood and get past mental blocks, and that some of my signals were not being received as signals. Made a new plan and identified some ways to make it more clear.

 

[Jbond1981]

This is a continuation of my very first thread Ask Doctor Liz. Please feel free to go back and visit it, laugh or share any thoughts on here you have about it.

It was a fun and wildly unpredictable ride thru the psyche of all the Litsters that played along. I sincerely feel like I helped some people. I always tried to be straight forward and honest with my advice. I may have lost or been a little mean to a patient or two along the way but sexual psycho-therapy is an inexact science at best LOL

We may (or may not lol) have gone on a retreat, we invented (and perfected) Taco Therapy, we caused a few boners, we cured LOTS AND LOTS of boners (based on all the PM's me and JJ and Nova got!), and we have solved the great Hummingbird Feather Mystery, among many other adventures.

Since I joined Lit I've shared a lot of my messed up past and also my more "well-adjusted" happy life now. I've made a lot of friends and a lot of acquaintances on here. Aside from the daily cock pics and graphic PM's describing what some of you would like to do to me, I've made a real connection with some of you and a passing connection with a few lurkers.

I love those of you who I chat with about our problems and insecurities, doubts and hiccups in life. This thread is in NO WAY meant to replace that connection.

However, during a naughty role play where I was a dom-bitch psychiatrist (imagine that! big stretch, huh? ) for a submissive slave toy, I got the idea to start this thread. It took off, we passed 5,000 posts, so I've decided to continue it. I hope all of you will play along again.

I invite men and women to ask me questions or present a problem and ask me for advice. (remember I'm bi too, so ask anything you want ).

It can be any sexual question, situation, problem, or scenario you want. It can be as serious or silly as you wish.

If others want to answer too, feel free! I welcome different opinions. However, if you want to be one of my certified taco therapy specialists you have to pass my rigorous interview first

I don't know whether this will continue to be popular or not but I sure hope so!

At least for now though, Doctor Liz is listening ....

Is it common for a cheating woman to for one reason or the other, to end up allowing the current boyfriend to go down on and aggressively lick, lap, and probe her pussy just hours after allowing another guy to fuck her without a condom and even encourage him to complete his ejaculation with his dick pressed and held as deeply into her as possible perhaps in the rush and thrill of it? Is it a rush of kink seeing another guy to be so blindly horny for your pussy, he can't stop himself from completely ravaging your sloppy pussy, tasting something off, but pretending it's because he's making you that wet is what he's slowing down the speed and depth of his licking as his mouth
unknowingly begins slowly being coated in another man's semen.

 

[LizVegas79]

Dr Liz. I just had the most hot, intense, amazing sex with my partner. I took your advice, tons more compliments, telling her what I wanted to do to her. Tonight we came home from dinner (with half price bottles of wine) and… whew. Even tried the strap on for the first time. Not going into all the details here but…

We also had a great talk after about how I can help her be in the mood and get past mental blocks, and that some of my signals were not being received as signals. Made a new plan and identified some ways to make it more clear.

YAAAAY!

I'm so happy for you Enby!

Communication is the key in any relationship. Sometimes we just get our signals and our messaging crossed. There's no way to fix it without finding a way to talk about it first.

Wishing you many more pleasant surprises in the future with your partner.

Always happy to help.
(and hearing that I was right lol)

 

[LizVegas79]

Is it common for a cheating woman to for one reason or the other, to end up allowing the current boyfriend to go down on and aggressively lick, lap, and probe her pussy just hours after allowing another guy to fuck her without a condom and even encourage him to complete his ejaculation with his dick pressed and held as deeply into her as possible perhaps in the rush and thrill of it? Is it a rush of kink seeing another guy to be so blindly horny for your pussy, he can't stop himself from completely ravaging your sloppy pussy, tasting something off, but pretending it's because he's making you that wet is what he's slowing down the speed and depth of his licking as his mouth
unknowingly begins slowly being coated in another man's semen.

Dear Many Questions All At Once,

Yes. It is a super kinky, super hot, super flattering thrill for us.


- Doctor "Guess Why I'm So Wet Tonight Dear?" Liz

 

[LizVegas79]

(blonde): "Is that your next patient Liz?"

(me): "Yes. But they can wait over there with the other ones. Your session isn't over yet, sweetie. You still
need more therapy in my professional opinion. I'll answer their questions later."