Ask Doctor Liz ... Again

Sometimes when I'm hungry I look at pictures of what I'm hungry for. :devil:😊
On your (as always) excellent advice, I googled “Hot Latina taco Vegas” just now. Surprised by the results, there’s literally 100’s of ways to style a taco.

But I must confess, I’m still looking for the perfect taco.
 
Dear Disrespected,

Thank you for being so honest. I really do appreciate it. I hope other guys will read your post and identify with how they may have disrespected and mistreated women in their lives and now better understand how they made those women feel and, perhaps, why any relationship with those women did NOT ever work out.

Feeling respected, valued and appreciated is a basic human need no matter if you're a man or a woman. And those feelings go a long way in determining the health of any relationship. Both ways in fact. Especially for a woman, but as you so eloquently and honestly pointed out, also for men too.

Boy, I learn something new every time I log onto Lit!

(and I hope others do too!)

So obviously you're not the kind of guy who WANTS to be teased and criticized and put down. Believe me, as a female who has been considered tall ever since the 4th grade I have met A LOT of those types of guys and, to be honest, on occasion I have fed their fantasy and been mean to very, very mean to them because that is wanted they either wanted or expected from me.

But that's not your scene so we won't go there.

It sounds to me like you are in a very emotionally vulnerable place because you have had to put up protective walls between you and your wife and your kids in order to protect your own sense of well being. First off, you should know you are not alone. There are A LOT of people, men and women, in your exact same position and it's a tough one.

As you may or may not already know from reading my posts and threads, I am a big believer that sex work should be legal. I actually live in a state where it is legal in some counties (not Clark County where Las Vegas is anymore though unfortunately). I myself have actually dabbled in the sex trade a bit and although I found that it wasn't quite for me, I do sympathize with and support both the buyers and sellers in what is, unfortunately, not an altogether safe marketplace.

Without knowing where you live (it's not important), massage parlor happy endings may indeed be your best short term solution.

But I encourage you to find a longer term, more satisfying solution too.

How does your wife feel about the lack of sex in her life? Do you have any suspicions that she might be having an affair? I don't know what the statistics are, but I assure you that a high percentage of sexually frustrated married women who do not respect (or it sounds like even like) their husband very often do have a sexual relationship with someone else going on the side. I'm sorry to be so blunt but it's true. What's worse, you need to be okay with it if you have any hope of your relationship with your wife improving.

If talking about sex or the possibility of sex with your wife is not an option, then yes, by all means do what you can to turn to a professional for warmth and comfort and yes, the occasional orgasm or two. But be aware that not all sex workers are saints and more often than not you get what you pay for so I would advise not to try to skimp when it comes to budgeting for your necessary fun.

The last time I had reason to visit AFF (Adult Friend Finder) it was pretty clear who the professionals were and who the scammers were. Look for ads that talk about roses. Specifically anyone that puts roses in their profile. :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: These tend to be professionals who expect to be paid for their services. The good news is, in my experience finding playmates for some of our hornier VIP guests, the pictures on these kinds of profiles 9x out of 10 pretty much match who is going to show up at your predesignated hotel room. BUT: that might just be a Vegas thing. I'm not sure if the match rate is as high elsewhere so check and ask around.

When I suggest ask around, I would advise starting out at your favorite non-local bar. If you don't have a favorite non-local bar, seek one out and discreetly ask the bartender or other patrons there. Bartenders usually know all kinds of fun and interesting and naughty things about their neighborhood (I use to be a bartender so I know for a fact this is true).

I've heard Reddit has a lot of catfish on it. But if I were you I would look at other dating websites and apps that have a large local userbase in your area. I would also try OnlyFans, even if you live in a small town or not near any major city. Many of the girls on there list the city where they are working from and many are available for "personal shows". If there's any doubt about whether they are actually a working girl or not, look for mention of roses or chocolate or other gifts required.

Good luck and please let me know how it goes.


- Doctor "How Do I Know So Much About This Stuff?" Liz 😇
I like your recommendation and it has some other benefits too, such as being transactional but I can’t help think that the problems for disrespected is deeper than this, I was saddened to see his predicament. It sucks to be treated this way irrespective of the gender.
 
The one good thing about watching your online business go to shit is finally having the time to work on my tan.

Unfortunately it's fucking December and it's cold even here in the middle of the Mojave Desert.

Mmmm, here's to happier days and looking forward to pool weather again ....

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How do you have a Going Out of Business Sale when you are a professionally unlicensed online psycho-sexual relationship advisor?

Any and all ideas welcome.
 
It's probably late to say....but you've helped me in so many ways over the last few years...and I heartily recommend you to anyone and everyone that has a question about themselves or their relationships. 😊
 
Wait? Out of business??
Would it help if I worked for free??
Can I keep working if you are doing a new business?? Free! Of course !!
 
It's probably late to say....but you've helped me in so many ways over the last few years...and I heartily recommend you to anyone and everyone that has a question about themselves or their relationships. 😊

Someone's getting a 50% coupon for her next visit! :love:
 
The one good thing about watching your online business go to shit is finally having the time to work on my tan.

Unfortunately it's fucking December and it's cold even here in the middle of the Mojave Desert.

Mmmm, here's to happier days and looking forward to pool weather again ....

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This is just absolutely... Actually, I don't even have the words. 🔥🔥🔥
 
How do you have a Going Out of Business Sale when you are a professionally unlicensed online psycho-sexual relationship advisor?

Any and all ideas welcome.
You put the question to AI, Chatbot - ChatGBT. I'd do it Liz, but the trial is £4.89/week....
 
You guys are going to make me cry! :heart: :heart: :heart:

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💖💜💖
 
I'm still going to have to go out of business unless some people start needing a little therapy around here LOL
 
Dear Dr Liz,

I've recently noticed that I'm hornier when I'm tired, or bored, or outright in a position where I can't get relief. Is this a common affliction and is there a cure?
 
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