Ask Doctor Liz ... Again

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"Don't be embarrassed. It's perfectly natural to get an erection while we're talking about your fantasies.
Do you have any other fantasies you'd like to share with me? I can't help you unless you open up and
tell me what's on your mind. Even if it's a little naughty. It's okay. Consider this your safe space, sweetie."
 
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"Don't be embarrassed. It's perfectly natural to get an erection while we're talking about your fantasies.
Do you have any other fantasies you'd like to share with me? I can't help you unless you open up and
tell me what's on your mind. Even if it's a little naughty. It's okay. Consider this your safe space, sweetie."
Dr. Liz,
You don’t have enough time on your calendar and I don’t have enough to cover the co-pay for me to discuss all my fantasies.
BSK
 
Silly, this is far from anything Silly. A gorgeous woman who so generously offers her time to answer peoples questions and queries...

Awww, you're so sweet. Thank you :kiss:

You just earned yourself a free boner session.

Ooops, I mean free bonus session! lol



(or maybe it's the same thing for some of you, right?)
 
I am a male 43. My wife died at age 36 got in car wreck. My body tells me I need to find a women to meet my needs. How do I go about this? It is hard to find someone at 43.
 
I am a male 43. My wife died at age 36 got in car wreck. My body tells me I need to find a women to meet my needs. How do I go about this? It is hard to find someone at 43.

Dear Wrecked,

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. 🥲

Regardless whether the accident was recent or a little while ago I totally understand your COMPLETELY NATURAL desire.

This may sound simplistic but you simply have to put yourself out there. Take a few (polite) risks with women you already know or new ones that you go out and meet. I've been told guys hate when a woman says this but it's true: we're out there. we're everywhere. you just have to look for us.

Finding someone to make a long-term commitment with takes time. You have to be patient. It could even be someone you already know.

So in the meantime dare to dare. Have some fun. Trust me, there are a lot of divorced, very horny women in their 40's out there who are feeling just as lonely as you. Some of them go to your grocery store, your bank, work in the building where you work - we're literally everywhere you are. You just have to learn how to find a way to talk to us without sounding like a total perv. Believe it or not, we love to fuck just as much as you do but it can't be the first impression we get from you.

So try to remember, sex is not usually a very good conversation starter for most women.

Also, remember, lots of women in their 40's were young and inexperienced when they got married so they are just as new to the dating scene as you are. And some of them want to make up for lost time so you could end up with lots of smiles on your face if you play your cards right. You don't have to be a millionaire to woo women. You just have to be considerate and nice and not threatening.

I've heard dating apps are crazy now but don't give up on them. Go find someone on OnlyFans if you just need some physical intimacy or are trying to date someone 10-20 years younger than you. Otherwise, spend some time and put up a nice profile on one of the more mainstream dating apps. I hear those apps are crazy these days and that there are a lot of cons on them, but I personally know of and have heard of many, many online connections and we-met-on-the-internet marriages.

Please keep in touch and let me know about any challenges or happy endings,


- Doctor "Don't Give Up" Liz
 
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