Blow job questions

I was 16 (seems to be the popular age for giving BJs), in my car, parked in a graveyard, in a horny spontaneous moment I went down on him, deep throat, too. It was great, it still makes me feel good at how vocal he was. Oh and of course I swallowed every last bit, and was later terrified when I went home that my Dad would somehow know. Ah, those were the days, lol.
 
mac340 said:
Of course I would be willing to put my theory to the test if any of you ladies would care to practice;)

heh, heh ... you :devil:
 
SlyKitten said:
Seems 17 IS the age to start having sex; I was 17 when I gave my first BJ. My BF at the time was 20. We were making out, kissing and fondling as usual. I reached for his cock and started to please him manually, like I had done a couple of times before.

At one point he just said, “Use your mouth.” I stopped for a second and looked at him, and naturally went down on him. It felt awkward to me, feeling a man’s cock in my mouth for the first time and I am pretty sure it felt awkward to him too, receiving a BJ from an inexperienced girlfriend, but I immediately knew I loved giving oral.

He came in my mouth, and I semi-swallowed, semi-spit. I almost choked too. The next few times he gave me directions and made me compare what I did “wrong” the first time, and correct it. Of course, men are somewhat different in their likes and dislikes so I had to adjust my technique with every man I’ve been with since. But that’s a big part of the fun, to experiment new sensations and tastes.

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your so right on what different guys likes and disliked one guy I dated for some time, wanted mr to Squeeze his balls hard when he was cumming, he be squirming allover... he also loved when he was standing up...I squezzzzzing them and pull on the hanging jewels!!! n HE stomp his foot, the guy was into PAIN i guess?

WHAT I like to do is watch the guys face and his eyes, that whats tells me when i am good and BAD!!! I can get real real BAD
Next guy I tried it with asked me what the hell i was doing! oops

later that night in bed, I was thinking (masturbating about my date)...
I started laughing so loud my younger brother come knoting at my door asking if i was ok.!! I told him to come in, to tell him i was Ok, that when i saw his little guy peek out the gap of his PJ's...I told to go to bed...he left to went back to bed!!!!

it was a long solo night!

It was one them date at the wrong time of the month!
JUst get them off make happy!
LITTLE BABBIES!!!!!!!!
and YES orgasms do help leason the pain when you having cramps!

lisa
 
heh heh

mac340 said:
I guess your not falling for it eh, oh well it was worth a shot;)

:) i have already fallen so hard for my photographer ... wonder if i'll ever get up ;) :cattail:
 
I couldn't cum during blow jobs

Blow jobs for me are only kind of foreplay, I could never cum by blow jobs, I don't know why. Maybe they are all not so experienced. I think the girls should do hand jobs in the meantime, and they should keep doing it, I dislike they take breaks when I feel just good.

I hope I could cum over blow jobs sometime.
 
thrity said:
Blow jobs for me are only kind of foreplay, I could never cum by blow jobs, I don't know why. Maybe they are all not so experienced. I think the girls should do hand jobs in the meantime, and they should keep doing it, I dislike they take breaks when I feel just good.

I hope I could cum over blow jobs sometime.

hmmm ... and maybe they could combine the hand action with the lips/tongue action ;)

do you verbally encourage your girl(s) when they are pleasuring you? works verrry well when my boy tells me how much he's enjoying what i'm doing to him :cattail:
 
story and question...

So- my first time for giving a blow job was when I was 18 and freshman year in college. I went out on my first "college" date and I wanted to make sure I didn't screw things up by acting like the immature kid that I was. I was dumb...I drank way too much for someone who rarely drank before that, and almost ended up getting raped...I will be the first to admit that I Was partly to blame for getting myself into that situation. He started taking our pants off and then put his dick at my lips. He really never got a full erection, he came as soon as I started sucking on him, I passed out. I woke up to him trying to fuck me. Luckily he was too drunk to resist much when I pushed him off, he rolled over and I got out. That was my first and up till this point only blowjob experience.

My question is this: I wear Burt's Bees Lip Balm all the time. When I put it on my lips it tingles wonderfully for a little bit. If I got down on a guy after putting the lip balm on, will the tingle transfer, and will it hurt or feel wonderful? Just a question, as I don't have anyone to practice on right now.
 
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ps_iloveyou said:
My question is this: I wear Burt's Bees Lip Balm all the time. When I put it on my lips it tingles wonderfully for a little bit. If I got down on a guy after putting the lip balm on, will the tingle transfer and will it hurt or feel wonderful? Just a question, as I don't have anyone to practice on right now.

I don't think it would make any difference. If there is any tingling, I think it might make it feel better, though.

I volunteer to be the guinea pig to test on... you're not in New England, are you? :eek:
 
flylow said:
I don't think it would make any difference. If there is any tingling, I think it might make it feel better, though.

I volunteer to be the guinea pig to test on... you're not in New England, are you? :eek:


sadly no...I'm wrapped up here in Chicago...no more winter please
 
thrity said:
Blow jobs for me are only kind of foreplay, I could never cum by blow jobs, I don't know why. Maybe they are all not so experienced. I think the girls should do hand jobs in the meantime, and they should keep doing it, I dislike they take breaks when I feel just good.

I hope I could cum over blow jobs sometime.

For me fucking is foreplay for a nice beej. I love to lick my lover until she cums 3 or more times. While I'm making her cum, she sometimes gets an overwhelming urge to be fucked. I'm happy to accomodate. I'm so fortunate, she cums any way I fuck her... forwards, backwards or sideways. I usually manage to barely hold off while she cums a few more times and is ready to give my very hard cock some serious lovin'. She happenes to be masterful - we've learned to give each other exactly what we like plus a few surprises to not let it become pre-dick-table.

Trust me, once you get a good beej from someone who likes giving them, you'll love it. It'll probably inspite you to become a better cunnilingulator as well. I know it worked for me. ;)
 
I was 15 with an 18year old. He was my boyfriend at the time. I swallowed. We are still friends now, and he even told my husband how great I was at them before we got married. That was kinda weird!!!!
 
bazzjoy said:
For me fucking is foreplay for a nice beej. I love to lick my lover until she cums 3 or more times. While I'm making her cum, she sometimes gets an overwhelming urge to be fucked. I'm happy to accomodate. I'm so fortunate, she cums any way I fuck her... forwards, backwards or sideways. I usually manage to barely hold off while she cums a few more times and is ready to give my very hard cock some serious lovin'. She happenes to be masterful - we've learned to give each other exactly what we like plus a few surprises to not let it become pre-dick-table.

Trust me, once you get a good beej from someone who likes giving them, you'll love it. It'll probably inspite you to become a better cunnilingulator as well. I know it worked for me. ;)

b/j ... your writing makes my pants inexplicably damp ;) ... sounds like your lover is equally as lucky :rose: ... if i wasn't lucky enough to have my photographer, i think i'd be envious :cattail:
 
15 and it was my friends older brother. There was no climax as it was durring a "truth or Dare" game and only lasted 60 seconds or so.
 
morag said:
b/j ... your writing makes my pants inexplicably damp ;) ... sounds like your lover is equally as lucky :rose: ... if i wasn't lucky enough to have my photographer, i think i'd be envious :cattail:

She seems to appreciate the loving i giv'r. She's seen your pics as well, i think we're all engorged. ( :nana: boi-oing :nana: )
 
My girlfriend was 17 her first......she has a joke to go with it "whats the difference between like and love?" "spit and swallow" and she loves me ;)


(sorry if this reply ended up in the wrong place)

OH and im happy for the person who got married, I wish my girlfriend and I could but its way to early to ask something like that even though i love her to peices
 
bazzjoy said:
She seems to appreciate the loving i giv'r. She's seen your pics as well, i think we're all engorged. ( :nana: boi-oing :nana: )

mmm ... engorged ... (where is that photographer of mine, anyway? ;) )

i'm glad she appreciates your good, good lovin' and i think it's great that you and she share this experience ... i'm honoured that you enjoy our pics, as well ... we do all seem to share at least one common interest, n'est pas? (which is how we ended up on this thread, too ;) )
 
I was 15, doing it in the backseat of a VW bug to the school's 16-year-old track star. I think he'd gone on a run earlier that day and hadn't showered cuz he was very salty.

I was still a virgin and this was one of my earliest experiences, though nowhere near the first. (I'd already been doing *lots* of making out, feeling out, getting completely naked, doing everything _but_ for a couple of years already. And no, I was definitely not considered a "popular" girl. I just liked boys ... A LOT! ... and wanted to know everything about these mysterious creaures.)

Needless to say, I didn't have a clue about what to do with Xxxx Xxxx, and there was no affection b/w the guy and me. I didn't go down on him for very long. He was actually pretty big and I remember gagging a bit. So, no, he didn't come in my mouth. I wouldn't let him ... mostly cuz it was clear he wasn't really into my pleasure. Total jerk.

But once I had a steady boyfriend year or so later, it became part of my usual repertoire. To this day, I've always enjoyed giving and how it makes me feel: wet and turned-on, powerful, sexy, feminine.

Only once have I ever had a guy push me away. He was 23, I was 25. I thought it was a little strange that he tried to pushed me away, so I persisted a little bit and he let me finish. Still, I kind of feel bad about it. I shouldn't have pushed him, cuz I've been on the receiving end of something I didn't want and really meant, "stop it!" Anyway, Good Catholic Boy broke up with me about two months later. :shrug:

Now, being in my 40s, it's great being able to give all kinds of different sensations to a lover. This past year I've become increasingly attracted to a man from S.E. Europe and I've been fascinated with what it must be like giving a blowjob to an uncircumsized man.

Anyway, that's my perspective in a nutshell (as it were ... <w>).

BTW, I love Lit!
 
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OneSublimeGuy said:
Hmm, I was just wondering. Do you enjoy taking direction during the BJ?? I don't mean being spoken to in a demeaning fashion. But it turns me on to control the succession of techniques 'cause I can maximize the pleasure before I pop off.


That's an excellent question, one I'd never pondered before.

But now that you mention it, I guess I'd say that no, I wouldn't enjoy being directed. I prefer he lay back and just enjoy ... maybe a little indication to "slow down so I can try and hang on a while longer" or moans to indicate that I'm on the right track ... or even a little grabbing of my hair to let me know I'm in the right direction.

Ultimately, extensive verbal directions are a turn-off. Too clinical. Moans, "oh, I love that ... don't stop" are what I prefer. Moving around, moving of my hands from here-to-there, having him show me what he likes, lots of eye-talk, etc. is my preference.
 
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