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Do you have a date night with your partner?

No, we've tried in the past. It worked for awhile but then they ended up getting "postponed" regularly and never rescheduled.

Do you/should you have a “let’s try something new” sex night scheduled in a relationship?

I would like to. I'd like to try some new things, but she's not usually down for it. Getting her to participate in the old standbys is difficult enough. 😆

Do you regularly have a conversation (feedback, etc.) about sex with your partner?

I try to, but she generally doesn't want to talk about it. Or it somehow turns into a fight.

If you told your partner “Anything goes” for sex one night, what do you think they would come up with?

Going to sleep. 🤣

What would you come up with?

Anything from my bucket list that I havent gotten to experience, which is quite extensive. Sex outside, sex in a car, threescore, sex in a hottub, anal just off the top of my head...

What is a sexual act you want to try, but you’re too shy, concerned, hesitant or embarrassed to bring up with your partner now or in the past?

See above. Only had 2 partners, so not much chance to try much outside the basics.

How do you keep sex alive and well in a relationship?

If you figure out the secret, let me know. I've ben trying for 12 years. 😂
 
Does anyone use “JOI” (jerk off instruction) videos?
No. I would definitely be down for it live (in person, or remotely by audio/video) with the right partner. Maybe recorded if it was specifically for me. But generic videos, nah.

Do you find them sexy or just odd?
If it's personal, yes. The widely available ones you can get through porn sites, not for me.

Have you ever made a JOI for a friend?
I have not.

Is there a Jill Off Instruction version of this?
I'm sure it's out there.

When you look at porn, do you imagine yourself as the person in the video, or do you feel more voyeuristic?
It depends on the video, but usually imagine myself. To the point I usually enjoy porn where the guy looks somewhat like me (with less of a gut 🤣) and is similarly endowed, and the woman they're with is similar to who I may be fantasizing about. It can be quite the search sometimes, ha.
 
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Gotta love a good coach.

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Speaking of a good coach . . .

Does anyone use “JOI” (jerk off instruction) videos?
No, I can't see the point in them. But that's me. Others maybe do.
Do you find them sexy or just odd?
I don't no if odd is the right word, but they doesn't turn me on. Maybe if I knew it was exclusive for me it would work.
Have you ever made a JOI for a friend?
No, never.
Is there a Jill Off Instruction version of this?
I'm curious too.
When you look at porn, do you imagine yourself as the person in the video, or do you feel more voyeuristic?
It depends on the scenario.
Does breaking the fourth wall ruin the fantasy or increase it?
Definitely increase!
 
Gotta love a good coach.

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Speaking of a good coach . . .

Does anyone use “JOI” (jerk off instruction) videos?
I have never even heard of this.
Do you find them sexy or just odd?
I’m going to lean toward informational. If you dont know anything, it’s good to get some vague pointers
Have you ever made a JOI for a friend?
No…
Is there a Jill Off Instruction version of this?
I have also not heard of this
When you look at porn, do you imagine yourself as the person in the video, or do you feel more voyeuristic?
Voyeuristic
Does breaking the fourth wall ruin the fantasy or increase it?
I don’t know that I pay much attention to that. 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
I don’t know that I pay much attention to that. 🤷🏻‍♀️
You mean you aren't paying attention to the intricate plots and exquisite cinematography? 😲

And I feel like JOI videos is half of what gets recommended to me on Pornhub. 🤣

But then again, I'm male and all, so maybe it's the targeted recommendations.
 
You mean you aren't paying attention to the intricate plots and exquisite cinematography? 😲
And the soundtrack…
And I feel like JOI videos is half of what gets recommended to me on Pornhub. 🤣
I have a very different genre in mind :D
But then again, I'm male and all, so maybe it's the targeted recommendations.
Could be so. But… I think if that’s what you look at it stands to reason you’d have it suggested for you
 
I have a very different genre in mind :D

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Could be so. But… I think if that’s what you look at it stands to reason you’d have it suggested for you
Thats the weird thing. I dont watch them. But, I feel like half the time its because I'm not signed in.

When I'm signed in it actually gives decent suggestions.

Probably based on my Boner Jams 2024 Playlist. 🤣
 
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