Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[barefootgirl69]

There seems to be one hungry "DD" going around threads of this topic, DM'ing littles (they announce publicly having done so). Raises so many flags - even their username.

Noticed him today.

 

[Liberia]

There seems to be one hungry "DD" going around threads of this topic, DM'ing littles (they announce publicly having done so). Raises so many flags - even their username.

I have got a very weird message, never replied, a few weeks ago and he wanted to know all about my personal psychological issues, my "trauma" and what not. I never answered. I would stay clear!

 

[13Fantasies]

There seems to be one hungry "DD" going around threads of this topic, DM'ing littles (they announce publicly having done so). Raises so many flags - even their username.

I am not in many threads, but im always glad to know its happening.

Not that any of you need assistance, but its nice as other members to know what's going on, especially if someone reaches out to us so we are aware.

 

[PotNoodle79]

I have got a very weird message, never replied, a few weeks ago and he wanted to know all about my personal psychological issues, my "trauma" and what not. I never answered. I would stay clear!

That's creepy as fuck

 

[Liberia]

That's creepy as fuck

I absolutely do not mind talking to strangers and as long as it is not a incest message, crude sexting, weird or anything, I am not offended and sometimes just do not answer because too much to do. But this guy gave me weird vibes. He demanded complete openness and honesty and talked lots about deep psychological issues.

I'd call myself pretty comfortable and secure, but someone else, someone very vulnerable, telling their psychological issues? That could lead to certain triggers being activated and what not.

But I am still fairly new here, so what do I know?

 

[jaybird1967]

I absolutely do not mind talking to strangers and as long as it is not a incest message, crude sexting, weird or anything, I am not offended and sometimes just do not answer because too much to do. But this guy gave me weird vibes. He demanded complete openness and honesty and talked lots about deep psychological issues.

I'd call myself pretty comfortable and secure, but someone very vulnerable, telling their psychological issues? That could lead to certain triggers being activated and what not.

But I am still fairly new here, so what do I know?

It really starts to trigger my protective Daddy instincts when I read this stuff, even though I don’t know any of you. Grrrrr.

 

[PotNoodle79]

I absolutely do not mind talking to strangers and as long as it is not a incest message, crude sexting, weird or anything, I am not offended and sometimes just do not answer because too much to do. But this guy gave me weird vibes. He demanded complete openness and honesty and talked lots about deep psychological issues.

I'd call myself pretty comfortable and secure, but someone very vulnerable, telling their psychological issues? That could lead to certain triggers being activated and what not.

But I am still fairly new here, so what do I know?

You know what is right for you and what seems creepy af? lol

 

[LostHorizon]

I have got a very weird message, never replied, a few weeks ago and he wanted to know all about my personal psychological issues, my "trauma" and what not. I never answered. I would stay clear!

I come here to forget about my personal psychological issues and trauma, not to chat about them.

I find chatting about recipes and stock tips is a much better way to go.

 

[Strixaluco]

I absolutely do not mind talking to strangers and as long as it is not a incest message, crude sexting, weird or anything, I am not offended and sometimes just do not answer because too much to do. But this guy gave me weird vibes. He demanded complete openness and honesty and talked lots about deep psychological issues.

I'd call myself pretty comfortable and secure, but someone very vulnerable, telling their psychological issues? That could lead to certain triggers being activated and what not.

But I am still fairly new here, so what do I know?

You know how to recognise a creep, clearly. People are people here, too.

And demanding is a bold thing to do for a stranger. As if they were in a position to do so

 

[Strixaluco]

I have got a very weird message, never replied, a few weeks ago and he wanted to know all about my personal psychological issues, my "trauma" and what not. I never answered. I would stay clear!

Actually, one of the occasions I noticed was indeed that creep posting that they've DM'ed you - I guess to remind.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Maybe we should get him a Halloween costume.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Let's not forget that we can ask ToPleaseHim to kick him out if he keeps using this thread for his creeping.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

And speaking of Halloween


BOO!!

 

[barefootgirl69]

If anyone gets a message they are uncomfortable with, you can block. We are aware of this individual across all the forums. If he harasses you, take screen shots and send to me or @ToPleaseHim.

 

[Liberia]

If anyone gets a message they are uncomfortable with, you can block. We are aware of this individual across all the forums. If he harasses you, take screen shots and send to me or @ToPleaseHim him.

Block is put on ignore?

 

[barefootgirl69]

Block is put on ignore?

Yes.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I have got a very weird message, never replied, a few weeks ago and he wanted to know all about my personal psychological issues, my "trauma" and what not. I never answered. I would stay clear!

Messaged you out of the blue and asked about your trauma?

Could you share that with me?

 

[Liberia]

Messaged you out of the blue and asked about your trauma?

Could you share that with me?

Sent you a PM.

 

[cascadiabound]

I absolutely do not mind talking to strangers and as long as it is not a incest message, crude sexting, weird or anything, I am not offended and sometimes just do not answer because too much to do. But this guy gave me weird vibes. He demanded complete openness and honesty and talked lots about deep psychological issues.

I'd call myself pretty comfortable and secure, but someone else, someone very vulnerable, telling their psychological issues? That could lead to certain triggers being activated and what not.

But I am still fairly new here, so what do I know?

It's creepy and not okay. Put him on ignore if you want - it will keep him out of your inbox. Anyone who gives you even a little red flag should be regarded with caution.

 

[Jw75766]

Happy Halloween everyone! Hope you have a fun night whatever your plans may be! I'll be handing out candy IF I get any trick or treaters this year, if not, all the gluten free candy is MINE! *Read in Garfield's Halloween voice*

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

What do you call a man that uses your hair as a handle???


DADDY!!!

 

[cascadiabound]

 

[cascadiabound]

http://media-cache-ec0.pinimg.com/600x/d0/97/b9/d097b976e60c687ae95335f2e5f1dc3e.jpg
"HIS"

 

[cascadiabound]

I wrote this quite some time ago. Seems like it might belong on this thread.
PYL = pick your label on the D side of the slash

pyl = pick your label on the s side of the slash

I think that the notion that the PYL must "earn" the submission of the pyl is misplaced. Any more than the the pyl has to be good enough to "earn" the domination of the PYL. As others have said, these things are simply a negotiation of a relationship. Based on communication and of the needs of the two people. This requires trust. And being trustworthy. On BOTH sides.
There is a lot of talk about the pyl needing to be able to trust the PYL in order to be able to submit. While this is true, I think it is equally true, that the PYL must learn to trust the pyl that it is okay to dominate.
This is not unlike courting in any other relationship, but more so.

Because D/s does have power exchange within it - and may have many other elements of kink, pain, impact play, etc, the level of trust between the two people as they communicate their likes, preferences, tolerances; what works and does not work becomes of critical importance. Add to that the necessity of determining how much of your life is controlled by elements of BDSM. For some, this is only about sexual play. For others, it is 24/7 - and a whole range of in between.

Always... is respect, trust and communication.
"earn" is a currency that I would just as soon leave out of it.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]