Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[ChloeOfCascadia]

Welcome Chloe. I think you will find that the littles here can be very helpful.

Thank you, Bunnys for the kind welcome.

I appreciate that. I want to say, I am a mature and empathetic person and while I am single, I can have a respectful conversation with a little about this topic and not make it about pursuing them.

I am genuinely curious, I know that's probably shocking and unbelievable but

I didn't know much about D/s relationships at all and wasn't part of any such community

Learned I was trans, began talking to people about sexuality and relationships and open relationships, and eventually actually got to talk to a domme woman who explained a lot of things to me I had as misconceptions.

I learned what a service dominant personality was, that's me, I had been erroneously categorizing myself as a submissive because I thought all dominants were sadists or hurtful, because... outside of the BDSM community, looking in, with no info, the stereotypes are all we think we know.

I've been called daddy and papi and other names before-
I have absolutely been a dominant partner before-
I've been in age gap relationships almost exclusively with an older female partner, I have done younger maybe once. I'm 42, so it makes sense someone might think of me as a daddy or mommy at this point. I just haven't accepted that role before as part of a lifestyle. I also know age gaps not required, it's more of a mindset and roleset than an age thing. I get that much.

I think I understand what is involved but, i am missing information. This hasn't been my thing before, not officially and not intentionally, but it has happened, so I am curious to know what it entails.

Hopefully this explains why I'm interested and curious, but also, missing a lot of knowledge.

It's like I've dipped my toes into this quite a bit before, but without knowing that is what I was doing, so.... maybe information would help.

I am a kind and loving person and if I should be so fortunate, I'd like to have a better idea what I'm doing. I figure, the DD of the relationship is expected to know what they're doing whereas, maybe it is more forgiving of the lg?

But who knows, I could be still making assumptions. Knowledge wouldn't hurt, is all I'm ultimately saying.

Thanks again, Bunnys.

 

[ARoseSoSweet]

Okay, I like winter and snow, but −50°C is a bit too much! I really hope you’re doing alright over there.

We got a bit of snow this winter too, but most of it has already melted. The lowest temperature we had was around −18°C, so I honestly can’t even imagine what −50 must feel like!

Many of us try to stay home but it isn't an option. Layers and if possible, don't be outside long as frostbite is fast at that temperature.