barefootgirl69
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Take care of yourself, you're important.
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barefootgirl69
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It would be good if I could take my own advice. "You're important" but I don't think that I apply that to myself. Just thinking outloud.
FrenchLopBunny
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Um, your name is on this thread. You’re the most portent of all the importants! Besides, we
you!
FrenchLopBunny
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I don’t know how I got to be this age without comprehending the existence of adult bunny onesies.
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Neanderthal247
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You better stop that thinking, you know you're all that and a bag of chips.
Strixaluco
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Just like Bunny said...
Without you I wouldn't even know I'm a little. Which means I wouldn't have started venturing in bdsm either. Which means I wouldn't have found my partner.
FrenchLopBunny
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Oh my gosh! I didn't even think of that! If Strix never knew she was a little, @barefootgirl69, then what would that have meant for me? She was one of the first people I met on here.
Strixaluco
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Starting a thread on a forum might seem like a insignificant, but sometimes it's VERY significant and important and has major ripple effects.Oh my gosh! I didn't even think of that! If Strix never knew she was a little, @barefootgirl69, then what would that have meant for me? She was one of the first people I met on here.
FrenchLopBunny
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Proof positive, @barefootgirl69 . The post that started it all for me.
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/women-of-lit-a-safe-place-to-share.1600512/post-98592026
Note: Yes, that was really me. SofiaLaFrench is my author account. Once I started becoming active on the Forums, I created FrenchLopBunny to keep my personal life more isolated from my readers who might look for me in the forums.
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/women-of-lit-a-safe-place-to-share.1600512/post-98592026
Note: Yes, that was really me. SofiaLaFrench is my author account. Once I started becoming active on the Forums, I created FrenchLopBunny to keep my personal life more isolated from my readers who might look for me in the forums.
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barefootgirl69
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Um, your name is on this thread. You’re the most portent of all the importants! Besides, we
Oh my gosh! I didn't even think of that! If Strix never knew she was a little, @barefootgirl69, then what would that have meant for me? She was one of the first people I met on here.
Y'all are amazing and I'm so glad this thread had brought something good to your life.
I almost feel bad explaining that I saw the irony of telling someone to "take care of yourself, you're important" when I've been struggling this week to take care of myself! Maybe it was hypocrisy instead of irony, but that's neither here nor there.
As of midnight, my last lil birdie will have flown the nest and I do not like this! I've had my nest since I was 18, and being by myself will be new.
FrenchLopBunny
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I’m maybe not a best one to give advice on the matter, but I’ve heard that people use this as an opportunity to make a change. Maybe focus on self care, get a new hobby. Whatever works, you got this!
Strixaluco
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You started something so wonderful that it was bound to make a difference.
Knowing that something you struggle with is still important to do is not hypocrisy
It's not the same as not caring to even try.
It's a new phase. I trust you will find what to do with it.
And who knows how much you'll actually have your little birds visiting. Over time even with partners and then families.
LatinaCarmen1980
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Be strong. You never stop being mom.
My last one left about 3 years ago and I felt so lost. My entire identity was "mom." I struggled so much to find meaning in my life and to be honest, I still struggle from time to time.
Every day is a new adventure and not always the good kind. Still, remember that your babies were ready to leave the nest because YOU did an amazing job, mom! Never ever forget that.
And, if you find yourself falling into depression.... Talk to someone. I waited entirely too long and I really messed me up.
Time to focus on you.... And there's nothing selfish about that!
PacificWaves
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Becoming an empty nester was a big adjustment for me. Our daughter went to college out of state, and two years later our son went to college in state, but still 350 miles away. Talking to each of them almost everyday day helped.
Now they’re both grown, married with babies of their own. The littles light up our lives.
