Azuldrgon
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I hope you are taking it easy.
It's difficult when you are focused on other things to think about yourself.
A difficult lesson it took a few tries to get right.
Feel better, please.
Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition
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It's difficult when you are focused on other things to think about yourself.
A difficult lesson it took a few tries to get right.
Feel better, please.
barefootgirl69
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All this was talking about was hearing his voice. Nothing in violation of ANYTHING.
Yes, please. Then, I can fall asleep.
All this was talking about was hearing his voice. Nothing in violation of ANYTHING.
Yes, please. Then, I can fall asleep.
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geronimo_appleby
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i did that with three beers and a gin with tonic last night...
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samx99
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I’d love to do this for someone
Strixaluco
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I've had the same situation with sleeping recently. So much longing living together with my Dom, I'd probably sleep both better and more on a daily basis.
Strixaluco
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I got that yesterday 
caitiff1969
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*offers long hugs, and finger combs through hair of those who want/need it*
barefootgirl69
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I got surprise messages and a phone call this evening, so I'm very happy about that. I'm really enjoying that he's taking the time to call even if it's short and to say goodnight. It's important to me.
I like doing that
Thanks....smile
Strixaluco
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Oh btw, yesterday there were 2 premiers... My Dom both ordered for me (we were eating ln the xmas market) and introduced me in a munch where everyone gets their turn to introduce themselves!
Do I need to say more?
Do I need to say more?
katalynn
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Peeks in from around the corner, quietly making my way towards the sofa curling up under a blankie while looking around...
Apologies for being away for a bit. I needed some time away, to gather my emotions and such. Been a pretty lonely path that's for sure..
Hope everyone is doing good.. Any fun plans for the holidays?
Apologies for being away for a bit. I needed some time away, to gather my emotions and such. Been a pretty lonely path that's for sure..
Hope everyone is doing good.. Any fun plans for the holidays?
Strixaluco
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geronimo_appleby
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mornings! 
christmas cheer all round, etc.
christmas cheer all round, etc.
RosewoodTulip
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I've had a few weeks where I've needed more from Daddy than I've been able to give in return.
I've been unwell, exhausted, stressed and mentally overwhelmed too.
He has really been a huge comfort to me - consistently checking on how I am, reassuring me that he's still there even when I'm constantly too tired to stay awake to talk to him, giving me advice and support.
I feel so very lucky.
I also feel guilty. I want to please and to be present and available and I haven't been able to do that very much.
Do any of you have any suggestions of things I can do to show him how important he is to me while I'm trying to recover and get back to myself again?
I've been unwell, exhausted, stressed and mentally overwhelmed too.
He has really been a huge comfort to me - consistently checking on how I am, reassuring me that he's still there even when I'm constantly too tired to stay awake to talk to him, giving me advice and support.
I feel so very lucky.
I also feel guilty. I want to please and to be present and available and I haven't been able to do that very much.
Do any of you have any suggestions of things I can do to show him how important he is to me while I'm trying to recover and get back to myself again?
Otis_Ravelli
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I know it may sound a little cheesy but how about some vouchers offering him things for him once your feeling better? Shows your still thinking of him and gives him something to look forward to once you're feeling more like yourself again.
Mrtenant
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There are so many things a person can do. Attention goes both ways, as you know.
You can say what you have just posted here as a sort of preamble to whatever you decide to do. Its a nice touch.
Suggestions (perhaps you'll think of other things along similar veins of ideas)
and you are online/remote only....
- Play Words for Friends, or Chess
- Write a haiku a day, or every other day
- Read something aloud and record it and send it
- Find fun and funny memes and send them
- Send nudes or recipes
- Sing for him and record it, send it to him
- Make some visual art and send it
- Take a bubble bath and chat with him
In person...
You can do all of the above, but in person
RosewoodTulip
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barefootgirl69
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I moved back to the desert because I didn't want to deal with snow...but, I still love snowmen!
I moved back to the desert because I didn't want to deal with snow...but, I still love snowmen!
Booboobear84
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I actually like snow, and trust me we have it.
Strixaluco
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Me too. Getting more by Xmas eve!
katalynn
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AngelicaS1780
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I was reading some posts on FetLife this morning. This one resonated with me, and I thought I would share it here. It was written by a user called GuideInTheDark.
“In life, we run into so many double standards and inequalities. Women seek fulfillment, understanding, belonging ... Submissives need to serve, but they deserve to be earned. That submission, that giving, is taken for granted by the heathens who claim titles for themselves but throw away the responsibilities.
Doubts, insecurities? Yes, my friend ... Use and abuse are poured into people like acid, like poison. Weakening and rotting the strength inside. Never let anyone enjoy what they refuse to take responsibility for.”
“In life, we run into so many double standards and inequalities. Women seek fulfillment, understanding, belonging ... Submissives need to serve, but they deserve to be earned. That submission, that giving, is taken for granted by the heathens who claim titles for themselves but throw away the responsibilities.
Doubts, insecurities? Yes, my friend ... Use and abuse are poured into people like acid, like poison. Weakening and rotting the strength inside. Never let anyone enjoy what they refuse to take responsibility for.”
barefootgirl69
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This!
So many want to be DD! They want all the benefits, but don't want to put the effort into cultivating a relationship that makes a submissive want to submit to them.
If they only knew how hard it is to submit to someone we have no respect for.
yes wya?
