Do you have a fuck buddy?????

[fnnyworld]

You know, it's funny. I show off on here and on Yahoo and most of the time the immediate reaction "Wow, with a cock like that you must get laid all the time!" Well, no. I mean it's not like I can go around with it sticking out or even pass around pictures without getting slapped. So it pretty much remains a secret except here.

That's probably the problem; I meet men, not their cocks. You need to maintain the confidence that your endowment gives you, but meet the ladies with the whole man! Unless you're selling it....try a smile instead!

 

[Warmslide]

I want to thank...

all of you for keeing this thread moving along...woohooo

I am hoping in the new year to meet a wonderful FB! I have to say I am a realist...even if you are totally friends on both sides...there will be feelings developed, somewhere, somehow...it is natures way! You must decide up front how you will try and deal with it as best you can...

it is better to have made love and lost than to never have had your FB in the first place! (My apologies to whomever I paraphrased so badly there)

 

[Warmslide]

Heres....

a....happy New Years to all of you!!

 

[Missingmeds]

I have a question as to FB situation. This is particularly aimed at the folks that have one and are in a primary relationship with someone other than their FB.

How do you handle the being threatened when the FB becomes possessive and has allowed the relationship to progress beyond the FB stage?

I have wondered about this for a while now. I have several friends that are married and have FBs. One I know is dealing with this situation right now. Her FB has become possessive and is threatening to talk to her S/O if she attempts to quit the relationship.

 

[fnnyworld]

Re: I want to thank...

all of you for keeing this thread moving along...woohooo

I am hoping in the new year to meet a wonderful FB! I have to say I am a realist...even if you are totally friends on both sides...there will be feelings developed, somewhere, somehow...it is natures way! You must decide up front how you will try and deal with it as best you can...

it is better to have made love and lost than to never have had your FB in the first place! (My apologies to whomever I paraphrased so badly there)

I have very deep feelings for my closest "buddy" . I don't imagine we'd be close otherwise. We just both know that marriage ain't in the works and still date others from time to time.

The most important thing for me is that we are friends FIRST!

We both enjoy great sex and know each other's bodies so well.

In our "rules" there is but one. We use protection with others if we have sex with them. With each other, FREEDOM!

It works for us both and keeps our time together carefree.

 

[Missingmeds]

Fnnyworld, that sounds like the best kind of FB relationship.

 

[norcalman662003]

Northern Cali Male here - would love to have one - women only please. PM me for more info.

 

[thegirlfriday11]

no
but i'm now taking applications

 

[illinois_guy2]

no
but i'm now taking applications

mine's ready in triplicate.

 

[frich]

I usually just "lurk" on Literotica - but the way this thread refuses to die, and all the different responses has really stimulated me to post. I am married, and also have fuck budies - but before anyone gets bent out of shape, so does my wife. We both have a very small but (we think) very fine group of friends that includes a couple of fuck buddies for each of us. No, we don't "swing" as a couple - just realized a long time ago ( we've been married over 20 years) that as much as we love each other - and we are completely committed to staying together - sometimes we need more than we normally give to each other to really feel alive! This is not a shortcoming (no pun) - just an honest assessment of our needs and appetites as sexual, sensual beings.

Now, we know that doesn't work for everyone, and that is fine too! Remember - IDIC! Our fuck buddies respect and understand our situation - because they are "buddies" first - and sometimes we get together as often as every week, or sometimes not for several weeks. Last year, a bunch of us ended up in Las Vegas at the same time, and nearly killed ourselves from lack of sleep!

We are always looking for new friends, so those in or near the Austin/S.A. area - come on down!!!

 

[fnnyworld]

Fnnyworld, that sounds like the best kind of FB relationship.

Thanks MM, it solves so many things.

I have a divorce in the works no S/O other than that. Hope you find the advice that will help your friend here.

 

[Missingmeds]

Thanks MM, it solves so many things.

I have a divorce in the works no S/O other than that. Hope you find the advice that will help your friend here.

I think that it is going to get ugly. I don't know that any advice at this point will help.


frich that sounds like some of the people that I know. It works for them and it works very well. I think that honesty is the best policy.

 

[fnnyworld]

If I were still with my S/O, I think I would choose randomly, so that my buddies would stay strangers for that very reason.

Or not at all!

 

[Missingmeds]

I like mine being strangers to one another. It is just easier that way. Plus I like to have different types as FBs. It gives me some variety.

 

[mitchboot]

I had a couple FB's over the last couple years, unfortunately none currently, but still looking again.

 

[emeraldman]

I love this thread, and variety is a good thing!

 

[Warmslide]

Hmmmmm

a few martinis tonight and desperately wishing for a FB.....

 

[Missingmeds]

Wishing a certain new FB were here to enjoy a long soak with me. Or at least the aftermath of one.

 

[prettygrneyes]

Re: Hmmmmm

a few martinis tonight and desperately wishing for a FB.....

stopping into say hello to warmslide and everyone and wishing everyone a happy new year too!!!

 

[fnnyworld]

I love this thread, and variety is a good thing!

A very good thing!

 

[Missingmeds]

A very, very good thing.

 

[FinnMacCool]

g'day to all and a happy new year..my FB and I have been seeing each other for 2 years now,and though I am married,I always find time to treat her well,dinner,movies a call to say hi..while sex is our bond,her friendship to me is one that I will be feral in protecting and cherishing,and she gives the best BJ of any woman I know..hope you all find one as treasured as her

 

[Warmslide]

A final wish...

for 2003...be happy and safe tonight...and those lucky enough to be with a FB....mmmmmmmm...to you!

Thank you all for keeping this thread alive!

 

[Warmslide]

Ok...

it is 2004 and I have not had any ALL year so far!

Have you????? Tell us about it if it was exceptional!

 

[TantaLiza]

It's been since Oct last year... dayum, that sounds so long ago!!! ~sigh~