Do you have a fuck buddy?????

[curved_richard]

I had a F/B and she had a B/F we had a good time til she had trouble with her feelings between him and me we decided to stop. The Idea of another would be nice................

 

[Warmslide]

A Bump...

Sorry to hear about your situation there Curved....it is always hard to lose one...but twice as nice to find one...

I do find the best ones though...are attached, married, etc. Tough to find an FB who is single, who only wants have sex as a buddy...

 

[Joey3308]

Seven days left and no lover, not even a fuck buddy. Oh well, guess I'll just have to pretend....again

 

[curved_richard]

Re: A Bump...

Sorry to hear about your situation there Curved....it is always hard to lose one...but twice as nice to find one...

I do find the best ones though...are attached, married, etc. Tough to find an FB who is single, who only wants have sex as a buddy...

Trust me I would like another, this time we will have to set some ground rules.

 

[No.1Pinklady]

Unfortunately i havent had an FB, but i think it would be an interesting thing to try. I`ve always been intrigued though, how do these kind of things happen? Its not really the kind of thing you`d just slip casually into a conversation i would have thought, but maybe other would care to shed a bit of light on how their "arrangement" came to happen?

I had one until recently, we just sat and talk about it, what we wanted, what we didn't want, and what would and would not be allowed as far as behaviors. We were friends, lovers, and now back to friends, it works out well when niether of us is in a relationship, but our friendship has caused the end of several relationships, we tend to forget that others are not as comfortable with casual sex as we are. It can be a fun way to keep sexual fustration at bay, but you have to remember not to let your emotions get too involved. All and All having a fb or friend with benefits (fwb) can get you thru the dry spells. And teach you a lot about your sexual needs and desires.

 

[micc1]

I had one until recently, we just sat and talk about it, what we wanted, what we didn't want, and what would and would not be allowed as far as behaviors. We were friends, lovers, and now back to friends, it works out well when niether of us is in a relationship, but our friendship has caused the end of several relationships, we tend to forget that others are not as comfortable with casual sex as we are. It can be a fun way to keep sexual fustration at bay, but you have to remember not to let your emotions get too involved. All and All having a fb or friend with benefits (fwb) can get you thru the dry spells. And teach you a lot about your sexual needs and desires.

very well said----i would really enjoy having a FB who was my friend and understood that this is a way for both of us to share some enjoyment w/o the "baggage" of a realationship....not that the baggage is bad---it's just not part of the FB realationship

 

[Guest]

Seven days left and no lover, not even a fuck buddy. Oh well, guess I'll just have to pretend....again

Come see me hun - I'll take care of that for you

Kisses

 

[AAAAhman]

Fuck Buddy.... Not.... still looking.... knows there is a passionate sensuous woman somewhere around here...

 

[Joey3308]

Come see me hun - I'll take care of that for you

Kisses

Sure wish my cock was long enough to make it all the way to your neck of the woods...we'd melt all that snow real quick

 

[Missingmeds]

Sounds to me like you men need to make some road trips.

Maybe from the midwest to the eastern seaboard. Journeying thru Ohio on the way....

 

[No.1Pinklady]

very well said----i would really enjoy having a FB who was my friend and understood that this is a way for both of us to share some enjoyment w/o the "baggage" of a realationship....not that the baggage is bad---it's just not part of the FB realationship

I guess the funny part is that as a woman, if you admit that is how you feel, no one believes it, they think that you are just saying it because it is what he wants to here. Women get just as horny and want to get laid just as bad, and sometimes we are not really looking for more. That is why having a FB who is you friend is such a wonderful thing, they know you well enough to not worry about all the other crap, and to enjoy the time you spend with out looking to the future.

 

[Dhalgren150]

I guess the funny part is that as a woman, if you admit that is how you feel, no one believes it, they think that you are just saying it because it is what he wants to here. Women get just as horny and want to get laid just as bad, and sometimes we are not really looking for more. That is why having a FB who is you friend is such a wonderful thing, they know you well enough to not worry about all the other crap, and to enjoy the time you spend with out looking to the future.

Pink is definitly your color... and i totaly agree with what you say... friends make better F/B.... and sex is just that a release of ones desires.... after all it is a given drive and needs to be met.. or else we get all backed up and then think wrongly......
Dhalgren

 

[Missingmeds]

I guess the funny part is that as a woman, if you admit that is how you feel, no one believes it, they think that you are just saying it because it is what he wants to here. Women get just as horny and want to get laid just as bad, and sometimes we are not really looking for more. That is why having a FB who is you friend is such a wonderful thing, they know you well enough to not worry about all the other crap, and to enjoy the time you spend with out looking to the future.

From one woman to another Pinklady, how very true.

 

[No.1Pinklady]

Pink is definitly your color... and i totaly agree with what you say... friends make better F/B.... and sex is just that a release of ones desires.... after all it is a given drive and needs to be met.. or else we get all backed up and then think wrongly......
Dhalgren

Or get really cranky . Thanks for the compliment.

 

[Missingmeds]

He does have a point, and so do you Pinklady, about the getting cranky if needs are not met.

 

[Dhalgren150]

You are very welcome Pink.
and i did not want to say get all cranky.. but that is soooo true.
and i am feeling very cranky right now too..lol
be vigilant.. on the search to enlightenment... and hope you find your F/B

Dhalgren

 

[Missingmeds]

Cranky huh? So that is what you are feeling Dhalgren?

 

[Dhalgren150]

Cranky huh? So that is what you are feeling Dhalgren?

yes cranky from lack of........

we Dhalgrens are above all truthful...

 

[Tester]

Wish...

No, don't have one, now...had one but she left area...sure would like one again! No female around St. Louis for an older guy?

pm me if interested to see if hit it off..

Tester

 

[Missingmeds]

Ahhh...I see....I also understand.

 

[No.1Pinklady]

You are very welcome Pink.
and i did not want to say get all cranky.. but that is soooo true.
and i am feeling very cranky right now too..lol
be vigilant.. on the search to enlightenment... and hope you find your F/B

Dhalgren

I have no shame, my co-workers are about to find one for me.
They say they will be out in the middle of the day with a searchlight, if I don't find one soon.

 

[micc1]

I have no shame, and I am getting cranky too...... My search for my FB continues

 

[Dhalgren150]

I have no shame, my co-workers are about to find one for me.
They say they will be out in the middle of the day with a searchlight, if I don't find one soon.

well hummmm where is it you work?
i may have to talk to your co-workers.....lol
and i would not say i have no shame.....
a F/B is never to be shameful over but to be savored over..

Dhalgren

 

[No.1Pinklady]

well hummmm where is it you work?
i may have to talk to your co-workers.....lol
and i would not say i have no shame.....
a F/B is never to be shameful over but to be savored over..

Dhalgren

Well there are those who be ashamed to admit that lack of sex makes them cranky or that they need a f/b. When I finally find another I intend to savor every moment.

 

[Tall Sweet Guy]

... i think that we need to work out a system a little like carpooling ... just a database to match people's diaries with those in their neighborhood they'd be prepared to fuck. It'd be like ... oh yes, it's Tuesday today, I wonder who the council has organized for me today. Ah- that's the bell, that'll be the girl from #14 here now ... righto