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Spaaaaaaaa.

A salt scrub, hot stones, foot and hand massage, deep-tissue massage, facial, mani-pedi, all in a soothing, lush atmosphere.

Out of town would be nice, a symbolic leaving of all stress and care behind.

There's this hotel in Dallas, The Joule. I went there a couple of years back on a "girl's trip" to buy lingerie. Lovely hotel with a bar-side infinity pool and a really top-notch subterranean spa. Ahhhhhhhh.

Epic shopping, too. Easily accessed by the hotel's car service............

Oops! Sorry. Got distracted. :eek:

Dang it! I really need a "me time" vacation. This last year has been brutally busy.
 
This is going to sound like a cop out, but I can't do "pampering".

I just don't relax well, well relax to the point I feel pampered. :(

To be honest, I'm the same way. A pedicure once a month is about all the pampering I can take. Well, I do also enjoy that my tea glass is never empty when I go out for dinner. ;)
 
What would be your perfect day of pampering?
I took Mrs MF away for a pampering weekend at a hotel a few months ago. It was perfect for us. I started off with an Indian Head Massage (taking notes for my own technique) while Mrs MF had Hot Stone Treatment (which, contrary to my expectations, wasn't a BDSM torture technique but something nice and relaxing). We spent time in the jacuzzi (shifting around opportunistically when the bubbles switched on), staying in there until we had scared away the other guests with our prune-like transformations. At dinner times, we chose to forego the healthy eating options, heading out instead to restaurants where we enjoyed, successively, a burger night and a sizzling Mexican (who brought us burritos). Later in the evening, we snuggled up together in bed with the naughty in-house movies (one abysmal dubbed soft porn film and then, worse, the Fifty Shades of Grey movie — but even those couldn't detract from our enjoyment).

I'd take another day of that. :)
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I took Mrs MF away for a pampering weekend at a hotel a few months ago. It was perfect for us. I started off with an Indian Head Massage (taking notes for my own technique) while Mrs MF had Hot Stone Treatment (which, contrary to my expectations, wasn't a BDSM torture technique but something nice and relaxing). We spent time in the jacuzzi (shifting around opportunistically when the bubbles switched on), staying in there until we had scared away the other guests with our prune-like transformations. At dinner times, we chose to forego the healthy eating options, heading out instead to restaurants where we enjoyed, successively, a burger night and a sizzling Mexican (who brought us burritos). Later in the evening, we snuggled up together in bed with the naughty in-house movies (one abysmal dubbed soft porn film and then, worse, the Fifty Shades of Grey movie — but even those couldn't detract from our enjoyment).

I'd take another day of that. :)
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Oh, I love the Hot Stones! I was a little skeptical at first, but it felt amazing! How did Mrs. MF like it??
 
Oh, I love the Hot Stones! I was a little skeptical at first, but it felt amazing! How did Mrs. MF like it??
I thought it would be best to let Mrs MF answer that question for herself:

MF mentioned that you were interested in how it felt for me to have the hot stones treatment. I wanted to answer it myself, first time! *waves* :)

MF had booked me a hot stones massage late in the afternoon. I went into the massage room excited. I've had quite a few sport masssages before (painful!) but this one was for fun! The masseuse first started massaging me and then introduced the stones to my back, two at a time. After a while, I couldn't tell whether she was using her hands or the stones to work on me, so I had to ask her. She had been using the stones. I was so relaxed that it wasn't obvious!

Afterwards, MF was laughing at me (not unusual). It was as if I was spaced out. I knew what was happening around me, but I was walking around as if I was floating. I sat down quickly with two pints of water, watching the world going round. The first pint of water went down without touching the sides! The second one quickly followed.

At dinner an hour later, I was eating, but in a trance-like state, still totally relaxed as any attempts at detailed conversation went over my head. MF asked me if I'd like some wine, but I decided: not that night! I remained in a blissful mood all evening and then slept solidly overnight.

Would I have another one? Yes, straight away! :D
Further questions for Mrs MF are most welcome. :)
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I'm easy to figure out. A day at the beach. Comfy lounge chair. And there could be a cabana boy involved.
 
I thought it would be best to let Mrs MF answer that question for herself:


Further questions for Mrs MF are most welcome. :)
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Thank you for answering, it sounds like you had a wonderful experience! I loved my experience, as well. It was totally relaxing with the heat of the stones.

Maybe MF should have one with you the next time! :D
 
To be honest, I feel like one sometimes.
Just the way I was "programmed"

I am relaxing now, while on here. I just don't consider it pampering. Even on vacay I have to be doing somethin.

You know, now that I think about it, relaxing during pampering is a learned thing for me. When I first started to do massage or even a pedicure I'd be antsy, never entirely relaxing and anxious to get moving.

It's only over time that I've trained myself to sort of...relax on trigger. Body work does it almost automatically now. It's better yet if it's a spa day, or even a relaxing spa type weekend. More time to unwind. But, yes, definitely a learned type of pleasure. :)
 
Have you told your partner about all of your past relationships? If so, was it full disclosure or just the highlights? If not, what keeps you from sharing?
 
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