Endless Curiosity

Lit is a sex site. People pair up on occasion, from quick hookup to full out Litlationship. There seems to be a divide on how people choose to conduct their friendships. Do you go public or stay private?

Bonus Question: Is there a situation where that choice might be reversed?

I'm more of a private person, not really a fan of the kiss and tell advertising. No objections to it, just not how I roll. But I've been known to do some flirting on the boards.
Unsure really on these Lit-ships and what not. But it makes sense when exclusiveness happens naturally through friendship, honesty, trust and play, you've got the best of both worlds.
 
Casual: Doesn't suit my kink so not really my thing, but I’d assume private was the way to go. Your sex life, your business.

Litlationship: Privacy has it’s points. Minimizing fallout from breakups being primary. There’ve been a couple of breakups that unfolded on the board in an unpleasant fashion. Not comfortable to observe. I have to think it’s easier to pick up the pieces and move on, too, if the entire board is not privy to your pain.

On the other hand, I enjoy seeing the couples having fun. It’s cute! And there’s a part of my power exchange kink that would hit a deeper intimacy by going public.

Sooooo, on the fence. Case dependent.

Flirting: (Since it came up!) I never have any idea who's doing who, so unless there's an element that implies more intimate association, I assume flirting means nothing.

There was one couple I seem to recall where he would come on and chastise her for not being in bed. She would go! :eek:

Yeah. I eventually realized they were a couple. :p
 
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This isn't the high school hallway or something. I feel and please intensely, but privately. Of course, everyone has the right, within limits, to conduct themselves as they wish here, so I am not judging others. But BDA can cross that fine line into cloying. Just my view
 
It's Friday!! *happy dance*

I'm thinking we should skip the question today and just open it up to the group. What's on your mind? Fun, freaky, silly, and kinky ... bring it on. You can even get deep and serious if you want. It's a free day. :)
 
So hilarious...

Casual: Doesn't suit my kink so not really my thing, but I’d assume private was the way to go. Your sex life, your business.

Litlationship: Privacy has it’s points. Minimizing fallout from breakups being primary. There’ve been a couple of breakups that unfolded on the board in an unpleasant fashion. Not comfortable to observe. I have to think it’s easier to pick up the pieces and move on, too, if the entire board is not privy to your pain.

On the other hand, I enjoy seeing the couples having fun. It’s cute! And there’s a part of my power exchange kink that would hit a deeper intimacy by going public.

Sooooo, on the fence. Case dependent.

Flirting: (Since it came up!) I never have any idea who's doing who, so unless there's an element that implies more intimate association, I assume flirting means nothing.

There was one couple I seem to recall where he would come on and chastise her for not being in bed. She would go! :eek:

Yeah. I eventually realized they were a couple. :p

A Litster breakup on the boards!!! I have 3 friends (sisters) who are FB drama queens. They try to outdo each other, and its funny as hell, the intimate stuff they throw out there to the world.
 
I didn’t think I was going to have anything to post today, buuuuut -

I saw my aesthetician today. The group has moved into new offices. We were sitting in one of the appointment rooms, chatting about the new digs, when this ear-splitting shriek interrupted our conversation. We looked at each other and dashed for the door.

The source of the shriek turned out to be in the next room, doing this frantic little in-place dance, one hand pointing. There were five of us by this time, crowed into a small supply room, four of who were still trying to figure out what was happening.

Then we saw it. A mouse dashed across the baseboard and dived for cover under a rolling cart of towels. :eek:

More screaming ensued. A certain amount of unladylike language. One chair climber. An ill-fated attempt at simultaneous multiple exits through one small door.

Eventually the mouse was isolated under the lid of a sterilizer. The human element, somewhat shaken, returned to their previous tasks. The last thing I heard as the door to my appointment room closed was the receptionist on the phone to building maintenance. She sounded pissy.

What is it about one little mouse in a confined space that can make five women lose their collective shit?

And when I say little, I mean tiny. Tiny. It must have been a baby mouse.

I came home and related the incident to my SO. He laughed, and laughed, and laughed.

He is still laughing. :rolleyes:
 
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I didn’t think I was going to have anything to post today, buuuuut -

I saw my aesthetician today. The group has moved into new offices. We were sitting in one of the appointment rooms, chatting about the new digs, when this ear-splitting shriek interrupted our conversation. We looked at each other and dashed for the door.

The source of the shriek turned out to be in the next room, doing this frantic little in-place dance, one hand pointing. There were five of us by this time, crowed into a small supply room, four of who were still trying to figure out what was happening.

Then we saw it. A mouse dashed across the baseboard and dived for cover under a rolling cart of towels. :eek:

More screaming ensued. A certain amount of unladylike language. One chair climber. An ill-fated attempt at simultaneous multiple exits through one small door.

Eventually the mouse was isolated under the lid of a sterilizer. The human element, somewhat shaken, returned to their previous tasks. The last thing I heard as the door to my appointment room closed was the receptionist on the phone to building maintenance. She sounded pissy.

What is it about one little mouse in a confined space that can make five women lose their collective shit?

And when I say little, I mean tiny. Tiny. It must have been a baby mouse.

I came home and related the incident to my SO. He laughed, and laughed, and laughed.

He is still laughing. :rolleyes:


So what you're saying is, this was pretty much your day:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-7B_mMN5pM
 
I have nothing of any note to say. I'm spent after an extremely hectic working week and my brain seems to have gone off in a huff without even leaving a note. My body is probably still up to providing a few cuddles, though. :)
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I have nothing of any note to say. I'm spent after an extremely hectic working week and my brain seems to have gone off in a huff without even leaving a note. My body is probably still up to providing a few cuddles, though. :)
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Looking forward to spending cuddle time with you Sir :heart:
 
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