Escorts, prostitutes and paying for sex.

[working_girl]

Hmmmmmmmm, if I were a betting man, which I sometimes am, I'd bet that guy who met you at the door with all those clothes pins on was former PM John Major!

It wasn't but he did fit the profile.

 

[working_girl]

Interesting thread you have here, I think it's interesting to read about your experienced.

I've been wondering, why and how you started as an escort?

Allow me to refer you to this post but I give you fair warning, it's on a GB thread.

 

[working_girl]

Interesting choice of words. ...taking a lover in hand...

Yep, pun absolutely intended.

 

[SophieUK]

love your signature ... the joker ...

 

[working_girl]

love your signature ... the joker ...

I know. I have such a thing for him... even though the poor actor's dead. He fills my kinkier fantasies.

Bad girl! *slaps self*

 

[SophieUK]

I know. I have such a thing for him... even though the poor actor's dead. He fills my kinkier fantasies.

Bad girl! *slaps self*

There is certainly nothing bad about such fantasies

 

[working_girl]

There is certainly nothing bad about such fantasies

Thank goodness.

So how's Surrey treating you?

 

[SophieUK]

Thank goodness.

So how's Surrey treating you?

Surrey is treating me well thank you dahling. And you, how are you?

 

[working_girl]

Fine thanks. London is expensive as usual. Tonight I'm in until quite late so I'm sipping wine and sticking 2 fingers up to half the GB.

It's good for my PMT

 

[SophieUK]

Fine thanks. London is expensive as usual. Tonight I'm in until quite late so I'm sipping wine and sticking 2 fingers up to half the GB.

It's good for my PMT

A nice shiraz/cabernet I hope?
I don't have the PMT problem thankfully, its my kids that drive me to drink!

 

[working_girl]

A nice shiraz/cabernet I hope?
I don't have the PMT problem thankfully, its my kids that drive me to drink!

Mmmm do love a shiraz. Hope your kids don't drive you to the bottle too often

 

[SophieUK]

Mmmm do love a shiraz. Hope your kids don't drive you to the bottle too often

Not too often, but on a Friday night its a relief when they finally quieten down, I can grab a glass of red and relax... although I soon crave company again!

 

[ShyGuy68]

Allow me to refer you to this post but I give you fair warning, it's on a GB thread.

Thank you for the link

Do you feel that some of your clients don't have any respect for you, when you are with them?

 

[darjingle]

what are the commonest "poor skills?"

You see a lot of men, and I wondered if you'd share the things we most often could improve upon.

I also thank you for this thread, very much.

 

[ZRT]

What are your feelings on general legalization? What sort of regulatory schemes do you feel should be in place, especially with regards to the protection of sex workers?

On a more personal level, when and how do you intend to explain your current career to your future children?

 

[working_girl]

Thank you for the link

Do you feel that some of your clients don't have any respect for you, when you are with them?

No because I simply don't see those people. My clients are people I've had a few drinks with and connected with at the least. People that have no respect are not ones who get past 1st base with me.

 

[working_girl]

What are your feelings on general legalization? What sort of regulatory schemes do you feel should be in place, especially with regards to the protection of sex workers?

The protection of sex workers is always relative to the drugs industry. People assume that legalisation would solve all our problems when the truth is that clean escorts don't need much regulation or control and trafficked women exist because men will pay to fuck an unwilling girl for little money. Someone like that is not about to start paying double the money for a registered girl who won't allow herself to be abused like that. Whores and drugs are inextricably linked and there will never be a time when there isn't a shady black market in less palatable services.

On a more personal level, when and how do you intend to explain your current career to your future children?

I have been asked this a few times and always find it a strange question. Why would I tell my kids such a thing? Would you tell yours about every casual fuck you had? If I fell pregnant I would leave escorting so why would they need to know? Even if (despite all my precautions) paternity was unknown I could put it down to a casual fling or one night stand without alluding to my work. Surely plenty of other promiscuous women have done as much without a huge amount of scandal in this day and age.

 

[Dreamliner]

Have any of your clients got you thinking later, once they have gone, what it would be like to be with them or meet outside of the client/escort relationship.

 

[ZRT]

The protection of sex workers is always relative to the drugs industry. People assume that legalisation would solve all our problems when the truth is that clean escorts don't need much regulation or control and trafficked women exist because men will pay to fuck an unwilling girl for little money. Someone like that is not about to start paying double the money for a registered girl who won't allow herself to be abused like that. Whores and drugs are inextricably linked and there will never be a time when there isn't a shady black market in less palatable services.

I agree with you there, it's depressingly true. Do you think there are methods by which the exploitation can be ameliorated, though? The best answer I've come up with is public education, but it's a topic that the public is pretty content to remain uninformed on.

I have been asked this a few times and always find it a strange question. Why would I tell my kids such a thing? Would you tell yours about every casual fuck you had? If I fell pregnant I would leave escorting so why would they need to know? Even if (despite all my precautions) paternity was unknown I could put it down to a casual fling or one night stand without alluding to my work. Surely plenty of other promiscuous women have done as much without a huge amount of scandal in this day and age.

I'm not saying this to rain on your parade by any means, but isn't discussing your life a part of parenting, the means by which you transmit lessons learned? Furthermore, isn't there a risk of revelation somewhere down the road causing drama?

And it's the ultimate cliche question, but I'm honestly curious: would you approve of your children going into the business?

 

[TheOneMan]

Just some random questions if your willing to disclose the information ^^. Whats the most you have been paid for a single session with someone?


I'm quite in awe, for lack of a better term, of the way your willing to educate us on your work. One thing that i think worries me most about girls who follow this kind of life is what happens when someone gets violent with you in a way which you dont like? Do you have your own body guard kind of person hanging near by? Or are you capable of looking after yourself?

I have a friend who likes sex alot and *did* often go out and just have sex with any random guy that took her fancy. Although she already had a very devoted boyfriend and baby. Worst part was she didn't know why she would do it, since christmas though she has stopped and just taken to talking to me about her urges =/ Would there be any advice you could give me to say to her if she decided to start again?

Feel free to PM me if you dont wanna talk out here about it ^^

P.s. Nice to find a few more Londoners around, was starting to think i was the only one around hehe

 

[working_girl]

Have any of your clients got you thinking later, once they have gone, what it would be like to be with them or meet outside of the client/escort relationship.

Occasionally but it's not a thought I really allow myself to entertain. It's still a business and getting infatuated with people just puts me at a huge disadvantage. I won't say I never wonder but I wouldn't act on it. Few guys can peel off the escort label from me and discard it completely, there's very rarely a happy-ever-after from that kind of thing.

Unless you're Julia Roberts.

 

[working_girl]

Just some random questions if your willing to disclose the information ^^. Whats the most you have been paid for a single session with someone?


I'm quite in awe, for lack of a better term, of the way your willing to educate us on your work. One thing that i think worries me most about girls who follow this kind of life is what happens when someone gets violent with you in a way which you dont like? Do you have your own body guard kind of person hanging near by? Or are you capable of looking after yourself?

I have a friend who likes sex alot and *did* often go out and just have sex with any random guy that took her fancy. Although she already had a very devoted boyfriend and baby. Worst part was she didn't know why she would do it, since christmas though she has stopped and just taken to talking to me about her urges =/ Would there be any advice you could give me to say to her if she decided to start again?

Feel free to PM me if you dont wanna talk out here about it ^^

P.s. Nice to find a few more Londoners around, was starting to think i was the only one around hehe

Sleeping around with random guys is risky in the extreme. I try to minimise risk where possible so I don't believe the two scenarios are comparable. I meet potential clients for a drink beforehand and I do read people well. I have a driver who is always present as security and he is always the last number dialled on my phone so I only have to press 2 buttons to let him know that something's wrong. We also have an agreed failsafe so if a guy holds a carving knife to my throat and insists I tell my driver I'm ok, I can use an innocuous agreed word like 'fabulous' and the driver will know I'm being threatened. It has never happened yet but it's good to have things like that in place. Also, being private and being moderately priced does exclude a lot of the assholes. If a guy is setting out to hurt a girl, he'll probably pick up a streetwalker because they have no back-up whatsoever and their lifestyles mean that it can be days before they're missed.

And it's the ultimate cliche question, but I'm honestly curious: would you approve of your children going into the business?

I am getting loads of questions about kids and I feel inequipped to answer really. I don't have any, I don't want any and my opinions would probably shift if I became a mother so it's all moot as far as I'm concerned.

If I had a daughter who wanted to be an escort, I'd discourage it but I wouldn't disown her or anything if she insisted. You can't do that with legally adult kids, whatever path they take. If she did insist on escorting, I could at least ensure she was doing that as safely as possible. At this stage in my life, I really don't know what else to tell you.

 

[satindesire]

Why did you leave the GB thread?

 

[working_girl]

Why did you leave the GB thread?

Well it kind of died a natural death really. I made a bad choice and used pics that weren't of me in my profile etc. I wanted to keep my confessions here separate from my supposedly discreet online working persona. Needless to say, I lost serious cred with the GB career trolls who had been waiting for me to slip up on something. It was regrettable but you live and learn. I'm not about to disappear or pick a new username. I did have a couple of nice pms from people who understood why I did what I did. I never expected for there to be so many abusive people there though, who were tearing strips off of me simply because I don't have 30,000 posts and fuck all else to do with my time. FWIW, the pic I'm now using is one of my glamour shots but for some reason it hasn't taken kindly to being shrunk. I'm not much of a tech-head I'm afraid.

 

[satindesire]

Well it kind of died a natural death really. I made a bad choice and used pics that weren't of me in my profile etc. I wanted to keep my confessions here separate from my supposedly discreet online working persona. Needless to say, I lost serious cred with the GB career trolls who had been waiting for me to slip up on something. It was regrettable but you live and learn. I'm not about to disappear or pick a new username. I did have a couple of nice pms from people who understood why I did what I did. I never expected for there to be so many abusive people there though, who were tearing strips off of me simply because I don't have 30,000 posts and fuck all else to do with my time. FWIW, the pic I'm now using is one of my glamour shots but for some reason it hasn't taken kindly to being shrunk. I'm not much of a tech-head I'm afraid.

Ah, I see.

Well, hopefully that won't happen again, eh? The people in the GB are mostly really hateful...I guess a non-modded forum attracts the people who want to spew vitriol and spite without getting into trouble naturally...like flies to shit.

I don't go into the GB anymore because of the trolls, just isn't worth it.

Have a good one!