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Details Nyx details or was this the poof I missed.... Dang it I bet it isSeeing that was way better than the chocolate chip brownie cookie...
You know it wasDetails Nyx details or was this the poof I missed.... Dang it I bet it is
Ever since that poof I have boob shaped hole in my soul. I didn't mean for that to rhyme and sound cute this is a very concerning matter.You know it was
There are a lot of good thoughts here. I would simply say that you might be surprised how much self doubt, second guessing, imposter syndrome, and such run through these self confident people. I will offer that most people who know me "IRL" would lump me in that group. It's basically a requirement to even get started in my profession and in order to have the kind of success I've had over a 30 year (this week!) career, you have to keep it up.Over the last few days I've been thinking about confidence.
There are lots of times I wish I was more naturally self confident. I look at people who just exude total confidence and that seems very nice sometimes. Like it makes everything easy. I do notice that confident people often just believe their way of thinking and decisions are right because... of course they are! I thought it and I believe in myself and therefore I must be right! I'm jealous of how simple that must be to not second guess, over consider, or think about every possible reaction. I also see how confident people can just stampede through others' lives without really wondering about it.
I was talking with a friend here about how we often vent problems without checking in first on that person to make sure it's a good time for them to accept it. My natural reaction was to say "Bring it on! It's always a good time!" but on reflection, I'm not always in the place to be able to listen and be my best. As an example, I would love to support you through a career decision but I'm in the middle of a fight with my mom. No it's not a good time but thank you for asking!
I know these thoughts seems really disconnected but I think it's just acknowledging the impacts we have on other and approaching that with a little humility and less assumption. Confidence is great. I'm not bashing it at all but self-reflection is also great.
And this has been one truly random thought..... ::curtsies::